She is staying with me she is a tottally bossy b, she has no job,no education and driving me crazy but her and my husband our so close I try to ignore her, she asked my 8 year old daughter did your mom say anything about me living here with you??? what kind of mess is that why did she want to know? You think she wanted to start some stuff, my daughter told me she was talking about me and my husband said to her you know the kids our going to go back and tell her these things your saying.
2006-10-27 07:31:14 · 7 answers · asked by sam a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to sit down with your husband and set down rules for your sister in law, this person sounds like she has nothing better to do than make trouble. You need to stand up for your self weather you hubby stands with you or not,
2006-10-27 07:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not put up with that behavior in my house where I am paying the bills for HER. Have a little talk with her and ask her to not speak to your daughter about this situation as she is a child. And tell her you are getting a little upset that she is doing nothing with her life. Tell her you are concerned with her future. Best bet, make it sound like you really care what she is doing. This way you don't have to worry about your husband getting bent out of shape and you can't be accused of being ugly to her.
2006-10-27 14:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do believe she is. She knows that she should probably be living some place else and is using your kids to get the inside scoop. I am surprised that your husband doesn't tell you what she is up to. I say put her out as soon as possible before she stirs all kinds of things up.
2006-10-27 14:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really must let your husband handle it or you will totally end up the bad guy. If your husband is a man and really cares for you and the kids he will stop this trouble right now. He needs to be the one to kick her out, and he needs to do it now. Or he needs to put her in her place and not put up with anyone talking against his wife. He needs to honor YOU.
2006-10-27 14:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to kick her out. Politely tell her that you do not put up with her kind of nonsense and that if she wants to play games, she can go stay in the backyard. Time for her to go!
2006-10-27 14:33:31 · answer #5 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell you husband how you feel about things it should be him who talks to her.
2006-10-27 14:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by mawma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your house??? give her a time period to get a job and move out. it's your house.
2006-10-27 14:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by shorte716 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋