I try to leave and the thing I am afraid is what i am gona do when i miss him. First he dont want to marry me. And then If he marries me he puts to many terms and conditons. I am just not strong to leave him. Tell me how to leave him and never look back. Like i did it first time but we got back together because I wanted to be with him. But he's just dont treating me write and I am aftraid to leave him agian.
2006-10-27 07:51:33 · 14 answers · asked by ALMAS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your fiancee will probably leave you because your grammar sucks.
2006-10-27 07:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Life is too short to let someone take your joy away. Get some counseling for yourself. Once you get your self esteem where it should be you will be able to make the right decision. If he doesn't want to marry you don't force the issue. If he marries you because you push it you will both be miserable.If he is putting conditions on marrying you he is either trying to talk you out of it or is a total control freak and that is someone you definitely do not want to spend your life with. Remember you are worthy of love and this relationship is not love.
2006-10-27 08:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just do it! there is no easyway there are cop outs like leaving and not returning no note no nothing! but thats highschool ish and well my cousin wouldn't even do that!
or face to face!
just say
hey i loved you and i thought you would be the one but i have notice we have grown apart instead of together and i just don't feel liek putting the effort forward to keep this relationship going! i feel that it is only me putting in the effort anyway!
your not meeting my needs and my desires! and someone will! so here is your ring back i thank you for the great times we had!
and leave!
okay may sound easy but it's hard to do!
but before youdo this! you need to set your goals what do you want in a guy the sky is the limit! and once youi have that mission set up of who you want! focus on that! then get it!
when ever you feel like your ready to run to him!
look at your list of goals and what you want in a guy and think and ask yourself ! if this guy you already tried this with have any of these things! if not then your wasting your time! and you want your goal don't you?
Remember
trust, communication, and passion are key elements to a GREAT relationship
2006-10-27 07:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easiest way is to first find a new b/f into whose arms you can go.
Find a new boyfriend who will take care of you before you leave the old one...Now you are smart enough to know that you don't want a long term relationship with someone you don't want to marry or who will not want to marry you..
You need to start looking for an older, wealthy mature stable man who will marry and take care of you ..
It is as easy to love a rich man as it is a poor man...
2006-10-27 08:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being co-dependent and addicted to the drama. Your relationship is based on rejection and you seem to enjoy him doing it. He doesnl;t have the guts to dump you, not because he loves you, but because he is a coward and a player.
Girl, you have to love your self and get your act together. He doens;t wanna marry you, otherwise, he would have already. This tormentous relationship is going nowhere and he doesn;t repsect you because you keep on begging.
What are you affraid of> To live without the drama? Are you affraid of being happy and respected and loved by someone that deserves you?
You deserve better than that. Wise up!
2006-10-27 08:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, get some self esteem. You deserve better...why would you settle for such a crappy situation?
Second, if he won't marry you (without "conditions") then move on. Why are you wasting your life on him?
Third, who says you'll be alone when you leave him? Set your priorities straight and raise your standards in men and you'll find someone better to have a FULFILLING and MUTUAL relationship with.
Good luck!
2006-10-27 07:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by DivaDynamite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i might sense a similar way. And particular, i think of a super form of it is your hormones. :) and there is not any longer something incorrect with that (i'm pregnant with my third and each thing my husband does irritates me lol) Your fiance loves you. He did no longer choose for to flow previously each and every thing, bear in mind? then you definately inspired him to flow be together with his pals. So what if she's there, he did no longer flow there to be certain her. regardless of if he did, it became probable merely out of idle interest, and particular there'll consistently be that connection, and merely such as you stated, that's weird and wonderful, so because it extremely is each and all of the greater reason he will probable chat it up with each and all of the pals, and her too, and then ignore approximately it. as long as he's no longer purposely attempting to be certain her, then it extremely is going to all be effective. certainly you stated something that made me think of...I nonetheless have my previous scrap e book with like 3 pages of me and my ex in it....contemplate whether that bothers my hubby? hmmmmm humorous you stated that. it extremely is almost suggestions and being youthful. If he's no longer attempting to cover it from you i does no longer hassle. yet i might ask him to do away with it. lol wager that makes me a hypocrite. the undeniable fact that he text textile you and informed you shows that he's in develop and elementary approximately it. do no longer hassle. till he starts off desirous to be certain her as "pals" back. lol Then i might placed my foot down. ;) savor your toddler and upcoming wedding ceremony. it extremely is all so properly worth it. you will love being married (properly, no longer each and all of the time lol) and you will love being a mom. :)
2016-11-25 23:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid. Find your strength within yourself Sister!! You cannot possibly want this man for the rest of your life........just say you need time, and say goodbye. And LIVE!! Find your happiness! You deserve to be happy, set your mind.........and leave. Many blessings!
2006-10-27 07:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to truely decide what is right and wrong about him for yourself. Is he cruel or violent with you?Is it all mental abuse? This you must decide for yourself and remember why you are leaving and keep reminding yourself of that reason.
2006-10-27 07:56:16 · answer #9 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like your name....is it spelled almaze......first of all think of all the miserable life you will have when you marry him..it will get worst.I always say my mom carried me 9month to be happy....remember that...get the heal out don't look back.one day you will thank your self when you meet the guy who will treat you like the gods....& trust me there are guys like that out there....you will find him one day as soon as you leave this jerk....good luck!!!
2006-10-27 08:08:06 · answer #10 · answered by Jazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn proper grammar?
2006-10-27 08:05:03 · answer #11 · answered by Barrett G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋