Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

I'm just wondering how long can social services keep a family apart. My husband was asked to leave the house for approximately 3 months, but it looks like it could be longer. Is this right?

2006-10-27 07:39:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he gave me a lift home the other day and he flirted with me and told me he thinks i'm georgous and my ex is mad to act like he does. i am over my ex now as he has done nothing to change. his mate told me they arn't close anymore (my ex has done a few things across him in the past), in fact i get the impression most of his mates don't think much of him. This guy is really nice and my ex sleeps around which is why i don't have any respect for him. Would it be wrong to start a romance with this guy?

2006-10-27 07:39:03 · 16 answers · asked by DONNAIS 2 in Singles & Dating

there is this boy and he always talks to me and messes with me and is like mean to me at times . not rude but he like jokes with me. Does he like me?

2006-10-27 07:37:09 · 18 answers · asked by megan s 2 in Singles & Dating

Today, divorce rates are souring, we are in an epidemic of new STDs and a re-defined ignorance for everything. According to the site below, an average from 90-02 on divorce rates is at about 36.4%

Now according to the site below, "Nothing can kill romance faster than the word prenup" and most women I talk to tend to agree on this, also many women and men seem to get offended when you ask your partner to be tested for STDs (although it doesn't guarantee that if they come out clean, they wont cheat on you and eventually give you something). Regardless, most of the posts on this site are totally ignorant about the simple fact that no contraceptive method (I'm sure hysterectomy would count different) is 100%, and condoms have shown not effective at all in treating diseases like HPV (not that they don't help, just they don't rank very effectively against HPV).

http://www.divorcereform.org/rates.html
http://www.bankrate.com/brm/prenup.asp
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/HPV

2006-10-27 07:37:01 · 13 answers · asked by D 4 in Singles & Dating

I take this woman I know out for coffee once in a while. I haven't told my girlfriend about it but I don't really think it's a big deal. I've heard some pretty crazy definitions of cheating. Would you honestly consider this cheating?

2006-10-27 07:36:28 · 68 answers · asked by Jesse D 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on a guy who has a crush on a girl...and im NOT in highschool >.<
anyway, hes liked her a long time and she totally knows it, she has a boyfriend that she has been with for a while and they SEEM really happy together, but this girl flirts with the guy who has a crush on her and leads him on all the time, Ive seen her do it IN FRONT of her boyfriend. This girl is just bad news and i want to help the guy who is so stuck on her, and make him realize if they were ever together, she would probably just be flirting with other guys in front of HIM. What kind of poison would be reccomended for disposing of her? (JK!)

2006-10-27 07:36:13 · 7 answers · asked by Shhh! 2 in Singles & Dating

is i still like to jack off and give oral sex to my buddy from college even now that we are married

2006-10-27 07:36:07 · 24 answers · asked by kc dude 1 in Singles & Dating

the minute you haven't answered their call and haven't called back within 5 minutes or haven't replied to their text straight away?

2006-10-27 07:35:53 · 22 answers · asked by little_friend 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 07:35:23 · 36 answers · asked by Barrett G 6 in Marriage & Divorce

im looking for a girl from Butler pa. her name is Deana Snyder,shes about 29 yrs.old..she has 2 kids..a sister nicole can u help?...i tryed peoplesearch on this computer but it all cost money

2006-10-27 07:34:51 · 12 answers · asked by Joker 3 in Friends

My and my BF got into a fight on Sunday...our relationship is difficult but we Love each other very much...but he call me and i was mad so i told him that it was over...thinking that he will beg me like he always does but this time didn't work. He's done this before but for like 2 days and then he calls me back and we're back together again...but now is like Friday and i haven't heard from him i'm scared but i'm too proud to call him cause i know he's going to be pisst...is it over this time for real or is he doing it to test me????...PLEASE HELP!!!

2006-10-27 07:34:14 · 19 answers · asked by nhng06 1 in Singles & Dating

between when a guy tells you that he "hopes to see you when he gets back" and when a guys says he "wants to see you when he gets back" if there is any...
I have a friend (we hooked up a few weeks ago) who's told everyone else that he 'hopes' to see them when he gets back but he keeps telling me that he 'wants' to see me. Would you say there is a difference?
Also, he said that he doesnt feel like he should keep asking to see me and I keep asking why, and why he cant just say he wants to see me. Im confused and I dont know what he wants from me! I just dont want to get hurt...he will be leaving again in a week and will be stationed in another state for another two years!!
Please answer even if its a short answer...Thanks!

2006-10-27 07:34:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my grandma just passed away....can anyone please help me think of some songs that we should play at her funeral?

2006-10-27 07:33:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-27 07:33:17 · 10 answers · asked by sha 1 in Singles & Dating

I have already designed them and am doing it to save money. Or would it be cheaper to just order them from someone?

2006-10-27 07:33:02 · 6 answers · asked by bonobarb 1 in Weddings

My boyfriend and my friend is closer than me and him.I think that the more time he spends with her I like him less and less

2006-10-27 07:32:08 · 10 answers · asked by Stormie P 1 in Singles & Dating

so this is what happened me an my gf were walking home 2day and we were talking bout sumin and she got a little irratated(I said she cant take a joke) and said" let me go"(i was holdin her hand while we were walking)and i said" No I wont let you go"(I was serious)she just looked at me then we continued walking just up to her place..She was mad but why also im stronger than her so she felt inferiour to me is this true??

2006-10-27 07:32:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Months ago, In a moment of weekness and dispair, I slept with one of my bestfriends who is involved with another friend of mine. I know we both were wrong and we have both decided to put it behind us but have no desire to give up our friendship. He is still with this other friend who is unaware of our past indescretion and I have found someone who I believe is my soul mate. I can tell my friend is a little jealous sometimes but I look past that and have encouraged him to do the same. I can see my new relationship developing into something spectacular and permanent. My friend and my bf have met and I speculate they will meet more in the future. My question is, do I tell my soul mate about this past indescretion or just forget it ever happened?

2006-10-27 07:31:21 · 15 answers · asked by QueenE 2 in Friends

She is staying with me she is a tottally bossy b, she has no job,no education and driving me crazy but her and my husband our so close I try to ignore her, she asked my 8 year old daughter did your mom say anything about me living here with you??? what kind of mess is that why did she want to know? You think she wanted to start some stuff, my daughter told me she was talking about me and my husband said to her you know the kids our going to go back and tell her these things your saying.

2006-10-27 07:31:14 · 7 answers · asked by sam a 2 in Family

2006-10-27 07:31:08 · 1 answers · asked by dathan_carter 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I seem to be ticking everybody off this week. my grandma was on the phone last night crying and my mom just fused me out over me getting ring one which I haven' gotten yet. I'm seemingly doing nothing wrong. my grandma doesn't want me to move i n wit my friend set and now I can't get the ring tone I want or even talk about the two subjects. help!!!

2006-10-27 07:27:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

because last night i got in a bad fight with my boyfriend and I am so upset. so like please help me cheer up or something i dont know what to do i can't focus on work! my boyfriend lies to me about what he's doing and we've been going out for 2 and a half years already! i'm scared he might be cheating or wanting to cheat : (

2006-10-27 07:27:55 · 26 answers · asked by iHEARTjuicy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years. The first two and a half years, we dated long distance, but have lived together for over a year and a half. We have talked about marriage numerous times, and often say things like "oh, at our wedding.. I'd like this or that" or "I want to retire by our 30th wedding anniversary" etc .. But he still hasn't asked me yet. Our relationship is stable, we have little arguements like any couple, but we are relatively normal in that regard. Financially.. We recently spent over 2 grand on a new HDTV, but when I asked about a ring, he said he didn't think we should spend the money right now. I don't understand.. he's 27, so it isn't a matter of being too young. I don't know why he hasn't proposed yet. Any ideas?

2006-10-27 07:27:37 · 30 answers · asked by K 2 in Weddings

If joint custody is granted to my daughter's father does that mean I have to stay in the same state? We live in New Jersey. I want 2 move 2 Florida. We go to court in November and I doubt they will find any reason to give me sole custody. He is trying to get joint and have her live with him but she would get out of school after he was already @ work and he doesn't get off any earlier than 11:30pm so I am hoping they won't take her from me. there isn't anythng here 4 me anymore and I have an opportunity 2 move 2 Florida. I'm afraid i won't b able 2 though if they grant joint custudy.

P/S - what are his chances of getting joint but her living with him?

2006-10-27 07:27:34 · 5 answers · asked by ninalopez19 2 in Family

my mom died 2 mt's ago we were very close it still doesn't feel real 'I can't bear to think about her so I keep pushing the thought away' is that normal 'my sister is having a hard time excepting this too I want to help her 'but don't know how she won't even get with me to decide what to do with moms house and belongings.she lived with her most of her life and won't move back in their ,says shes homeless but can't bare to live their without her; I HAVE TOLD HER SHE CAN HAVE MOMS HOME IF SHE WANTS TO stay their 'I don't need it ;I own a home 'shes staying with her kids;one week with one the next with another'is it hopless '

2006-10-27 07:27:07 · 19 answers · asked by deedee 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 07:27:05 · 8 answers · asked by Blake S 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 07:27:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think it is my age, and some of the unbelievable things that happened when I was growing up.

2006-10-27 07:25:44 · 15 answers · asked by sweetsmile 2 in Friends

My Father passed when i was a baby, who or should I not dance the first song? How does that work, I dont think I have a close male relative? Advice

2006-10-27 07:25:10 · 13 answers · asked by indiradelmar57 1 in Weddings

Maybe I'm old fashioned -- but does anyone else think it's weird to meet guys on somewhere like myspace? I get guys wanting to be my friend and asking for my phone number. And I guess I'm REALLY old-fashioned (as-in I wouldn't even consider doing online dating like match or eharmony). Do people meet through places like myspace and friendster all the time? I start e-mail conversations with a few people but then I shut it off when they want my number or want to me. Why am I so weirded out?

***By the way... I'm 30 (so it's not a teen issue).

2006-10-27 07:24:55 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating