Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

How do I know immediately that someone I meet is an abuser, stalker, bully, etc?

2006-10-24 04:34:28 · 9 answers · asked by zadanliran 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i was just pondering...

2006-10-24 04:34:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have the idea that when you say hello to a guy with a kiss. if you dont like him, you gave the kiss to the air, if you like him a little o care much for him, you give him the kiss on the cheek, but if you have sexual feelings for him, you try to give him the kiss very close to his lips, what do you think?

2006-10-24 04:33:34 · 6 answers · asked by gone 4 in Friends

I tried dating a normal, average looking nerdie guy, and he was little bit emotionally cligy.But their is just nothing there no attraction.So i just started avoiding and not answering phone calls from him.

2006-10-24 04:33:15 · 14 answers · asked by Jackie P 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my girlfriend, of over 2 years now, both of us deeply in love, in fact we are about to be engaged;meaning i'm about to propose, are having sexual problems. about a year ago we use to do sexual activities almost every day then we started having relationship problems. we started to argue and not get along, only to find out what we were arguing abut was easily fixed, hence us being happier now then we ever was. however, when we split up and seen other people, sadly to see we each slept with another person just to try to rebound off of the hard break up. it was sex for ALL the WRONG reasons. happy to say we both realized what we done was wrong and we couldnt stand to be without each other and after about 1 month we got back 2gether and worked everything out. since then we havent been happier and we have one of the best relaionships there is. however since this we cant seem to have sex with each other b/c we hate seeing each other w/ someone else..? what can i or we do to fix this?

2006-10-24 04:32:22 · 14 answers · asked by p_engr 1 in Singles & Dating

I was told that my son William Russell Davis committed suicide in 2004 by an overdose of pills. The news was given to me this month. The source is unreliable (x-husband) I have not seen my son since 2003. I pray that it is not true.

2006-10-24 04:32:19 · 3 answers · asked by antecedentsonholyghost 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my girlfriend, of over 2 years now, both of us deeply in love, in fact we are about to be engaged;meaning i'm about to propose, are having sexual problems. about a year ago we use to do sexual activities almost every day then we started having relationship problems. we started to argue and not get along, only to find out what we were arguing abut was easily fixed, hence us being happier now then we ever was. however, when we split up and seen other people, sadly to see we each slept with another person just to try to rebound off of the hard break up. it was sex for ALL the WRONG reasons. happy to say we both realized what we done was wrong and we couldnt stand to be without each other and after about 1 month we got back 2gether and worked everything out. since then we havent been happier and we have one of the best relaionships there is. however since this we cant seem to have sex with each other b/c we hate seeing each other w/ someone else..? what can i or we do to fix this?

2006-10-24 04:31:31 · 15 answers · asked by p_engr 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I went out with this girl for the first time last weekend. I have known her for a while, but she is more of an aqcuaintance so I do not know her really well but I know she is super cool and I am really attracted to her. I have an extra ticket to the World Series...should I ask her or take a good buddy. BTW, the tickets were pretty expensive and I had to pay for them.

2006-10-24 04:31:24 · 5 answers · asked by orangecrate 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm about 75% Italian, and most of my groomsmen are too, so my fiance' wanted there to be an italian song played when the groomsmen walk down. Anyone have any idea? I'm kinda lost.

2006-10-24 04:31:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Dont bother replying this is not a daating site!

2006-10-24 04:30:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im applying at several schools, and maybe giving up one of the ones i really want san fran, but i can deal with that its the actual feeling that success can be made anywhere, what would YOU to do

2006-10-24 04:30:33 · 1 answers · asked by nikk d 1 in Friends

He says that im just trippin and that he doesnt mistreat me but i feel differently about that. I understand that with sex emotions get involved for both the men and the women what i cant figure out is what his problem is.

2006-10-24 04:30:22 · 13 answers · asked by cmkp2000 1 in Singles & Dating

wanna get back my my ex,i've hurt him bad last week. I'd do anything to get back with him except swallowing my pride.. ok ok i know i'm a b*tch and acted immature but i really need some help..

2006-10-24 04:30:21 · 16 answers · asked by Karine 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 04:30:04 · 18 answers · asked by flavorlicious 2 in Singles & Dating

So, I have asked this question many times because I still can't get over it. My BF left me to see if he could rekindle his ex's love. She came to him and asked him back. He said he still loves me but he needs to see where they will go. I told him I would wait for him and hope that if he doesn't work out, he will remember that we loved each other. He says he can't come back to me because he doesn't deserve me. They went out for 1 1/2 years and broke up several times during that time. Do you think they will work out? And if not, will he come back to me? I don't want to know if I should take him back or not, just if you think he will come back? And also, how long do you think it will take? It's been almost 3 weeks now.

2006-10-24 04:29:51 · 2 answers · asked by nursejuley 1 in Singles & Dating

pls help me

2006-10-24 04:29:08 · 5 answers · asked by alwyn f 1 in Weddings

Have you ever have an afffair, which went undiscovered by your partner and which had no ill affects, but which was enjoyable and harmless fun?

2006-10-24 04:29:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

In Feb of 2005 I moved out on my own. A church group of young teenaged girls that I taught at the church gave me a housewarming party at our church community building. I got lots of gifts from the ladies of the church for my new home. Now, almost 2 years later - I am getting married this dec! the ladies of the church are giving me a bridal shower at the church and inviting people from the community as well. Do you think this is wrong since i already had a housewarming in feb 2005? i feel so bad , but i would love to have a bridal shower lol. what do u think?

2006-10-24 04:28:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Lord, how do i get this guy out of my mind.....I have been seeing him for quite sometime...he seems to like me...but looks like he is just playing safe....i just moved to a new city and my social life is running low....i am trying to find some old friends who live here......but looks like i am just thinking abt this guy all day....help!!!

2006-10-24 04:28:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 19 years old, I have a son and a boyfriend, live in a nice apartment, Im a stay at home mom. It all sounds good i guess but theres something that is bothering me that my family and my boyfriend dont know.
I am completely miserable. I hate being in my house all the time, I went from being a cheerleader and incredibly popular. I had a party to go to every night of the week. I had a decent job and I always had money, now its like i gutta ask for money from my boyfriend. I am a shop a holic so for me to not have money is SO depressing.
I know the way things are now are clearly by choice.
I love my son and my boyfriend and I really am happy with them but not with myself.
Has anyone else ever felt like this before. Am i juust stuck in a rut?

2006-10-24 04:27:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-24 04:27:33 · 36 answers · asked by Rebecca M 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm dating a guy whom I'm very jealous of, which I know is not good. I've never been this way b4 but I don't like him lookin @ another women. We work 2gether & when I see him on the phone, or on an IM or talking 2 a women I'm nosey about who it was or what it was about. Also he recently told me about a friend for 15 yrs that's a female & they talk on the phone regularly. I said that wouldn't work out. I told him I also had a friend of 10 yrs I talk 2 & hang out w/but if I didn't want him talking 2 his female friend then it's only fair I cut mine loose as well. I love this man & we're talking of marriage but I just can't see him sitting up talking on the phone to another woman, friend or not. They say they haven't done anything b4 that they have never crossed the line of friendship but me & my friend have fooled around b4 & I just think it's hard 4 females & males 2 b JUST friends, I think if your n a relationship your only friend needs 2 b your significant other. Am I wrong?

2006-10-24 04:26:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you saw XXX rated text messages on your husbands cell phone. I called the number then went thru the bills and found 840 calls in a 3 month period to and from the same person. He denied this completely. We went to counseling over the summer and he did state that this was the only girl and that he didnt actually do anything wrong. Well last week I just found addtional XXX rated text messages on his cell phone. I called the number and it was a different girl from before. This time I new the girl. We spoke on the phone after I confronted him with this info. She stated that it was somthing that started 4 years ago. He again stated that nothing happened. I think that he is a sex addict or something. I am young 36 and we have two small children. I think that I am ready to leave him. We have only been married for 8 years. What would you do?

2006-10-24 04:25:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what would you think if you received this text. 'i miss you (name of person). That is my truth. Tchau. Meu Coracao. (Bye. My Heart). in portuguese.

2006-10-24 04:25:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My buddy and I and our wives are in our late 20s. My buddy and I like to do guy things and our wibves do their own thing. Other than watching and playing sports and hanging out at the bar, we also like to watch porn and masturbate together. I guess it brings us back to our college days. Is engaging in this activity sorta like cheating on our spouses?

2006-10-24 04:25:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really love my ex and i want to be with him again but i'm so scared he's gonna hurt me again.I know i should talk with him about things but he'll probably just tell me what i want to hear or tell me that i shouldn't be with him then if i feel that way but that's not helpful.I know i probably shouldn't be with him if i have doubts but i really love himand i want to try again but i'm scared to take the risk,what would you do in my position?

2006-10-24 04:25:12 · 5 answers · asked by serenity 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this guy, he lives long distance, his brother who he has just started talking to, is making up lies, saying that i slept with him, which i never. and now he will not speak to me, he wont let me explain that i dont no whats going on and his brother is making it up. How do i get through to him?

2006-10-24 04:24:41 · 12 answers · asked by Kimmy xx 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

families with no money for gifts

2006-10-24 04:24:30 · 4 answers · asked by nick1 1 in Family

Every time I hear his tapes, or remember him I cry... I don't like crying but I want to remember him... always... what do I do?

2006-10-24 04:23:50 · 9 answers · asked by Kiss 2 in Friends

do you think its wrong to keep in touch with your exboyfriend. i have been broken up with my exboyfriend for like a year and half now. i have been dating my current boyfriend for about 6 months now . he doesnt know but i still talk to my ex on the phone at work and stuff. i never ever see him ever and we talk stricltly as friends and nothing more. i love my current boyfriend, and have no interest in my exboyfriend. i dont tell my boyfriend about my friendship with my ex cause i dont want to make him insecure, is this wrong . i dont feel guilty or anything like that cause i know nothing is going on so i dont think it is in my opinion

2006-10-24 04:22:51 · 15 answers · asked by LISA M 3 in Other - Family & Relationships