Family & Relationships - 23 October 2006

we have been going out for almost 10 munths now.we r both in our teens.and to even go out for a month is a big thing.he hasnt calld,text,or even emailed me...in days. one time it was a month.my birthday was on the 17 and he still hasnt told me happi b-day!im begining to become frustarted and angry,cuz it seems im the onli one putting in effort in this relationship...(we usta talk everyday jus to tel yall) i know he's busy and he works,and a lot of things r going on in his family rite now.i dont wanna b a naggin gf,but i dont know how to tell him how i feel...

2006-10-23 12:44:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should i forgive can i forgive. he said it was just sex. we had not done it in 8 months and our relationship was bad.. he is desperate for us to stay, can it ever work

2006-10-23 12:44:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a boyfriend that I have been dating off and on for about 4-1/2 months I love him but that is one of things I am afraid to express to him. I also have a hard time asking him question thata girlfriend is suppose to know about their boyfriend. I don't know what it is... maybe it's he's strong personality.. and maybe self-consciously I am intimidated by that but I know that deep down inside, he is the sweetest person you'll can ever know. I planning on talking to later on tonight to reveal my TRUE self to him and how I truly feel but I ned tips/ help on how to do this. I NEED TO KNOW HOW TO ASK ME QUESTION W/O FEELING SOMEWHAT INSECURE OR NERVOUS!!! I know he is not trying to make me feel this way or doin anything on purpose. So is it me??? Help!!! Have you ever had this problem???

2006-10-23 12:43:59 · 7 answers · asked by LadyEnyce101 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My flatmate's met a woman & fallen for her hard. She's giving him the run around, asking for 'space', telling him she wants to be 'friends', etc. But he's so totally gone over her he's driving me nuts!! He needs to know how he can persuade her that he truely is worth getting to know better (without becoming a stalker).

2006-10-23 12:43:45 · 4 answers · asked by Bubbly Blonde 4 in Singles & Dating

My dad lives in Portland Oregon and I live in Cali.

2006-10-23 12:42:46 · 6 answers · asked by Jonathan 3 in Family

girls ther is this guy he is so cute ireally like him!He is popular and im not! but he gave me a huge once and told me i was his HOME DOG! In class he will mess with the back of my desk.and mess with my hair and poke my back in a gentle way. he is nice to me but we dont talk much he also tells me i am his best friend. When he looks at me his eyes are all soft and relaxed. Hint i am shy and dont speek to popular kids much. But does this sound like he likes me.

2006-10-23 12:42:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so my bf is " good friends" with this girl who is driving me insane! like she invited me to her party but i said no and then said yes because i did not have any plans with my friends and in less than 24 hours i am dis-invited to her stupid party since she invited me as well as my bf but i said no and told my bf that since he knows her and when i said that i wanted to go she could like not find a spot for me. anyways, my bf is telling me that there is nothing going on between the two of them and that he loves me and that he and that other girl which we shall call "X" are "just friends". for some reason i do not want to buy into that or am i just paranoid and think of the worst case scenario: him cheating on me with girl "X"?or are my instincts telling me that my bf can or is playing me and my worst fears coming true?help from both gals and guys! i would appreciate that...

2006-10-23 12:41:27 · 1 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Singles & Dating

45 min walk and im 13

2006-10-23 12:41:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This goes to all the girls do you really care about the size of a mans penis or how much he knows and what he does to please you?

2006-10-23 12:40:53 · 8 answers · asked by zkull_1 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has also stated that he will not give me a divorce and that he will leave me and my 10 year old son with nothing.

2006-10-23 12:40:48 · 3 answers · asked by LJ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Wow, rumors in my school spread like wildfire. Ack. Anyway, I liked a girl and my friends blabbed and jumped the gun, asking her out. Problems were that we didn't really know each other, plus she's one grade below me so I don't see her except in the hallway and after lunch.

Was a genius idea to ask her before even getting to know her, yes, I know. Anyway, like I said earlier, rumors spread like wildfire. When my friend asked my crush's brother if he cared if someone liked his sister, he mentioned my name at the same time. Even though he didn't care, he told his friends that were sitting next to him at lunch. With more people asking and hearing by the second, probably the whole school knows that I like her and she rejected me.

So... I'm confused. Should I back off? Should I start off as friends? What should I do? I'm considering the option of backing off, and I'm following through with the decision so far, but I'm not sure what I should do, now that the situation has changed.

2006-10-23 12:40:35 · 5 answers · asked by The World Ends with You 5 in Singles & Dating

I know I can space out at times but is this normal, or am I just rude? Also he tells me all the time about how he loves me but not all the things that come with me, like my family, "stupid" freind. He is constantly reading my myspace, e-mails and questioning me about actions, conversations, who was looking at me and when....need some objectivity, I know I think this is too much but I am married and do love him...what to do.

2006-10-23 12:39:38 · 37 answers · asked by trajan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I cheated on my man and now I feel guilty about what i did ..... what should I do?

2006-10-23 12:39:15 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

James is 21. Matue, yes, but at love he could be the most annoying little thing. I've seen a girl turn him down once, and he' hasn't spoken to her since. (About a year or so.) I love him like a brother, and I don't want this to get in our friendship. How do I say no?

2006-10-23 12:38:02 · 20 answers · asked by Keit' AlMode 1 in Singles & Dating

On the bus, my good friend Tommy got accused of threatning to kill someone, but I know he wouldn't do such a thing. Also, the guy who reported me threatened to rape me earlier. Tommy has already been suspended and I don't know what to do!

2006-10-23 12:37:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

That my boyfriend might end up breaking up with me because there is this girl on his ( my bf's ) bus who wants to date him but he loves me just as much. Should I believe My friend or just brush it off? the thing is that Chad and I have been together for almost a year. and i really love chad and dont want to lose him.

2006-10-23 12:37:00 · 9 answers · asked by Faith_marie_16 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have sensed problems in our marriage for several years ( 4 or so) but time has passed quickly due to illnesses and family deaths etc and now he has just begun therapy as he realized he has lots of luggage from his past that he feels may have effected our marriage.

I see that the changes that I am looking for may not be the pesron he really is. Like I would like a husband who will attend events and family functions with me and he never has (always comes up with an excuse) and I don't think that will change. There are some issues that I think may get worked out but there are some fundamentals that I think I looked past (we got married fairly shortly after we met) and I think I missed it in the "love haze".

Things like he feels that his business and financial descisons are his and none of my business even though they effect us both. His manic depression has got us into major finacial problems and yet he still feels I should stay out of "his business".

2006-10-23 12:36:44 · 12 answers · asked by Sandra C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do u luv Big Bird???

2006-10-23 12:35:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she has a fulltime job but spends ALL her money on clothes, makeup, drinks and so on ... I know it's exciting having money & legally being able to drink etc, but she gets sick so often & so easily as she wears teenie weenie little tops in freezing weather & won't listen to me to cover up ... HELP !!! any workeable solutions from Mums who've been through this ???

2006-10-23 12:35:54 · 8 answers · asked by Private P 2 in Family

im going with the top that ties behind the neck, jeans, and boots

2006-10-23 12:35:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i found pics of my mom and other guys(not my dad) doing things. it was totally gross. should i saw something

2006-10-23 12:35:00 · 9 answers · asked by jenny m 1 in Family

Its $300 and I'm not sure if i should get it or not. To be honest I'm not even sure if I can afford to buy it or not. I'm trying to get my own car on the road right now but I know he wants it soooo bad.. Please give me your opinion. Feel free to ask questions from me to give a better answer!!

2006-10-23 12:34:43 · 17 answers · asked by Becca 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex wife is a real b i t c h. She cheated on me, we divorced, she got remarried and she and her cop husband are control freaks and bleeding me dry financially. What can I do that would just ruin her?

2006-10-23 12:33:07 · 33 answers · asked by cabuckley3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and we both lived in the same state for 3 years and I just moved 2 months ago to be closer to my family(get my head on straight) for awhile. After being here I miss him like krazy and I am wondering should I go back. So my question is should I go back to be with the love of my life or continue to stay here for a few months?

2006-10-23 12:32:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or is it just .I'm getting sick of them ggrr

2006-10-23 12:32:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am 14, so is he and he is a stoner and he always sits by me but i have nothing to say! Help o and i like him

2006-10-23 12:31:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it sounds like move onto the next boy....

2006-10-23 12:30:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do I have to have a nice car or new home or tons of money? Do I have to be in shape and have a fully head of hair? Do have to hold my gas in front of you? Do I have to make you laugh 24/7? Do I have to take out the trash when you tell me too? What do I have to do to impress you?

2006-10-23 12:30:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am middle aged but still dam hot to look at (that is what other guys tell me). My bf treats me as if I were there for his pleasure and does nothing for me - or says things he knows hurt my feelings. I want to tell him and have told him when he says hurtful things - but the insensitivity is really getting to me.

2006-10-23 12:30:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my coworker talks to me in a "sweet" tone of voice, but i think that's only because i'm not the kind of girl guys would joke around with or be mean to. sometimes he seems kind of shy when he talks to me. but when he talks to other girls or guys, he loses that 'sweetness.' he's always happy to help me out whenever i ask him to, too.

2006-10-23 12:29:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating