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between when a guy tells you that he "hopes to see you when he gets back" and when a guys says he "wants to see you when he gets back" if there is any...
I have a friend (we hooked up a few weeks ago) who's told everyone else that he 'hopes' to see them when he gets back but he keeps telling me that he 'wants' to see me. Would you say there is a difference?
Also, he said that he doesnt feel like he should keep asking to see me and I keep asking why, and why he cant just say he wants to see me. Im confused and I dont know what he wants from me! I just dont want to get hurt...he will be leaving again in a week and will be stationed in another state for another two years!!
Please answer even if its a short answer...Thanks!

2006-10-27 07:34:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

BTW: He will be coming home this week and then going back to his station. When he said he wants to see me when he gets back I was talking about him seeing me when he gets here for this week

2006-10-27 07:43:18 · update #1

14 answers

baby girl, you'd over analyze the statement. he'll see you when he get back. that's all it is. digging too deep would only give you headache.

2006-10-27 07:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0 0

I see that you wrote that your man will be "stationed in another state for another 2 years" - maybe the problem is that you are dating men in the army. Find a guy off the reserve and maybe he will be around long enough that he won't have to tell you that he'll see you when he get's back.

2006-10-27 07:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by superinteligent shade of blue 2 · 0 0

- I've been exactly where you are!! I dated a guy that was in the Gaurd.. and he was gone all the time for training...and we had been out several times and I was heas over heals for him. We had just begun a relationship when he was to report for an 18month stay in Iraq. At that time I was 16. To a 16year old that's pretty hard..and I was stupid but he was too, so that kinda changes things.. my point is I was willing to put my life on hold and try to have a relationship while he was stationed in Iraq.. - He was a jerk and I didn't realize it - and I wasted A LOT of time... so don't do that, I'm sure you're young, attractive, and have a lot to offer, so enjoy your life, have fun, if you Really care about him, then wait around on him, take it one day at a time, don't try to plan things out too far ahead. Good Luck! =)

2006-10-27 07:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by jons_girl18 1 · 0 0

Want=more of a imperative thing where his desire to see you is the key
Hope=more a a beg that you will grace him with your presence.

I have a question for ya. Why do girls look into words like this? He wants to see you. There. He hope you want to see him too. There. He said EXACTLY what he means. What is wrong with you women?!?! Real men are blunt and straightforward. Just becaue we said "above" instead of "on top" doesn't mean SQUAT.

2006-10-27 07:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0 0

I think that they are different because they say they hope with means they dont know if they will but if they say that they wont to see you then thats means that they will be thinking of you until they see you again.

2006-10-27 07:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think the difference is that the person he hopes to see he doesn't really want to see them he just says it cause it is polite but he wants to see you meaning he definetly for sure wants to see you and you alone.

2006-10-27 07:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by Nicolette G 2 · 0 0

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2016-10-16 06:40:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

he likes you,he probably thinks about you all the time when he's away,just be careful being with a guy whose in the army? is hard because the first couple of years they're all over the place follow your head not your heart be safe and take care hope my advice helped :)

2006-10-27 07:38:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

He probably just does not want to seem to pushy. It sounds like he likes you and that he wants to see you. Just tell him straight out, I like spending time with you and I dont mind when you ask to see me. If he then still confuses you, he is either just really self conscious or playing with your head.

2006-10-27 07:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0 0

well when he tells other people that he hopes that he will see them, than that means that he hopes but if t doesn't work out then oh well, when he says he wants to see you it means that every fiber in his being is hoping and praying for you to see him again.

i hope everything works out :)

2006-10-27 07:38:51 · answer #10 · answered by lauren r 2 · 0 0

Simple, he "WANTS" to see you when he gets back. Why he wants to see you, I can't say - I don't know the guy. But my guess it that he may have something romantic in mind.

2006-10-27 07:40:57 · answer #11 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 0 0

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