is it dirty for your girlfriend to give you a little striptease, we have been dating for well over 2 years and she says anything like that make her feel dirty. im not doing to push the suject.
2006-10-27 07:58:54 · 33 answers · asked by jimmy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not dirty, but it makes her feel that way so I wouldnt push it.
2006-10-27 08:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you do it for someone you care and trust, then no, but it might not be an issue with you. Maybe something's happened in her life, or she was raised being taught that it was dirty. In which case, it's something that makes her uncomfortable that you should have enough respect not to expect. Have you given her a striptease? Does she like it, are you willing to put yourself out there too?
2006-10-27 08:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not dirty. It's fun. But you might as well give up. She's never going to do it. Have her give you a fashion show by taking off and putting on the clothes in her closet. That's as close as you'll get to a striptease.
2006-10-27 08:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No it is not, hey as long as she is over the age of so-and-so put it on the web and we can give you an even more accurate response 8>}
Seriously though, Nothing is dirty(?) if you are both happy to do it.
2006-10-27 08:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by iusedtolooklikemyavatar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is not dirty. It is great to find out what turns your lover on and then giving it to them. Give her time, but don't let it go. I am guess that she is probably a younger lady. SOme of this stuff comes with time.
2006-10-27 08:23:31 · answer #5 · answered by KaLee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not dirty its fun and sexy, and its nice when your partner has the confidence to do something like that, but as she doesn't feel comfortable doing it for you, don't push it, but you never know she might come around sooner or later if not she may have something else in mind, but if she doesn't don't worry it doest mean she loves you any less.
2006-10-27 08:06:17 · answer #6 · answered by abbie g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she really means is she feels shy and may be embarrassed, talk to her if this is the case leave it. She has to be comfortable with it and not all females are.
Why not try a male strip tease a few times and see if it help her find her comfort zone.
2006-10-27 08:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not dirty, but some people can be very uncomfortable over things like that. ask her what turns her on and what her fantasies are to get a better understanding
2006-10-27 21:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is between two consullting adults within a relationship how does it make her feel dirty.
2006-10-27 08:59:53 · answer #9 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it isn't dirty, but if she feels uncomfortable you should not push this. She probably feels she would look silly - and I can't blame her. Women tend not to be confident about their bodies - give her lots of encouragement and see what happens.
2006-10-27 08:01:44 · answer #10 · answered by Ally 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋