Im asking girls because they know what they want from a boy. im a boy and was wondering what a girl wants from a boy and then on a date if u tell her u rly like her. do u ask her out to another date on that spot? help me ladies!
2006-10-25 02:06:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You poor poor little boy! You are asking girls because they know what they want from a boy? Good Grief!
That is like asking a fish, 'How would you like me to catch you?'
'Oh, just throw some string in the lake and if I like you I will bight onto the string and let you pull me to shore'
Listen to me very carefully, I will save you much much heartache and confusion..........DO NOT ASK CHICKS FOR DATING ADVICE!
All they are going to tell you is how to make things easy for them. Which makes things harder for you and gives them all the control in the situation. And you do not want them to have all the control.
First, you do not want to do whatever it is the girl wants. Do what you want to do and bring her along. If you try hard to impress her and make her happy, she will see you as weak and lacking a backbone. That is bad. It is tough, you want them to like you, but you don't want to make them like you. It is like fishing, you can't pesuade or talk a fish into the boat...you have to hook 'em and make them feel that they need you in their life.
Second, No matter how much you like the girl you can't let her know it. Telling a girl how you feel about her is a mistake. Don't talk feelings until you know without a doubt that she is yours...and only yours. You don't spill your guts to get the girl....you spill your guts after you get the girl.
third, don't ask her on a date when you are already on a date. She has to wonder if you like her or not and asking her for a second date shows that you are way into her, which gives her all the power. Just because you like her and want a girlfriend doesn't mean she is the one, evaluate her during the date..really try and get to know her. Be descriminating a little. Tell her you had a great time and whatever...and that you will call her.
Please read this several times...... And if you have any other questions email me.
2006-10-25 02:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't rush things, I like guys who are comfaortable with who they are, not thinking on how to plan out the next question. Just go with the flow.
ps don't ask her on another date because she doesn't know what this date will turn out to be. Aks her in a couple of days after the date, or else it might look like you have no life.
2006-10-25 02:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by ~Pitbull 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, what boys want from a girl is that adventure. they want that type of boy that makes them tingle when he touches her. So that you can here your voice in their heads but don't get too pushy wit it.And wit the date thing, if she is giving you hints and clues that she wants a kiss, give her what she wants. But don't ask her out on a date on the spot. Get her phone number and call and ask
2006-10-25 02:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by Ariel S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself! And listen to your heart. If you feel like you would like another date, it is OK to ask her before the date is over to see her again. Good Luck and have fun.
2006-10-25 02:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To discover a female friend? You need to be determined. Anyhoo, simply be your self. If she does not like that, then she's now not proper for you. Be your self guy!!! Girls love men who're continuously their selves. Good Luck!!!!
2016-09-01 02:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by brickman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, 1st be yourself, don't shy, be respectful, take her out to the dinner/ lunch, let her to pick out the place 1st, give her complements, call her; to let her know that she's in you thoughts, wear some nice cologne, play her favorite music from time to time, cook for her (once;)) take her to the movies, invite her to an Ice cream, surprise her for no reason, tell her about your plans for the day, and tell her some; not a lot about your past, go shopping with her (I know most men don't like that). Hold her hand and then you can tell her that you like her.
2006-10-25 02:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really like her? Then ask her out again. As for a date take her out to somewhere that expresses your true self, If she likes the place she likes your true self. Boom!
2014-08-13 09:54:53 · answer #7 · answered by Hanna J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till the end of the date and ask her casually if she would like to go out again, don't be too eager. She probably is as nervous as you and besides if you have already got her to go out with you you have already won half the battle!!!!
2006-10-25 02:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by Tallie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls like guys that they can talk to and like being around.
if you tell her you really like her she might say the same thing to you .
dont ask her to go in a second date right away wait a few days then ask
2006-10-25 02:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah ask her on a second date, but one tip Never tell her that you love her on the first or second date.
2006-10-25 02:11:50 · answer #10 · answered by Sherry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋