I already told her....but, i feel bad when i around her....sometimes i feel like she dont like me as a Best friend no more......i Told her that i was drunk when i did it........i really was.......SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME ON THIS
2006-10-27 07:53:10 · 21 answers · asked by Christina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What did you expect? A tearful forgiveness? You kind of did the unthinkable there...
2006-10-27 07:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by Jason D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drunk or not, you slept with her boyfriend and she has every right to be upset. It's good that you told her, but to expect her to say,"I'm mad, but I'm so glad you told me...best friends for life!", is way off base. Instead of jumping in her face 24/7 screaming, "LIKE ME! LIKE ME!", back off and give her some time to heal from this.
2006-10-27 14:58:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ball's in her court now. You made the mistake. You need to live with the consequences.
Her boyfriend is no prince either.
Drunkeness is no excuse. Say you get drunk, get mad, shoot someone. Can you tell anyone that "I was drunk and I didn't mean to shoot him, can he come back to life again, I take back the bullet." No hun... you shot him, he's dead... time to do the time...
Just be glad she's even talking to you.
2006-10-27 15:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends don't have sex with their friend's partners...you're not much of a friend and it's totally understandable that she's not behaving like your "best friend" anymore...
You screwed up...and alcohol isn't a defense...let this be a lesson to you on personal responsibility and how your actions can affect your life in many ways.
2006-10-27 15:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah well to be honest you kind of destroyed the trust there, also remember that she might be also really mad at her boyfriend and if she broke up with him she might just be upset right now. But, if it was me I'd be really pissed...get over it, unless she really really really loved you before most probably you're over. Find another best friend. There will be others.
2006-10-27 14:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate that excuse when people say they were drunk! You shouldn't have put your self in that type of sitatuation. Best Friends don't stab each other in the back. If I was her I would never talk to you again.
2006-10-27 15:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might not like you for her best friend but she still might like you just as a friend because you need to let her trust you again by not going behind her back and doing something that you will not have her as a friend anymore.
2006-10-27 14:58:14 · answer #7 · answered by sexymama05112005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going ot have to realize that you hurt her and she probably doesn't think of you like a best firend anymore. Unfortuntely those are the consequenses... friends don't do that no matter if they were drunk or not.
2006-10-27 14:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by Cristina M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not an excuse - your obviously a slut - so if u shot someone in the face and u were infront of a judge about 2 be sentenced your gonna say "i was drunk" good luck wit that one
2006-10-27 15:08:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if she did it to you? I would be ready to kick your ***, forget trying to make up with me! There is no excuse when you do something like that. You are lucky she is talking to you at all....i think you deserve the treatment you get.
2006-10-27 14:58:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well l guess, shes thinking, that next time you get drunk, you will try to fu*******ck her, or who ever is around her...besides, thats the oldest trick in the book, l was drunk. anyone who believes that, is just as bad as the one saying it.
2006-10-27 14:57:49 · answer #11 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋