My and my BF got into a fight on Sunday...our relationship is difficult but we Love each other very much...but he call me and i was mad so i told him that it was over...thinking that he will beg me like he always does but this time didn't work. He's done this before but for like 2 days and then he calls me back and we're back together again...but now is like Friday and i haven't heard from him i'm scared but i'm too proud to call him cause i know he's going to be pisst...is it over this time for real or is he doing it to test me????...PLEASE HELP!!!
2006-10-27 07:34:14 · 19 answers · asked by nhng06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can't learn to communicate with each other you will never have a relationship. Why do you two keep getting back together. Maybe this time you should let it go, take some time to get over it and move on.
2006-10-27 07:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a little too immature to be in any kind of relationship. If he has called and apologized, then you have no reason to be so cruel as to tell him it is over.
When you tell him it is over, what do you expect him to think? What do you expect him to do? It sounds to most people that it is over.
You are just playing "mind games" with him. He is tired of the games and probably wants someone a little more mature who will just be honest about things. If I were in his place I wouldn't call you, either. I would say, "OK, it's over. Have a nice life because I am out of it."
My advice to you is to not get involved with anyone until you learn how to act like an adult. You should accept him back when he calls - not play your little games. If you want him you will have to call him and apologize for your stupid behavior.
2006-10-27 07:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he has had enough and it IS over. Love can only go so far, and if the relationship is difficult, it can really put love to the test. Maybe it is a good thing for you both.
2006-10-27 07:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never go to bed upset with anyone, tomorrow is not promised to anyone. I don`t know the situation you are in but GOD tells us to love and forgive. It may not be the same ever ,if it does then it is meant to be if not maybe It is time for a change. We go thru diffcult times to grow and mature. Talk to GOD about it.
2006-10-27 07:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by leeandaundrea1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should stop breaking up with him to manipulate him...that is wrong...second, if you really want him you need to man up and call him..if you just want him to call you so you can feel superior and like the victim...he's better off without you and I would find someone else to debilitate emotionally
2006-10-27 07:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by violet1656 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow...i have a pride issue too! And it is so hard, but if you are really in love with this person....DONT WAIT. If he is a good guy and treats you good, dont let an argument end it all. And worse yet....you said it was over. Not him! So just know this..if he does not call you back it is your fault! And i know, i am stubborn too, that sucks.
If you love him. Tell him you are sorry. not in a letter, not in text, not in email. tell him yourself. He may have just got tired of you telling him "its over" . But if you apologize, and sincerely mean it, he will see it.
Good luck.....trust me...it's hard to do...but worth it!
2006-10-27 07:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by mslatin 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love your BF, you need to call him. Love is not proud!! What if he thinks that you have moved on b/c you have not called? You would be very very hurt if he moved on b/c he thought you did the same!! Call him!!
2006-10-27 07:39:57 · answer #7 · answered by spool 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you may have gotten what you asked for this time. Yet another example of why you shouldnt play games with people's emotions.
2006-10-27 07:37:15 · answer #8 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bbae this is how i see it if you lovesoembody you cant go a day without talking to them but i really can't say that because right now my boyfriend has not talked to me in three days because he is mad at me but i have been so sad the passed three days and it is killing me.
2006-10-27 07:39:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe next time you break up with someone you should do it only when you mean it, not as a way of jerking people around.
2006-10-27 07:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by Jason D 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋