do you think its wrong to keep in touch with your exboyfriend. i have been broken up with my exboyfriend for like a year and half now. i have been dating my current boyfriend for about 6 months now . he doesnt know but i still talk to my ex on the phone at work and stuff. i never ever see him ever and we talk stricltly as friends and nothing more. i love my current boyfriend, and have no interest in my exboyfriend. i dont tell my boyfriend about my friendship with my ex cause i dont want to make him insecure, is this wrong . i dont feel guilty or anything like that cause i know nothing is going on so i dont think it is in my opinion
2006-10-24 04:22:51 · 15 answers · asked by LISA M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no you are not doing anything wrong. It's nice to know that you keep in touch with an ex. That shows that you and your ex had a great relationship and you both have moved on. When an ex don't want no contact with an ex that shows that the relationship ended badly. Explain to your currant boyfriend that you and your ex did not have a bad ending and you guys are just friend and he has no reasons to be worried. I still keep in touch with 3 of my ex's. Lift does goes on after a break up.
2006-10-24 04:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by Cowgirl Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is not wrong then why are you hiding it?
Guys only keep in touch with girls if they by doing so they will have another chance at getting them into bed. If you don't believe me the next time you talk to your ex ask him if he would like to hook up "for old times sake" - no strings. You will be amazed at his answer.
Also... women will only keep in touch with guys or continue to have guy friends when they are in a committed relationship (that being a relationwhip where you and your bf have told each other - explicitly - that you will only be sleeping with them and no one else) if they feel that the relationship will not last and want someone hanging in the wings for later.
You need to do some thinking. What do you want out of your current relaitoship and are you getting it. I believe that if you think that through you will see where your current bf isn't fulfilling your needs and you may actually need to end this relationship and find one that will work. One that will not make it necessary to continue to communicate with someone you felt wasn't worth your time.
2006-10-24 11:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know that your current beau would not like it then why do it or why have the current beau if you don't see eye to eye on it? It is never a god idea to do something you feel you must hide. If you must hide it then somewhere deep down you feel it is at least a little wrong if not for the reason of there being anything going on. Either don't hide or don't do it. But that is just my humble opinion and think about it this way If he was talking to his ex under the same circumstances how would you feel???
2006-10-24 11:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that I hope I can help you with.....basically it is wrong if he doesn't know. Just because of the fact that it is an emotional connection with someone else and if your current boyfriend is not aware then it could be construed as cheating. However, if he knew you spoke to him it would be a little different. Also it does make a difference if you were intimate with your ex. I would feel uncomfortable with my husband being friends with and ex that he slept with and I am only friends with exes of mine that I never had sexual contact with. Hope that helps!
Good Luck
Jen
2006-10-24 11:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by jenellegaines 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its wrong that you dont tell your current boyfriends, but its not wrong that you talk to your ex as long as you have no feelings for him at all. Chances are you were friends before you dated. Just be honest with your boyfriend.
2006-10-24 11:32:12 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, I think its best to let your ex-boyfriend go! I don't understand why you're friends with your ex-boyfriend and you're already in a new relationship with someone else. If you don't want your current boyfriend to feel insecure, stay away from your ex!
2006-10-24 11:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel, if you found out your boyfriend stays in touch with his ex girlfriend and kept it from you? If you want your relationship to last, better quit talking to your ex boyfriend, ex means gone and forgotten.
2006-10-24 11:35:08 · answer #7 · answered by mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is actually nothing wrong with talking to your ex but if your b/f finds out that you have been talking to your ex for this long ,,,,How do you think he will react...I think you should tell him and get it out in the open
2006-10-24 11:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you wrong, how would you feel if you found out that he still talks to one of his ex's all the time @work, and all sorts oh stuff how would you feel.
2006-10-24 11:25:17 · answer #9 · answered by LATANYA N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong. Would you like your boyfriend to be talking to his x behind your back? I know I wouldn't!
2006-10-24 11:26:10 · answer #10 · answered by charmz21lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋