some pro advice?

Question

wanna get back my my ex,i've hurt him bad last week. I'd do anything to get back with him except swallowing my pride.. ok ok i know i'm a b*tch and acted immature but i really need some help..

told him i didnt love him anymore (it was supposed to break his ego) but he just got really hurt and didnt call anymore.. i've made up my mind but it might be too late and i cant call him after 3 weeks that'd be weird and as i said the last step he did was telling me he wanted to pass by my house to get his sweater back i have no f*kin idea what was that supposed to mean.. i just want him back and i feel i'm losing him more and more as each day goes by

Answer 1

its called a break up because its broken.. move on, and learn how to treat people the right way.. Love isn't selfish, and that sounds exactly like what you're doing, being selfish because you want him back... let him go and let him be happy without you.

Answer 2

So you attempt to break his ego by telling him that u dont love him anymore, and will do anything to have him back in your life with exception to swallowing your pride? It seems to me that you are the one who needs ur ego broken. I think that was a nasty thing to do to someone and if you really cared about him, you would not have resorted to such immature measures just to get his affection or "break his ego"..what the hell does that mean anyway? You made your bed by being a 'b*tch' and now you must lay in it, and hopefully that breaks ur ego because u definitely need to come back to reality and not be so mean and catty or else ur going to end up alone because I for one, dont know too many people who would put up with such bs. Good luck:)

Answer 3

Now the thing you might have to do is swallow your pride, Pride is something we all deal with in one form or another, what will happen if your pride swells up again, will you just break up again, mabey you should take a break for a week or two, and look at your self?

Answer 4

let him know how you feel and how wrong you were. i mean swallowing pride is part of being in a serious relationship. you will come out a winner because you stepped up and admitted you were wrong. that takes a real women to do that, and still stand strong, there is nothing wrong with letting him know that you mad a mistake

Answer 5

You should leave your pride aside and when he goes by to pick up his sweater tell him you were just doubting about your feelings and that you relize you love him. Also assure him it won't happen again because he might think you'll do it over again. If you don't talk to him about your feelings you might loose him for ever and regretted for ever.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

It really depends on what you did to him and if the two of you can work out your situation. Communication is the key in any relationship, tell him your feelings and let him decide from there. If he is not willing to forgive you for whatever you did, then you need to accept his decision, learn from your mistake and move on.

Answer 8

Suck it up, chicka. You're gonna have to beg for this one and if he even hears you out, you'll be damn lucky if he goes back to you. Men are tough creatures and they don't like to feel like a woman hurt them.
Good Luck. Make him his favorite meal, give him a homemade card and promise you won't eff it up again.

Answer 9

make up for it, screw your pride because if you care more for that than your fella - why are you so bothered? exactly, so drop the pride, do the right thing and make him realise how much he misses you.

and hurry cos men get over women quickly and usually while shagging another woman

Answer 10

Be cordial and return the sweater...unfortunately, you've already answered your own question...he is your "ex" now...