ok i have had a myspace account open for maybe like a year..i use to go on it while i was at work..but they blocked us so its been a long time since i went on until recently...my cousin signed up for myspace and she wanted me to go on and check out her page and look at her pics and stuff so i did...i let my fiance know that i had an account and he got a little mad...but then he was like i want a myspace page so i was like ok so i'll help you do yours..so i did..but hes getting these request from girls and hes requesting these chics and i cant help but to feel a little..uuumm ok insecure...and mad as all hell...but i'm trying not to show it because i think that hes just doing it ya know to show me how it feels i guess..should i let my true feelings show and flip out over it or should i let it take its course sit back and see what he does..what do you guys think about my situation..am i wrong for the way i feel because after all i had one first..and should i tell him how i really feel?
2006-10-25 02:05:14 · 6 answers · asked by E 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my ex used to get mad at me too for having one...needless to say we broke up (not over that) but you shouldnt have told him you even had a page & you could have avoided all of that...& you are the one who helped him make one...
2006-10-25 02:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 4⤋
This might be a sign that you are too young for the commitment you have together. With maturity, these issues simply would not come up unless one or the other is suffering from an internet addiction that would destroy the relationship anyway. I think you should be grateful that all of this happened before you got married. To tell you the truth, it sounds like high school, not work. Plenty of schools have to block myspace but I never heard of a business having to do that.
2006-10-25 09:10:24 · answer #2 · answered by Kacky 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm wondering why anybody would wanna do what your boyfriend is doing if he's satisfied with the relationship he has with you. If he is, then maybe he's trying to make you jealous. If he isn't, i don't think there is much you can do. You can ofcourse ***** about it 24/7 but that would not only make him hide what he's doing from you but make YOU feel powerless over the relationship (and i've heard somewhere that the person with power is the one who cares less - in a relationship). So I don't know, girlfriend *sighs*. Maybe you should check out for other guys at My Space too.
2006-10-25 09:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by Biqo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be open and honest with him and tell him essentially what you told us.
That it makes you feel jealous, and point out yoru realization that if he's done that to show you what it feels like, that you get the picture.
Both of you should take those pages down. He should watch you delete yours and you should watch him delete his.
Good luck.
2006-10-25 09:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. But if he is a good man then he want do nothin
2006-10-25 09:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by Ariel S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
SOunds like this relation$hit is going right down the toilet. Total lack of trust here... not good!
2006-10-25 09:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by Steven S 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋