ok me and my boyfriend been hangin out wit his sister that is very close to him or wateva and they get along like brothers but she doesnt like me and i defintelty dont like her and we are constantly arguing and i just dont know wat to because i dont want my boyfriend to get mad and not want to be wit me anymore if i decide i want to kick her *** or we just stay arguing
2006-10-24 04:40:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Simple. Just absent yourself whenever she's around.
You have to state a firm stand before situation gets worse after marriage. Unless marriage never cross your mind and is not in consideration in this relationship.
Cheers!
2006-10-24 04:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by Geo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices make nice or make like a banana and split because the sister is going nowhere. It is hard to be the one to bite your tongue but give it a try and if she is still being a pain talk to the boyfriend after all he will see you are making the effort and she is not maybe he can get through to her.
2006-10-24 04:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time. You two will probably end up being best friends.
I don't know how old you are, but in my relationships, it's "always" the ones that I don't get along with at first that end up being good friends. Just be yourself and keep hanging out. Maybe try and be a little extra nice (even though you don't like her) and things will eventually work out.
Good luck ! ! !
2006-10-24 04:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to your BF that you don't get along with his sister and that you want to avoid her in the interest of peace and harmony.
2006-10-24 04:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well thats very normal, tou should have a conversation with your boyfriend, tell him that you can try to change it, but he needs to talk to his sister and tell her to try to get along with you, and if she just dont wanna do it, then just ignore her
2006-10-24 04:48:05 · answer #5 · answered by crazygirl123 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to your boyfriend about it,maybe she's just jealous because now she's not the only "woman" in her brother's life,if you can,try to ignore her when she tries to pick a fight with you,and you be the bigger person,try and be her friend,make her understand you are not trying to take her place in her brother's life.
2006-10-24 04:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by linrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who are you dating your boyfriend or his sister, if you dont like her then just ignore her or stay away from her. You dont have to please her.
2006-10-24 04:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal it happens to everyone always someone
2006-10-24 04:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋