Do you believe that thier is one perfect person out there for each of us?

Question

If so....How many of you have actully found that person?

Answer 1

I have to agree with Janicajay
Relationships take work and a commitment from both people.
No one is perfect, but I do believe that there is that one special person made just for you. Sometimes we don’t recognize them even when we already have them in our lives and sometimes we accept the wrong person because it felt good or looked good.
I've been married for 28 years, nether of us are perfect, its in accepting our differences and understanding that life has seasons… some seasons are like spring, beautiful and refreshing… while others are like winter...cold and dreary... you get through it by loving them more than your self. If your in a winter season be patient and stay committed it will pass, besides another spring is right around the corner.

Answer 2

No I don't believe that. For one thing there are no "perfect people" The reason why so many relationships go sour is because people get into them for the wrong reasons, most of them hormonally based. Mother Nature doesn't give a rap; about long happy marriages. Her only focus is getting males and females to mate for the perpetution of the species. So when we see somebody we feel attracted to, it almost always has to do with one of Mother Nature's sneaky tricks to p;ull us towards a person who might have some good genetic material... people who look a ttractive to us, are healthy, vital, lively and fascinating. Females are not only drawn towards men who are financially secure and successful for their own advantage. Subconsciously the woman associates this as being a good source of p;rovision for the yet unconceived children. No p;erson is sooooo unique that he or she would be the ONLY right partner for somebody else. Things go wrong because people too often don't dig down below the level of their instinctive first attraction to someone. You are setting yourself up for failure down the road if you are a slob and you fall for a neat freak (or t'other way round) Two people with equally strong but different religious beliefs or social habits is another red flag. The party animal and the homebody do not go well together. And for goodness sakes, you sure do need to have a really good discussion about the way you both feel when it comes to having and raising children. Way too many people believe that somehow these issues just magically resolve themselves once you are married, because "love conquers all" Not only doesn't it, but those "little things" that in the first flush of "love" you dismiss as totally unimportant, many times become a very big deal after you hve had to deal with them in that other person day after day after day for a few years. You also have to experience that other person's general behaviours in the different circumstances of life, Quick temper, tendency to be v erbally vulgar, ;possessive, demanding, for example, when you are the opposite of those things, is a reeeeal big warning. Before I married my husband of now over thirty years, we sat down and discussed about ten different "issues of compatibility" where we felt we needed to be sure that we were pretty much on the same page, or where we felt that we would compliment one another. For instance he wasn't good at all at eating for best health. I'm a "health nut" . But we were not going to clash because he was perfectly laid back when it came to letting me choose what we ate. I am not a "fashion fanatic" but by golly "Daddums" had no sense of style at all and I am sure would happily go out in a purple jacket and canary yellow pants if I let him. But he leaves it entirely to me to make sure he always "looks sharp" So we very much compliment one another and the "D" word will never become a part of our voc abulary. I always think of that little jingle from a children's book...."Jack Sprat could eat no fat. His wife could eat no lean. And so it was between the two, they licked the platter clean" I think I and my husband are "Mr. and Mrs. Jack Spratt" .

Answer 3

No. Any relationship marriage or friendship takes work, committment, responsibility, trust, communication and compromise.

You are never going to find that "one person" and then ride off into the sunset and live happily ever after.

People fight, people disagree, people makeup, it's a roller coaster of a ride sometimes.

Answer 4

I don't know if i believe that anymore. I found a three people who i thought was perfect for me. It turns out that I married one of them. Things are so so. I'm unsure. Wish that I knew. I'm good friends with the other two. They actually think that I'm their soul mate. It wasn't until I got married did I find out about one of them. so who knows

Answer 5

I WOULD HAVE TO SAY NO TO THAT BECAUSE LIKE THE BIBLE SAID ADAM WAS THE PERFECT MAN BUT HE SINED AND BECAUSE OF HIM WE WAS BORN IN SIN IT IS JUST LIKE IF YOU BOUGHT A BAKING PAN AND SOME HOW IT FALL AND GOT A DENT IN IT ALL THE BREAD YOU BAKE IN IT WILL HAVE THAT DENT LOOK ON THEM SO NO ONE OUT THERE IS PERFECT THERE ARE SOME GOOD AND SOME BAD SOME NOT SO GOOD AND SOME NOT SO BAD BUT NO ONE IN THIS WORLD IS PERFECT.

Answer 6

Yes, and I found him. It took a long time but the wait was worth it.

Answer 7

i have found my perfect soul mate and we have been together for 5 years and still happy

Answer 8

i do i do, but i let him walk out of my life 13 years ago and and have regretted it ever since

Answer 9

i do strongly believe in this. and i have found my significant other

Answer 10

i think that their is. And i have found mine.