Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

I worked at a department store and would call over to the other local store for an item since we ran out at the time. He remembered my voice and said don't you work at the one in the sunrise area? He said he remembered me from before and from on the phone, my voice. I never saw him before, so why now? Well that was last January...in June I told him that I liked him more than friends, he said he don't know but yeah we could see where it goes from there. Two days later we went to San Fran for the day and had a blast. Went another time about a month later and had fun once again. I asked someone recently who works with him to ask what he might think of me. The person who works with him told me that he wants to take it slow and see where things go (basically the same answer I already got back in June). Everytime that I mention to go to a movie or something he says I don't know or probably not nowdays. But just yesterday he said I know her, she better come back to see me. What do you think?

2006-10-24 04:46:29 · 2 answers · asked by jacqueline6001 4 in Singles & Dating

And naturally, raise said children into happy, self-actualized adults?

Please don't just answer yes or no. Supply details and discuss.

Thanks.

2006-10-24 04:45:48 · 34 answers · asked by Bronwen 7 in Family

Here's the problem: my boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years off and on. When we were off, he didn't waste time being single, he went out with lots of girls. I probably only dated about 2 guys so he was obviously the go-getter of meeting girls. Anyway now we're back together for good, and I still have jealousy problems. Recently I found that he texted a female friend (who i have met several times) where she flirted with him and told him she'd model him fishnets in a jokingly way and it seemed he was flirting back. I confronted him and he said adamantly that his co-worker wrote it, and i don;t know if i should believe him because his immature co-workers (30 year olds with frat boy mentality) has texted me under his name. I went psycho last night and was balling, and he says he doesn't know how to deal with my jealousy problems. I'm willing to talk it out and work it out because i know he wouldn't cheat on me, so how do i prove it? He already thinks i am just super jealous

2006-10-24 04:45:17 · 8 answers · asked by becky l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-24 04:45:15 · 18 answers · asked by Sinster22 1 in Friends

is this normal. i have never really been into having sex because of the pain. also not always physically attracted to him. please help!!!

2006-10-24 04:45:06 · 21 answers · asked by what 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-24 04:44:53 · 9 answers · asked by Mr. Pizza Man 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 04:44:44 · 17 answers · asked by Josh B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-24 04:43:59 · 4 answers · asked by flavorlicious 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

About three months ago I lied to my fiance about texting one of my friend's friend. I wanted to find out where people were going out etc. she was a girl. I didn't tell her because I was scared she would get mad. Now, she told me that i had to quit drinking, go to therapy, and take medication. I love this woman with all my heart. we been together for 1 1/2 years. I would do anything for her. I have gone to therapy, taken medication for adhd, quit drinking, quit going out. I don't talk to the "friends" i had when I was going out anymore. We have had some money troubles so i went out and got a second job. She has no job. I take care of everything. She now says, after all this hard work that I have done that she doesn't want to be with me. She wants to be friends, but she can not promise anything as to working it out. What sucks is I was making so much progress. She also said she doesn't want to have kids with me because i have 2 from previous and that it wont b special. What do I do?

2006-10-24 04:43:50 · 14 answers · asked by blahblahblah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband brought me and my children to Idaho and went back to arizona. he was supposaed to move up here but after about 4 weeks called and said that he was filing for divorce. he gave me a phone number of an attorney's office that he was using but when i called they said he wasn't a client of theirs. how do i find out if he has really filed orif he is just bluffing?

2006-10-24 04:42:23 · 7 answers · asked by lonely wabbit 1 in Marriage & Divorce

INVITATION CARD TEXT FORMAT

2006-10-24 04:42:09 · 7 answers · asked by vimi k 1 in Family

do you think its because he likes the free ride? men can be such dogs sometimes...

2006-10-24 04:42:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys seem to know how to express what they think and feel in easy language that everyone can understand. Girls are always going from one mood to another and can't seem to articulate what is going on with them. What is up with that?

2006-10-24 04:41:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am needing gift ideas for one of my best girlfriends...she's moving to Chicago from AZ to be closer to her family. She and her family are packing up and leaving no later than 11-11. I would like to get them something, but I don't know what. I feel a gift card to Target or for gas is kind of chintzy, but on the same hand, very helpful along the road. Any suggestions? Her daughters are 6 and 1--they will be driving back home.

2006-10-24 04:41:42 · 2 answers · asked by Jen-Jen 6 in Friends

i hate the way i look, I'm 15 years old, 6 foot 3 164 pounds, quite skinny, short dark hair, quite a long face, lanky sort of frame, and i hate it :@, im always getting called of the other lads either a freak, telling me to take my stilts off or get back to the circus, peter crouch, stuff like that?? It doesnt bother me being called, but they make me think that girls think that aswell?

2006-10-24 04:41:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how many have figure out when it is okay to date or when it is okay to bring somebody new in to the life of your child/ or children?
how do you know when it is okay?

2006-10-24 04:40:58 · 11 answers · asked by Manie 2 in Singles & Dating

ok me and my boyfriend been hangin out wit his sister that is very close to him or wateva and they get along like brothers but she doesnt like me and i defintelty dont like her and we are constantly arguing and i just dont know wat to because i dont want my boyfriend to get mad and not want to be wit me anymore if i decide i want to kick her *** or we just stay arguing

2006-10-24 04:40:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

time to get your own back on arntyouupfor it for asking his stupid question should all women be treated like dogs on a leash the dick head him

2006-10-24 04:40:45 · 9 answers · asked by lisa h 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Her son and daughter put her in a nursing home... She is able to walk and understands everyhting. Totally in her right mind. She is on medicare and my dad is trying to fight against his brother a sister. We took her over to her house, Bobby ( My dads brother) has her keys... He was there at her house too and wouldnt let her go in her house. And said the nursing home was her home. What can my dad do? He is looking for answers... No one is really helping.

Please suggestion of things to do. Thank you!

2006-10-24 04:40:15 · 9 answers · asked by glhauser2 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know sounds like a dumb thing but i'm feeling kinda uneasy and confused.

i have no sexual experience and i was not sure if i was actually rape or assaulted. how do i do a check up on myself without going to the doctor. it would be embarassing

was about a week ago. was at a guy's friend house (close know each other 7 years)was at his house . a normal thing for both of us to hang around. that day i had a terrible migrane (i have migraines quite often) and i donoe i sort of blocked out?

cant remember what happen when i woke up, i had this weird feeling below (something like vaginal pain?)i really am not sure if anything happened as: -

2006-10-24 04:39:44 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 04:39:41 · 7 answers · asked by cinnic 1 in Singles & Dating

She said that she just wants some hair thing, but she got me a jacket (about $80).

We are doing dinner and a movie. But what are some ideas for a special gift. Previous gifts have been jewelry and a massage, so I am looking for something different.

thanks

2006-10-24 04:38:59 · 4 answers · asked by BigD 6 in Singles & Dating

Give me your poison,
the poison I killed you with.
It was so harsh of me to do so,
though I did not know.

I only wanted to make you happy,
but you never wanted what I had to offer.
I was so selfish,
I never meant to hurt you with my love.

Give me the blade,
the blade I found in your room,
the blade that riped open my old wounds.
I could not bear the stress you brought.


I've been senseless all this time...
I never noticed what I was doing,
It took forever to know what I had done,
I'm sorry my love, I did not know.

Because I'm deaf,
I never hear my own guilt filled cries
as they rip through the silence,
the empty dead air is the only one who hears.

Because I'm blind,
I never see my gruesome black blood
trickle down my wrist,
and onto the bright white tile floor.

Because I can not taste,
the tears slide down my colorless cheeks,
but I never taste the salt in my mouth.
I cry because I did not know.

Because I can not taste,
I never feel the end coming.
I never suspect I'm dying,
I never feel my strength seeping out my wrists.

Because I can not smell,
I never smell death drawing near.
The stench is strong,
though I can not smell.

I've always loved you my friend.
My friend.That's all you ever were.
I'm sorry my friend, my love, my loss,
I did not know.

2006-10-24 04:37:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Does a girl's heart flutter as much as a guy's when they get that chance to walk alone with a guy at night? Is this a magical moment for girls as it is for guys? Who would you want to spend such a walk with - a friend or a possible boyfriend or both? Please help me figure this out here!

2006-10-24 04:37:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends partner is in the middle of getting a divorce, and he is at the stage of waiting the 6 weeks for the decree absolute to be completed. It is now the 5th week. But the courts have put a bar on it because of the child they have. This has been sorted but he is still waiting for the courts to approve this. All they say is ring back in a couple of days.... can anyone offer any advice? My friend and her partner are due to get married 25th November, and they are worrying it won't be done in time!

2006-10-24 04:37:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We once went out like exactly a year from today and we went out for 6 months but things got between us and we went our separate ways.Then we didn't talk for 3 months and finally we decided to talk and we did and before we new it we were both falling in love with each other again but the problem is he has a boyfriend and he's not leaving him.I'm so lost on what i should do.I asked him to give me some space cause it really hurts when he says he loves me especially since he has a boyfriend.i know my feelings wont change but i don't know what else to do.I've tried telling him if he could give me sometime so i can get a grip of myself but he gets so angry about it and tells me i'm being selfish.Am i being selfish for not wanting to still hurt?he's got a boyfriend so he doesn't understand how i feel.i don't know what to tell him....

2006-10-24 04:36:26 · 4 answers · asked by gio j 1 in Friends

I've been with my black boyfriend for almost 3 years i love him so much he means the world to me. my family loves him but his family is having a problem accepting me still. his stepdad wont even let me come over there house he calls me that white bit**. we live together now and his ma doesnt wanna disrespect her husband by comin over so she lies and sneaks. and when we go out people gawk at us like we got 6 heads or somethin. and i had a black woman tell me " its not like yall aint got everything now yall stealin our men to you white hoe." i mean i just dont understand why people feel like this. why do people have such a problem whit black men dating white women.

2006-10-24 04:36:03 · 39 answers · asked by Princess Nykki 1 in Singles & Dating

If so....How many of you have actully found that person?

2006-10-24 04:35:26 · 11 answers · asked by novelwyrm 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you never want to see the man ever again, just say:
"I love you, I want to marry you and I want to have children with you......"

He will leave skid marks......


What do you have to say about this??

Thanks for sharing.... (",)

2006-10-24 04:34:46 · 42 answers · asked by DiL 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello, this is my first time on this site and I am looking for some points of view on my Husband. I have many questions and this is the first.

Do men take such interest in there wife’s appearance as mine does?

I am a very shy person and for the most part when we started dating him not only did I not really have any fashion sense but enjoyed the fact that my boyfriend would by me gifts of clothing and shoes. The years have gone by and this is getting a little old.
This is what he does; please tell if other men do the same:
1. I must wear high heels in public. (Buys all my shoes always 4" high. He calls anything shorter 'trainers')
2. I must wear beige or nude nylons at home and out. (He does like socks)
4. He byes all my panties and nylons. (Always g-string!!!)
5. He picks out my lipstick & eyeliner for me.
6. He is always considered on how my makeup looks
7. He picks and byes my hair color.
8. Pays for my nails every month.
Don’t get me wrong I love him!

2006-10-24 04:34:28 · 28 answers · asked by loribaby36 1 in Marriage & Divorce