My buddy and I and our wives are in our late 20s. My buddy and I like to do guy things and our wibves do their own thing. Other than watching and playing sports and hanging out at the bar, we also like to watch porn and masturbate together. I guess it brings us back to our college days. Is engaging in this activity sorta like cheating on our spouses?
2006-10-24 04:25:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We did jerk each other off once when we were drunk but it never happened after that.
We jsut did it to see what it felt like.
2006-10-24 04:55:14 · update #1
no i would not consider that cheating. i mean you could just go have sex with someone and that would be worst. i mean hey its just you playing with you. so no
2006-10-24 04:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a little confused here? You say that you & your buddy sit around looking at porn together then jecking off together, NOW when you say together, what do you mean? do you just sit in the same room at the same time doing, the same thing to yourselves, or is it that you and your buddy are actually jecking off EACH OTHER? See that, rather none of it sounds normal to me, I mean I never knew that college guys or any other guys just sat in a room and jeck off in front of each other, that's new to me, but I am not here to judge, you want to know if you are being unfaithful to your wives by sitting in a room watching porn and doing the hand dance, I would say that you are not actually cheating if you are not touching anyone but your self. If you all hang out like that why not swing? I mean that lifestyle is not for all, but from the sounds of it you all may get something out of it if you and your wives are into it? I am not making any judgements, at all, as long as you all are grown, do your own thang, just be careful..................GOOD LUCK.........
2006-10-24 04:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if someone else is in the room while you are masturbating it is cheating. Maybe you should go into the shower after you watch the porn ..... it is definitely no like the sports room locker shower you take with your buddies. The act here is much more intimate something you would do in front of your wife. Its nice you have this relationship with your buddy but you are doing an intimate thing in front of him.........
2006-10-24 04:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by s l 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ummmmmm, I am going to answer this on the off chance that this is a valid question...........i think it is a bit off that you chose to engage in this activity with your male friend instead of your wife. I would feel that any sexual activity done with another person other than your mate is cheating. You should also ask yourself some serious questions about your sexuality and preference.
now that you added the details i am now convinced......you are gay
2006-10-24 04:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by NolaDawn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
slowly turn the door handle and walk "out of the closet". look in the mirror and repeat after me.. "I AM GAY, I AM GAY, I AM GAY" you'll feel better. no just kidding.lol you and your buddie masturbate together or watch each other? either way, thats nasty! watching porn with your buddie is one thing but to masturbate together or watch each other, yep...your gay!
2006-10-24 04:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by ABC 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'd say it's sexual, therefore it's cheating. And don't use the "drunk" card. Drunkeness just uncovers feelings that are already there.
2006-10-24 06:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your spouses don't know about it, and it's a secret. then it's wrong. But if you are comfortable with it, and they are comfortable with it. then there is no problem. I don't feel like there is anything wrong with watching porn and masturbating, it's when you start keeping secrets and lying about it, is what make it wrong.
2006-10-24 04:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by T W 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you have to ask if you are cheating then the answer is probably "yes". And it just seems a liitle odd.
2006-10-24 04:45:07 · answer #8 · answered by djecse 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If there's a sexual attraction between you and your friend, you're cheating. Otherwise, you're just being weird.
2006-10-24 04:29:12 · answer #9 · answered by edcw0214 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it is kind of weird that you are masturbating with another guy but no i dont think it is cheating
2006-10-24 04:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by what 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋