Every time I hear his tapes, or remember him I cry... I don't like crying but I want to remember him... always... what do I do?
2006-10-24 04:23:50 · 9 answers · asked by Kiss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh, I'm really very sorry. That is so painful! I would put the tapes away for now. If he just died, it's too painful for you to listen. Keep them in a safe place until you feel better (in a year or two) and then you can listen again, if you like. Try to remember all the good things you had together and try to forget the pain and the dying part. As a memorial to your friend, volunteer with cancer patients, or raise money for cancer in some way like Alex's Lemonade stands or something. Then you will be doing something positive with your grief. When you see how many people you are helping, you will feel better and your will be giving your friend in Heaven a wonderful memorial. God Bless.
2006-10-24 04:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crying is part of the grieving process; don't try to hide your emotions from yourself. The tears will subside in good time, and don't worry about forgetting your friend, because that will never happen.
I'm sorry for your loss.
2006-10-24 11:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl i lost my mother early to cancer my grandfather and two of my friends its been a couple of years and even after all this time every once in a while there will be curtain things that will make me cry .crying is a part of life yeah it sucks but we can learn to live with it it will always hurt but you will learn to ease it with time crying is a gift that god gave us to express ourselves when something really hurt physically or emotionally .don't be scared to use it .it helps .
2006-10-24 11:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by mari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals..but it never goes away. remember your friend and the good times you had.its been 5 yr. since my granny died. i still miss her everyday but now i am able to think of her without crying and i even laugh at things she said and did.sorry about your loss.
2006-10-24 11:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by supermomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, you will always remember him. you'll have a special little place in your heart for him. secondly, healing takes time. i've had friends and relatives pass on, and the only thing that makes it better is time. :-)
2006-10-24 11:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by Blazzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres n0thing you can do now but to move on. im sure he d0nt want seeing you like that.he'll be happy if everytime you remember him youll just smile and not to be so emotional. I know hes jus up there,watching and guiding you.
2006-10-24 12:00:31 · answer #6 · answered by Lo Carla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will always remember him cause he is always in your thoughts you will never forget him just be happy and get on with your life cause he will not want you to been down he will always be watching you
2006-10-24 11:28:52 · answer #7 · answered by boozemonster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time, you can't get over his loss its impossible, but it will get easier to handle and one day you can tlak about him without crying.
2006-10-24 11:26:31 · answer #8 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as time goes by u will heal up. It will be ok you just have to give it to.
2006-10-24 12:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by Brooke H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋