i meet him feb, 3 ,06 and he went away on the 18th after we spent two weekends together. He told me he was going to see friends.. well yesterday i found out he went to meet another girl and she sent him a lot of message after he moved into here but he never checked his yahoo so he didn't know they were there. I don't think he is talking to her, but he is talking to other girls and he says nothing about me. (at all) he don't know i know about all of this. My question, is should i tell him i know and get to the botton of this or just forget it he is with me now ?
2006-10-27 07:50:21 · 6 answers · asked by shelley w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't mike that he has female friends it's just that he does not tell them about me.
2006-10-27 08:07:18 · update #1
I would sit him down and have a long talk to him and see how he feels about you. I would tell him what you found out and asked him if he wants to stay with you. But he shouldn't be two timing you. If he is seeing other girls then maybe he should move on and let you go with your life so you won't keep getting hurt. I will pray for you and good luck....
2006-10-27 07:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him. Especially since he never metions you. It sounds like he is leaving that out so he will appear to be a single guy, which generally means that he's waiting for something different to come along. You don't need a man like that. you need a man that is proud to call you his girl.
2006-10-27 07:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First confront him adn then move on. If you can't have trust and he isn't showing your respect you need to protect yourself. This same thing is going on with one of my friends and because she loves him she keeps trying but once the trust is gone so is the relationship.
2006-10-27 07:54:17 · answer #3 · answered by Cristina M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not clear on how you found out. Did you read his email? If so, say nothing. If not, then casually mention you heard so and so, and was wondering why he hadn't mentioned this girl.
2006-10-27 07:57:50 · answer #4 · answered by largegrasseatingmonster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant expect him to cut all ties with female friends just because he started dating you.As long as he is faithful to your relationship romantically and physically let him have his friends.
2006-10-27 07:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd nail his a$$
2006-10-27 07:53:39 · answer #6 · answered by Ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋