We once went out like exactly a year from today and we went out for 6 months but things got between us and we went our separate ways.Then we didn't talk for 3 months and finally we decided to talk and we did and before we new it we were both falling in love with each other again but the problem is he has a boyfriend and he's not leaving him.I'm so lost on what i should do.I asked him to give me some space cause it really hurts when he says he loves me especially since he has a boyfriend.i know my feelings wont change but i don't know what else to do.I've tried telling him if he could give me sometime so i can get a grip of myself but he gets so angry about it and tells me i'm being selfish.Am i being selfish for not wanting to still hurt?he's got a boyfriend so he doesn't understand how i feel.i don't know what to tell him....
2006-10-24 04:36:26 · 4 answers · asked by gio j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No you're not being selfish. He is. He needs to realize that you are hurting and that if he can't be with you he needs to give you the space you need to get over him. He can't have his boyfriend and have you too. That is selfish and unfair. He's just getting angry because he can't have what he wants. Either way he goes, someone is going to be hurt.
2006-10-24 04:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok this is Antonio, tell him that who he's really in love with is it u are the other person,because you want tell him about how u really feel about him and he feel about u. You just got to open up your self and sit alone with and talk to him,make him understand
what u tellin him. But if u don't talk to him now, then it gonna be to late for that, just don't let it happen. Because it will happen to the one u love is havin a relationship with this other guy. Get up go talk to him. If he's feelin u don't let any thing go between u and him.
2006-10-24 04:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by Antonio R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i myself do not belive in only one relationship at a time. how are we to find our soul mate if we are constantly tied to one single person? Origionly, we started this dating thing to find and get to know our love. But we have gotten caught up in whether or not we already have someone who MIGHT be the one, rather than trying our hardest to find the one. that probably doesnt make any since. the wording doesnt to me even. lets see...we are now caught up in the dating, rather than what we are trying to get out of the dating...love. sorry i cant answer you question, i just thought id state my oppinion on the matter...good luck with your love.
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2006-10-24 04:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to make up his damn mind ASAP no, nothing until he makes up his mind it is not fair to anyone.
2006-10-24 04:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋