and we both lived in the same state for 3 years and I just moved 2 months ago to be closer to my family(get my head on straight) for awhile. After being here I miss him like krazy and I am wondering should I go back. So my question is should I go back to be with the love of my life or continue to stay here for a few months?
2006-10-23 12:32:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh yea. I am visiting him next week
2006-10-23 12:36:16 · update #1
Why don't you invite him to come and visit with you and your family. That will let you see him again for a short time and let your family meet him as well. Perhaps he will choose to move to be closer to you then.
2006-10-23 12:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by MAQdragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Beyonce I am reading a couple of contradictory thoughts here. No, your not weird or anything half the world lives in this zone. You moved back to have a closer relationship with your family to get "your head straight". I trust your first choice and would agree that that was a good decision. You miss him terribly (I think your in Love duh) and now you have a choice to make. You say. I would say compromise. Go back, get a motel room, no, not for that! Stay for a couple of days. Schedule this time so both of you will be free from work and all obligations. Now is the time you can assess the real decision, stay single or morph into a couple.
Communication right now is the highest priority. Call, write, yell, whatever it takes. It'll be fun, it'll be fun, it'll be fun! Just do it.
2006-10-23 19:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are missing him like crazy you should tell him and ask him if he wants you to come back you have your answer but I think if the two of you love each other the way you say you will make it work regardless of what state you live in you and him will make the effort to be together and you all should try to talk to each other on the phone and let each other know that you love each other I'm in the same situation and we make it work because we call each other and whenever we get the chance we visit each other every other weekend
2006-10-23 19:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just visit him for a little and then come back to your family
2006-10-23 19:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by ..::pimpin azn grl::.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should go c him stay for 1 or 2 weeks and aternate.
2006-10-23 19:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go back you can visit family any time
2006-10-23 19:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by TOONS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your love is just that. In the BIBLE it says a man shall leave his family and go to his wife's and cleave unto her. So ,HE NEEDS TO COME TO YOU!!! Or forget him
2006-10-23 19:36:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your head on straight first. because men come and go but knowledge is power
2006-10-23 19:35:43 · answer #8 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just keep the relationship through the mail. my friend did it a while it works and there together now.
2006-10-23 19:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by outrun_7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay where you are
have him come to YOU!
it can be a good thing to have him move to you..
talk to him today about it...
if it is meant to be..he will come to you...
good luck
smile
2006-10-23 19:37:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋