2006-10-24 04:45:15 · 18 answers · asked by Sinster22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There should be no problem in having conversations with him. You need respect the fact he is married now.
His wife will have to have trust in him not to let things go any farther than friendship between the two of you.
I think if his wife is uncomfortable with it then they need to work that out on their own.
2006-10-24 04:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by Keith Perry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you still talk to a guy that is married?! DO NOT TALK TO HIM ANYMORE!!!! He is in a committed relationship and you of all people should know that! What goes around, comes around and the last thing that you want right now is to hurt yourself, him and his wife. Continue to meet new people and mingle. He's not the only guy on the planet and there are plenty of fish in the sea ( who are NOT married). Stop talking to him and move on girl.
2006-10-24 06:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking the question, then you still have romantic feelings for him. If it were truly platonic, you wouldn't be asking the question. The best thing to do is completely cut off the relationship. Otherwise, you and/or he will continue to be tempted, grey areas will turn black, and bad, bad things will happen.
2006-10-24 04:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by SPC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think thats a great idea. Even if it is completely innocent, it could be miscontrued and that only ever leads to a world of problems.
I am sure there are loads of guys for you to talk to, best to leave that one alone....just to be safe !!!
You don't want a furious wife hunting you down !!!
2006-10-24 04:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by Wee Eck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you dated him when he was single,so obviously you were just dating type for him and NOT marriage type so back off because if this were my husband and you were trying to get in where you don't fit in you would get a five sense dose of my cat claws. //// //// I am totally against homewreckers.
2006-10-24 04:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always ok to have friends. Just not friends with benefits when someone is married.
2006-10-24 04:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, not having all the particulars, I'd say no.
Unless you stopped having any romantic interest in him, then there's no reason you can't have casual contact with him AND hia wife if she has no problem with it.
2006-10-24 04:48:26 · answer #7 · answered by parsonsel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay friend let me tell you, its okay if he's not trying to get at you and your not trying to get at him! but if its like that get away from that situation. honestly I wouldn't like it if my husband was talking to his ex. I'm married and I know if I were to do that to him he would go crazy!!!
2006-10-24 05:25:39 · answer #8 · answered by PRI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ! ! ! !...i mean look at it like this, would you want someone that you are married to talk to someone else....dont do something that you would not want happed to you.
If you want to talk to him, you should just keep it as friends and FRIENDS ONLY ! ! ! ! !
2006-10-24 06:32:48 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, that is so disrespectfull to yourself and him and his WIFE.
dont be the type who wants to create drama cause your jealous or bored of your own life.
move on
2006-10-24 04:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by di05712 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋