Have you ever have an afffair, which went undiscovered by your partner and which had no ill affects, but which was enjoyable and harmless fun?
2006-10-24 04:29:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Where did you have the affair? And was it hard to keep it secret?
2006-10-24 04:37:28 · update #1
yes i have.. and it was fun and great.. but would i do it again.. probly.. hell i loved it.. what my husband can not give me i go to someone else for it..
2006-10-24 04:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by melissa_williams31379 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I have had an affair and not regretted it, but although i do not regret the affair what i do regret is what caused me to have it. I did it because my exhusband wasnt interested in me physically and although i tried to get him interested he just wasnt! So i regret that i had to go down the affair route as i would have preferred to have stayed married, but i wasnt going to spend the rest of my life celibate. Our marriage didnt survive and in the end i didnt want it to anyway, and i am now remarried and very happy thanks.
I dont condone affairs or think they can ever be harmless fun. Someone, somewhere, always gets hurt. It may be the people having the affair, or their partners, or wives, husbands, children..... even grandparents, and friends can get involved and get hurt.
Happy couples don't need affairs. And if you are basically happy, but just bored, then rediscover your partner rather than have an affair.
2006-10-24 12:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by Caroline 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-10-24 11:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by fluffy bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-10-24 11:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by IC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think those that have an affair and tell their partner are much worse.
They only do it to get the guilt off their chest, without thinking how much it must hurt their partner.
2006-10-24 11:38:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i did have an affair a year ago... and i didn't regret it at the time but i do kind of have it hanging over me now that i'm in a serious relationship.
2006-10-24 11:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by Christian S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone that answered yes to this question, needs to remember what go's around comes around.
2006-10-24 11:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by PinkPrincess 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes
2006-10-24 11:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never regret the affair what i regrettted was being caught u want your cake and eat it lol
2006-10-24 12:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by veronica 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nope never had an affair
2006-10-24 11:31:24 · answer #10 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
affairs are just wrong. it's cheating. how would you like it if your b/f or g/f cheated on you without telling you??? always reverse the question.
2006-10-24 11:31:41 · answer #11 · answered by Blazzzy 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋