NOT that I am complaining in anyway. But I am confused he has told me that he has never had a good experience with a relationship and he always ends up hurt, he does not want to start another one. I understood what he meant and after 2 years of just a friendship I said okay. Now for the last 4 months we have, in my opinion, been dating. He doesnt want to call it dating, all his friends no me but he wont dare call me his girlfriend, nothing to do with a serious relationship. When we spend time together he is holding my hand, hugging me, kissing me, he even wakes in the night (when i stay over) and rubs and kisses my face while i sleep . He has not let one day go by with out speaking to me or at least texting me. My problem is I am starting to have stronger feelings for him but I am afraid that if I tell him it will push him away. How do I let him know without really saying it? For his birthday last week I brought him a ring with an eternity symbol of it for our friendship
2006-10-25 02:13:01 · 17 answers · asked by Laprincessa1182 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay first of all he is not black, second he is not trying to just get *** b/c we have been good friends for over 2 years b/f a relationship, and third he is only sleeping with me and lets everybody know it.
2006-10-25 02:26:03 · update #1
Don't try to rush into things. It sounds like things are going well so just relax and enjoy all of the special moments that you share with him!
2006-10-25 02:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please help your boyfriend understand the 5 keys to healthy relationships.. 1love, 2honor, 3cherish,4trust,5communication!
Honey, if you'll be able to help him understand the 5 #1 keys to any healthy relationship and he respects you for your decisions and never puts you down in a dis-respectful way then he's a keeper for you..Be honest with him about where you see your relationship going. The question is what do you want him to always do for you?? In healthy relationships which I already believe you have..stand your ground, stand firm and don't ever back down. When your heart tells you two that your ready for a healthy fulfilling relationship ask Jesus questions that you have He loves the two of you and will be willing to answer questions for the both of you in time. You will both know in God's perfect will when the two of you are ready for marriage. By the way, great birthday gift for him!
2006-10-25 02:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by Stacey Lynn 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am in the same situation you are. All I can tell you is do not get hung up on words, actions are far more important. If he treats you like he loves you accept it, don't worry if the words do not come fast. He just needs to do it at his own pace. I told mine of my feelings for him, and wish I did not. You may want to hold off on that, he knows anyway, he does not need to hear it.
2006-10-25 02:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girlfriend its better you release this good for nothing relationship now than later he is going to hurt you in a way you wouldnt believe it cos he knows he has won your love,start hanging out with other friends and get your self a serious relationship with true affection which come from the heart,there was a time i met this guy who wanted to be my friends and it was okay with me but wait one day he invited me to his studio to visit him which to me was fine as long as we are friends ,we sat listen to music and talkand he was cuddling me saying beutiful things about me but he told me he has so many girlfriends and the truth he kept talking on the phone with different girls and by the end of the day he told me he wants us to be friends but he cant get into a serious relationship all he can offer me was his friendship and his dick,i couldnt believe it cos i had not even told this guy i want anything more than being friends and when he tried to make me kiss him and have sex with him i told him on his face im not the kind of girls he think he can use and get away with it and i broke the friendship with him and i have never communicated with him again please learn from my story before he hurts you,i know you are beutiful and someone is out there for you not for you to be used with a confused man ,take care
2006-10-25 02:43:03 · answer #4 · answered by salma 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
24 isn't too youthful for an unique dating, i'm afraid to tell you. you're properly over the age for somebody to assume somewhat faithfulness. in case you would be able to cheat on him, you're no longer waiting to be with him. This seems merciless even though it is the only thank you to guard him from getting harm.
2016-10-02 22:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by banowski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like things are going as planned for this guy. If he does not ask to date you in his mind he will not be rejected. I think he is taking this really slow but it sounds to me like he may be liking you as much as you are liking him. Ask him what he is feeling and let him know that you care a lot about him too. Good luck!
2006-10-25 02:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you should get out of the relationship before you fall any more, he doesn't want a Love relationship, he wants to be Friends with extras... seen it before.. what will happened is you will get hurt.. there are plenty of men out there that want a real relationship.
2006-10-25 02:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by 'Cause I'm Blonde 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He knows how you feel but he is taking advantage because he knows that you will settle for his affection. He's not going to change his mind as long as you allow this. It's yourself you should be honest with. If you tell him what you both already know, he may stay. If not, he's a player.
2006-10-25 02:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should let him know that you won't hurt him. Better yet show him, but don't rush into it things like that take time
2006-10-25 02:20:30 · answer #9 · answered by Miss.Rock&Roll 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he may be falling for you as well
Just be patient and good things come to those who wait
I would just play my cards slow and see the outcome
2006-10-25 02:16:42 · answer #10 · answered by jenniferevans32 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋