Family & Relationships - 25 October 2006

I believe 50 % of marriages end in divorce, not because of money, trust, falling out of love or regular issues, but because they are just tired of each other period! and the other 50%? more than half are sleeping with the other half! SO, when are we going to stop fooling ourselves?

2006-10-25 02:19:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay gentlemen you have 45 credits. Buy each trait you want in a girl, but you can’t spend more than 45! If you go over 45 credits you have to make concessions somewhere! No choice!

Write down the answer to each question like this:
A2
B1
C3
Etc.

Then total your spending and see if you are within budget! This should show what traits you desire above others in a girl…

A) Personality
1) Reserved = 0
2) Lightly Entertaining = 5
3) Entertaining = 10

B) Salary
1) Under £10,000 = 0
2) Over £25,000 = 5
3) Over £50,000 = 10

C) Parenting Skills
1) Doesn’t want kids = 0
2) Average = 5
3) Good = 10

D) Body Type
1) Fat = 0
2) Average = 5
3) Curvy, just right = 10

E) Intelligence
1) Dunce = 0
2) Average = 5
3) Intelligent = 10

2006-10-25 02:18:56 · 6 answers · asked by Stomach 2 in Singles & Dating

How to make my bf more confidence in himself? He doesn't seem to take the initiative. He doesn't sweet talk too! how can i make him do all these?

2006-10-25 02:18:31 · 5 answers · asked by bonkified_fl 2 in Singles & Dating

as much as a part of me hates every inch in a woman, another part of me adores every single one in a woman, as much as ive seen the evil inside women, as much as they took my breath away, i keep longing for a sweet moment where my lonely heart will finally be home

2006-10-25 02:17:58 · 9 answers · asked by The Hitman 4 in Singles & Dating

Hello peeps,

Basically my lady and I have entered into this radio comp to win the majoirty of our wedding paid for!

Now this would good for us as shes at Uni and id love to give her the dream wedding she wants!!

Its with www.sgrfm.co.uk and our names our

Kirsty and mark, were pic 13 in the first gallery!

if ya get the chance have a look and vote if ya not to busy, if we win your all invited for a mega p**s up!! Gonna be wicked!

Your probaly thinking how does that save my life but for the engaged or married men out there you must understand!!

Cheers

2006-10-25 02:16:51 · 32 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Weddings

OK HERES THE DEAL, I STARTED HANGING WITH THIS ONE GUY WHO IS 19, OUR RELATIONSHIP HAS ESCALATED AND NOW WE ARE IN LOVE, BUT DURING ALL OF THIS I STARTED ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS OTHER GUY WHO IS 23, WHOM I ALSO LOVE. I HAVE A SON AND THEY ARE BOTH GOOD TO HIM, VERY GOOD. THEY ARE BOTH EQUALLY GOOD TO ME AS WELL, THE OTHER NIGHT THEY BOTH CAME INTO MY ROOM AND TOLD ME TO CHOOSE, I CHOSE THE 23 YR OLD BECAUSE I AM 24 AND I THOUGHT IT WAS A GOOD IDEA AT THE TIME, I KEEP GOING BACK AND FORTH, SO LAST NIGHT I BROKE UP WITH THE 23 YR OLD BECAUSE THE 19 YR OLD IS ALWAYS AROUND (HES MY BROTHER BEST FRIEND) AND I CANNOT TAKE SEEING HIM, I LOVE THEM BOTH AND I DONT WANT TO HURT ANYONE. WHAT SHOULD I DO? HELP!! THIS IS STARTING TO AFFECT MY HEALTH..

2006-10-25 02:16:33 · 25 answers · asked by TLEE 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband works really hard for our family and is a wonderful daddy and companion. This morning he told me that he was feeling a little worn out (stressed w/ work & all) and I was trying to think of some last minute ideas to make his birthday weekend extra special. We are having a bd party for my son on Sunday so that day is kinda shot, but throw some ideas at me! Thanks a lot!

2006-10-25 02:14:50 · 18 answers · asked by Amanda 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked this in the friends section last night, but I would like you guys over here's opinions too...

What do you do if you have a friend that will make plans but never show. And have email conversations, but leave you hanging and stop replying. When you call him out on it and say "What is up with you leaving me hanging?" and he yells at you saying that he has more important stuff going on besides you and he doesn't have to answer TO you anyway. And he also says that you are behaving like you are more than friends.

We were once friends with benefits, but we aren't any longer. I am dating someone different now, and he knows that.

Obviously, he has anger issues. But why would I become his punching bag? And how do I deal with that? This is the second time this has happened.

2006-10-25 02:14:37 · 21 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

A couple were invited to a swanky family masked fancy dress Halloweenparty.The wife got a terrible headache and told her husband to go to theparty alone. He, being a devoted husband, protested, but she argued and said she was going to take some aspirin and go to bed and there was no need for his good time to be spoiled by not going.
So he took his costume and away he went. The wife, after sleeping soundly for about an hour, woke without pain and as it was stillearly,decided to go to the party. As her husband didn't know what hercostume was, she thought she would have some fun by watching her husband to see how he acted when she was not with him.
So she joined the party and soon spotted her husband in his costume, cavorting around on the dance floor, dancing with every nice "chick" he could and copping a little feel here and a little kiss there. His wife went up to him and being a rather seductive babe herself, heleft his new partner high and dry and devoted his time to her. She let him go as far as he wished, naturally, since he was her husband. After more drinks he finally he whispered a little proposition n her ear and she agreed, so off they went to one of the cars and had passionate intercourse in the back seat.
Just before unmasking at midnight, she slipped away and went home and put the costume away and got into bed, wondering what kind of explanation he would make up for his outrageous behaviour. She was sitting up reading when he came in,so she asked what kind of time he had. Oh, the same old thing.
You know I never have a good time when you're not there."

Then she asked, "Did you dance much?"

He replied, "I'll tell you, I never even danced one dance. When I got there, I met Pete, Bill Brown and some other guys, so we went into thespare room and played poker all evening."

You must have looked really silly wearing that costume playing pokerall night!" she said with unashamed sarcasm.

To which the husband replied, "Actually, I gave my costume to yourDad, apparently he had the time of his life."

2006-10-25 02:13:59 · 14 answers · asked by **SARAH** 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

why when i meet a new girl i get this feeling that there is something missing in her life, not all females i meet have this "smell" about them, some thing that is so basic and simple, but still they don't have it? is something missing from their lives? even if she has a boyfriend she sometimes have this feeling about her,(awakens my protective instincts), tell me something based on experience,guys

2006-10-25 02:13:13 · 3 answers · asked by wayne G 1 in Singles & Dating

NOT that I am complaining in anyway. But I am confused he has told me that he has never had a good experience with a relationship and he always ends up hurt, he does not want to start another one. I understood what he meant and after 2 years of just a friendship I said okay. Now for the last 4 months we have, in my opinion, been dating. He doesnt want to call it dating, all his friends no me but he wont dare call me his girlfriend, nothing to do with a serious relationship. When we spend time together he is holding my hand, hugging me, kissing me, he even wakes in the night (when i stay over) and rubs and kisses my face while i sleep . He has not let one day go by with out speaking to me or at least texting me. My problem is I am starting to have stronger feelings for him but I am afraid that if I tell him it will push him away. How do I let him know without really saying it? For his birthday last week I brought him a ring with an eternity symbol of it for our friendship

2006-10-25 02:13:01 · 17 answers · asked by Laprincessa1182 2 in Singles & Dating

My girl told me she was cheating.

2006-10-25 02:12:41 · 26 answers · asked by jay b 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm separated and devastated (for 6 months). I have forgiven my wife for all but one thing. She never tried once to work on our 14 year marriage with two kids. I wasn't an abuser or a drunk.... We just took each other for granted. She wants nothing but to divorce and live a happy life in a townhouse with her two kids (50/50 custody). She was very religious and this goes against everything we believe in. I'm so sorry for my part of this mess yet she won't even try for the sake of the kids, friends, or good memories..... nothing! We had a good life, I am fit, and we had fun in the bedroom. Right now, if this ends in divorce, I feel that I can't forgive her and won't even speak to her ever again.

-If I have any contact at all it will be through email or something and only for the kids. I have forgivien her for an affair, not communicating her feelings and being bitter with me.

2006-10-25 02:12:15 · 25 answers · asked by HonestGuy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The reason they are divorced, is because she cheated on him. She is still with the guy that she cheated with, and seems happy with him. She and my husband have four children together. I love his children, and they love me, too. That is a wonderful thing in itself. She hates me. She bad-mouths us to their kids. His 14-year-old daughter barely even talks to him now because of her ‘poison’. The ex physically attacked me one night when we were getting some medical papers from her regarding their youngest son. She also called me fat and a gold-digger. We live in a small community, and she has been telling people (parents of their children’s friends) that she feels sorry for my husband, because he and I don’t have a good relationship, and that my two daughters and their three sons fight constantly…NONE of which is true. People have told him what she is saying. We can’t move, because the court ordered that his boys had to go to this school.

2006-10-25 02:10:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I ask this because I've read where threesomes have the potential to ruin relationships - and the two people closest to my girlfriend (me, her boyfriend, and also her best friend) will be involved. Everybody seems cool with the idea right now and I am looking forward to it, but I don't want anything bad to come out of this.

Should I be concerned?

2006-10-25 02:08:46 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'am 18 years old, and I used to like this boy he wasn't my first love or nothing like that.I did at one point in time liked him,but he broke my heart by breaking up with me and now he is always saying I made a mistake and that he is so sorry, but I don't know. Why should I give him a second chance if he couldn't even make the first chance work. I'am currently in a relationship right now and he is like will you give me a second chance, but I'am in love with my boyfriend and we have been dating for five years now.What I should I do or what should I say to him so he can see it from way. I hate being hurt over and over again

2006-10-25 02:08:25 · 15 answers · asked by Sherry 1 in Singles & Dating

Im asking girls because they know what they want from a boy. im a boy and was wondering what a girl wants from a boy and then on a date if u tell her u rly like her. do u ask her out to another date on that spot? help me ladies!

2006-10-25 02:06:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sat on my computer reading through some of the questions people ask but cant think of anything to ask. Any ideas?

2006-10-25 02:06:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-25 02:06:26 · 13 answers · asked by PETE 3 in Singles & Dating

what does it mean?

2006-10-25 02:05:43 · 10 answers · asked by sweet girl 3 in Singles & Dating

I have reason to believe i'm cursed. At 27 i cant find a man to marry let alone to date. I go to an apostolic church, where there are phophets who keep telling me some evil spirits from some dead relatives are following me and not too good is going to happen to me. What do you think of this.

2006-10-25 02:05:29 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok i have had a myspace account open for maybe like a year..i use to go on it while i was at work..but they blocked us so its been a long time since i went on until recently...my cousin signed up for myspace and she wanted me to go on and check out her page and look at her pics and stuff so i did...i let my fiance know that i had an account and he got a little mad...but then he was like i want a myspace page so i was like ok so i'll help you do yours..so i did..but hes getting these request from girls and hes requesting these chics and i cant help but to feel a little..uuumm ok insecure...and mad as all hell...but i'm trying not to show it because i think that hes just doing it ya know to show me how it feels i guess..should i let my true feelings show and flip out over it or should i let it take its course sit back and see what he does..what do you guys think about my situation..am i wrong for the way i feel because after all i had one first..and should i tell him how i really feel?

2006-10-25 02:05:14 · 6 answers · asked by E 4 in Singles & Dating

Do you believe that when u're thinking alot about someone.. he's thinking about you too?

2006-10-25 02:05:13 · 13 answers · asked by Karine 1 in Singles & Dating

I havent spoken to my mother and sister for many years for numerous reasons and my grandmother died yesterday, my family never informed, my children heard it through the grapevine when they where out with their friends,I would obviously want to go to the funeral but there will be alot of bad feeling there,what would you do go and face hostility or keep away?I have 3 children that want to go but without me they will also stay away.

2006-10-25 02:04:11 · 36 answers · asked by candyfloss 5 in Family

what does it mean

2006-10-25 02:03:55 · 13 answers · asked by sweet girl 3 in Singles & Dating

and how do you deal with it....

2006-10-25 02:03:15 · 17 answers · asked by who me? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-25 02:01:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i am scared she might go back to the lamp some day and then i'll left with alone :-(

2006-10-25 02:00:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how does a relationship work well? :)

2006-10-25 02:00:01 · 7 answers · asked by bonkified_fl 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 7 years. I am extremely happy with my wife and we have a very active sex life. I wouldn't even dream of ending our marriage. We barely ever fight and love each other to death.
However
I have never really been with another woman before my wife and this urge to do so is killing me. It is getting to the point where it is consuming my thoughts and making it hard for me to even do my job. All I can think about it getting busy with another girl. I won't do it because I love my wife and I know how badly it would hurt her, and the guilt would be horrible. I am afraid thought that one day this urge might overwhelm my good senses and I will do something stupid. I wouldn't dare even bring this up with my wife because it would freak her out for sure no matter what I promised. I realize this urge is normal with everyone but it is definitely at an unhealthy level and it needs to back off.
Any help from anyone???? My marriage means everything to me.

2006-10-25 01:58:47 · 20 answers · asked by fucose_man 5 in Marriage & Divorce