Ok im pissed about this.i told A so called friend who i liked. Ive never had a girlfriend at our school so he decided to tell this clues on who likes her. thats wat made me mad. she found out today and i was tardy in the only class i have with her. i was to nervouse to talk to her and just glansed at er in the hall way with a blank face. SHe did the exact same thing and never talked to me. DOes this me she thinks im a freak or is she to nervouse to say too.
last year we were kinda friends that had fun together and now we are both 13 in 8 grade
2006-10-27 07:48:02 · 19 answers · asked by dfgsg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its hard to say 'cause i dont really know either of u but if u 2 are friends she probably doesnt think ur a freak. maybe she is just surprised by this and doesnt quite know how to react. the best way to deal w/ this situation is u should talk 2 her 'bout it. trust me, it may be hard to do but it will definitly ease the tension between the two of u. u can talk to her one on one or if ur too nervous, bring a friend. (it will be better if it was just the 2 of u though!) just tell her how u really feel (she may like to hear it come from u!!!) and ask her how she feels. if she isnt wantin to commit, then move on. ur young so u have the rest of ur life to get involved. just think of this as practice.
2006-10-27 07:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by n_i_s_h16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was not right for your friend to tell the girl you like her. I know this makes be sound old and ok so I am. Take it from someone who has been there. This will pass as for how to treat your friend after this does he do this kind of thing often? I mean is he always telling thing others dont want told? He may not be that good of a friend to start with you may need to find better friends. As for the girl time will tell how she feels too. Go up to her say Hi how you doing? see what happens from there.
2006-10-27 14:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by NL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, don't be mad at your friend. He probably thought he was doing you a favor telling the girl you liked her. If she was making eye contact and not talking she might have been nervous about talking to you too. I think you should just be honest. Say something like I heard you were told I liked you. See what she thinks if she is interested. If she isn't then go back to being friends and find someone that does. Good luck!!
2006-10-27 14:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by ml1064 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things will get better....trust me! If you and her have been friends for awhile then things will be ok. just let a couple days go by and just say something to her like you used to. Just be like you used to. Don't let what one person does ruin your friendship with her. I know it seems odd right now, but in a few days things will be ok. Somebody knows if she likes you too. One of her friends! Trust me. Girls talk ....a lot! so find out somehow by someone you know you can trust if she likes you too. I do know this....I had a crush on my best guy friend all through school and by the time we were both seniors in high school I found out he had liked me the whole time too! And we never knew. So just relax! You never know who likes you too!
2006-10-27 14:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by mslatin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it form someone a lot older than you. I think that at your age (being 13 and all) girls don't really know how to handle a boy liking them. She is probably just as nervous as you are. I think that you should at least say "Hi" to her and see if she wants to talk to you. I wouldn't push the issue, but if you want to know what she's thinking and how she feels maybe you can ask one of her friends if you don't want to ask her directly.
2006-10-27 14:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by julyanova 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let this bother you. Now give her a call, and say I do not know what my friend told you, but I would like to clear the air. Yes I would like to take you out for pizza sometime if that is possible. I would just like to be your friend!
2006-10-27 15:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i know this is hard 4 u but tell her how u feel in a note in an email or better face to face and next time don't tell a so called friend it always backfires.
2006-10-27 14:52:30 · answer #7 · answered by ropergurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13 we sometimes need help from our friends with this. I would think that she is just nervous also. Just start with hi.. how are you? and go from there.
2006-10-27 14:51:02 · answer #8 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yea maybe sh edoes like u, but she may be too shy to talk to u. just stop being so nerous around her you'll get no where like dat. just start a friendly conversation with her.
2006-10-27 14:52:17 · answer #9 · answered by hellodivasexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she likes you to but she is to shy to tell you that she likes you are she might be waiting on you to ask her out are too talk to her.
2006-10-27 14:50:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋