I'am 18 years old, and I used to like this boy he wasn't my first love or nothing like that.I did at one point in time liked him,but he broke my heart by breaking up with me and now he is always saying I made a mistake and that he is so sorry, but I don't know. Why should I give him a second chance if he couldn't even make the first chance work. I'am currently in a relationship right now and he is like will you give me a second chance, but I'am in love with my boyfriend and we have been dating for five years now.What I should I do or what should I say to him so he can see it from way. I hate being hurt over and over again
2006-10-25 02:08:25 · 15 answers · asked by Sherry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gurl you know yo pic is not this light and i know who you are but anyway stay with the boy you been with for five years even though its never stopped you before for cheating on him "Sexy Chic" (i cant believe you gave yourself that name) but i think that you should just cool down and stick with the boy you have been with for five years and pls stop cheating on hI'm and do whats right and the reason im telling you this is because you are my friend OK so take this message seriously even though i know that it is funny but b for real OK
love ya
god bless
2006-10-26 01:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by Brandi S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 18 yrs old. You will hurt, be hurt and become friends with SEVERAL other men in your life. Why go backwards? You've been there before, why not move forward? If you weren't "in love" with the guy then it was a crush. And it still hurts when they break up with you (that's why they call it a crush).
My advice - move on to the next guy. Who knows, the next one may be "the one" but if not, it's cool. Just keep smiling and the right guy will come along. Try not to hold on to the hurt too long. Learn from your mistakes and move on. :)
2006-10-25 02:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by singlebravesfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are considering taking ole’ boy back is disturbing to me. Why? Well, you say that you love your current boyfriend, yet, you are considering hooking up with your ex. That speaks loud volumes to me. People who truly are in love with their partner will not even consider hooking up with an ex in the first place.
And as for you telling your ex something to see it your way, is not important. What is important is the fact that you tell him, leave the past in the past, I’m living in the present; with someone else…peace.
As I see it, it would be best for you to continue your relationship with your current boyfriend, and truly learn how to love him, without a possibility of doubt or future sabotage.
Be blessed.
2006-10-25 02:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by Decent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your current boyfriend and you have been with him for 5 years, why in the world would you go back to the guy who broke up with you. You must still have feelings for your ex. If so, you better do some serious thinking on who you want to be with. This is something that you have to decide for yourself mama!
2006-10-25 02:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is the case, since u're happy with ur guy now, it's pointless to get back with him. woah! ur guy and u 5 yrs alr? meaning u're in love like at 13? :D anyway, tell ur ex tat u 2 can stay as friends. And close friends perhaps, let him know that u're happy with ur guy now. If he truly likes/loves you, he should let u go bcos he will rather see u happy. Make a wise choice! But if im you, i would stay with him as a friend. :D All the best
2006-10-25 02:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by bonkified_fl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no second chances, fate told you so. You and your current bf have something a lot more special then what you ex and you had. Your ex is prob single and wants a gf, but when he finds another girl he'll dump you again, DON'T FALL FOR THIS TRAP!
2006-10-25 02:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by ~Pitbull 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldn't ask that if you were in love with your current guy. But if you really want him to go away, tell him CLEARLY that it is too late and to move on just like a real man would.
2006-10-25 02:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youve been with your bf for 5 years...then you should stay with him if everything is going good....you shouldnt break your bf's heart because someone from a long time ago wants to try & get back in your life...especially if you are having doubts!
2006-10-25 02:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are already in love, then why waste your pretty little head stressing over this other guy?? Enjoy the relationship that you are in and tell the other guy that you are happy but thanks anyways.
2006-10-25 02:10:53 · answer #9 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You owe him nothing. Tell him you have a boyfriend already, whom you love. He had his chance, remind him that he blew it.
2006-10-25 02:11:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋