the minute you haven't answered their call and haven't called back within 5 minutes or haven't replied to their text straight away?
2006-10-27 07:35:53 · 22 answers · asked by little_friend 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry Jim, he does!
2006-10-27 07:40:18 · update #1
That doesn't sound like hard to get - that sounds like immature, insecure pissiness because you didn't jump up and answer the phone when you wanted them to and now he's throwing a fit.
2006-10-27 07:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by Michael F 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Anytime I have had a guy who plays hard to get he either
A) REALLY is in to you OR
B) Is unsure if he is into you
C) has others he is dating and you are not a priority.
I prefer that guys are just upfront and honest and in communication..I hate games. However there is nothing wrong with a little back & forth so when you do win (goes either way) that you feel like you won a prize (I hope you know what I mean) LOL :)
2006-10-27 07:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by YourShopGirl.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men play hard to get I guess for same reason women play hard to get. As a guy I could state the same question you did going the other way. Maybe someone knows the answer for both of us or maybe its just human nature.
2006-10-27 07:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by Almack 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought that he might not be playing hard to get rather he is just an inconsiderate ***?
Oh and anjelkake your full of BS. You probably go for those insecure little boys ;P try a real man and I doubt he would come to you beck and call..in fact I'm willing to bet you would :))
2006-10-27 07:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by omvg1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how he views you/your liaison, which is affected by a multitude of variables.
Does he see you as long term fixture or just a quick fling ("my girlfriend" or "just a friend")?
Does he flirt with your friends?
What's his background?
Is he a commitment-phobe, a serial cheater?
Is he controlling? (Its my way or the highway?)
Does he take on board any issues you may have?
Is he a passive-aggressive, subtly playing on your emotions (controlling you by being available one minute and ignoring you the next) ?
Who is his ideal woman and do you fit the mould?
More important, how does he view women (equals or playthings)?
It could be that he's just biding time until someone "better" comes along, or that he just very wary of allowing you to get close to him in case you dump him.
Either way, your instincts are usually right, and you should take them notice of them.
2006-10-27 08:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by Jamma354 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men seem to think that they are all that and some more, will most of them do anyway, but you do the same to them and they come up with all sorts of lovely names to call you cheers. good luck and god bless.
2006-10-27 07:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by donua1022 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Young lady, women do the very same thing. It is called life.
2006-10-27 07:38:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because men want you to make the move. or why don't you play
hard to get , lets see if he likes that .
2006-10-27 07:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by rodriguez m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the same reasons women do.
2006-10-27 07:38:09 · answer #9 · answered by iknownothing 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because we know when you're interested and want you to do all the hard work and chasing. if you like a guy, go get him
2006-10-28 00:35:02 · answer #10 · answered by russellhamuk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋