Umm.. Yeah.. theres a party tommorow... and i heard the person having it say that shes getting people to bring alchohol to it.... and her parents arent going to be home.. now.. i could EASILY get there.. considering the fact this girl is like super preppy usually and thats how my parents know her... but my guy instinct says i shouldnt... we could get arrested... im only 15!! what should i do?
2006-10-27 07:44:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stay home!
2006-10-27 08:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by Sunspot Baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not go. getting arrested is only one of the bad things that could happen. Even if you catch grief from your peers for not going you will be better off for not going. You are only 15 you will have plenty of time to drink when you are older and when you are older you will be able to make better decisions about. No matter what happens in life or what anybody says you don't ever have to drink at all if you don't want to.
2006-10-27 07:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by jaws65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fun carefree side tells you to go and have a great time. But, my older more mature side tells you not to go unless your parents are very aware that there will be alcohol and no parental supervision. If you go and don't tell your parents these things, you could get into a LOT of trouble not only with your parents, but with law enforcement officials as well. Good luck with making the decision that's best for you.
2006-10-27 07:51:16 · answer #3 · answered by BeezKneez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go, man...it's not worth it, trust me! i'm 20 and recently got a dui and breaking it to my parents and going through all of the court procedures was one of the worst things i've had to do. plus i have to pay over $1000 and will have my driver's license suspended in december and that's not gonna be fun at all!
my friend got an mip (minor in possession), and she had to report to the courthouse randomly between 5-9am any morning - whenever they called her, she had to come into the court house and take a breathalyzer, and that was a huge pain for her. it's not worth it for one night of fun.
even if you go and don't drink, you're totally going to be tempted. just make up an excuse or invite people to go somewhere else and do something else.
not to mention that these things stay on your record for many years and you will have a hard time finding a job with a misdemeanor (which is what a minor in possession gets you).
2006-10-27 07:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have ordered wine, with dinner, for my 12-year old niece, when in a restaurant, but it is always diluted by the waiter to 1 part wine and 5 - 7 parts water - my European friends do the same; we, are, however, talking about one glass of diluted wine with dinner with the responsible party being a relative of the child who has parental permission to do this. Your parents would be foolish to accept a "legal" answer via Yahoo and would, also, be foolish to permit drinking by anyone, under the age limit ,without them being under the supervision of their own parents. Your parents are responsible for you, alone - not anyone else's child. What if some "child" has three drinks, goes home, falls down the stairs and breaks his neck? Your parents could be charged with negligence contributing to the death of a minor - risky business, just to serve alcohol, don't you think?
2016-05-22 01:13:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to this. Use your good judgement, you are an intelligent person rise above the crap and do what is right. It takes no effort to be nothing, to do what everyone else is doing but to be excellent it takes stepping up a notch. Be above all the junk that goes on, have respect and honor for yourself. Go someplace else and have fun that you won't regret.
2006-10-27 07:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so you now know why you should not go so are there any reasons to go? i mean is this party worth getting into trouble with the police? no. there will be other parties you can go to. another thing is that you might want to tell your parents. they will appreciate your honesty, and trust you more in the future, and they will know that they are doing a good job because you think before you do.
2006-10-27 07:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the party, as soon as they start with the alcohol, just leave, Park away from the house, so you will not be jammed in. At this age you do not need to get tied up in no mess. And if you just don't want to risk it at all, just do not go!
2006-10-27 07:49:39 · answer #8 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have self control and dont drink, dont fall into peere preshure. Im almost 20 and iv been to partys and clubs and kick backs. But ive never been drunk and I never drink Its my choice and im proud of that choice I can have fun without haveing to be fake and drink. And all my friends love that about me.
2006-10-27 07:50:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if something hap pend like you got caught or even worse an accident the consequences will be 10x worse then skipping out one night of drinking! Tell her you are not feeling well and do not want to drink.. or just be honest and say I DON'T DRINK!
2006-10-27 07:47:34 · answer #10 · answered by --Br0oklYn-- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you know the answer to your own question. Pretty smart for 15. Good Going!
2006-10-27 07:47:08 · answer #11 · answered by rudytute 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋