James is 21. Matue, yes, but at love he could be the most annoying little thing. I've seen a girl turn him down once, and he' hasn't spoken to her since. (About a year or so.) I love him like a brother, and I don't want this to get in our friendship. How do I say no?
2006-10-23 12:38:02 · 20 answers · asked by Keit' AlMode 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you can tell him what you think. if it hurts him, try to comfort him and do somthing good for him.
2006-10-23 12:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by Sierra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
expensive individual who Brother 'loves' her- Its common yet embarrassing yet your going to could inform your mom and dad approximately it. or you are able to desire to flow and tell a pal or somebody who you comprehend will understand. meanwhile shop away out of your brother while doing this-it is going to basically make him offended. Or the alternative-Act large loopy like a drama queen sarcastic kinda way which will in all risk make him embarassed and get the message that its incorrect.
2016-10-16 07:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asked you out already there's not much you can do but to tell him how you feel. But, if he didn't, you should send him messages of how he's one of your best guy friends (don't mean text messaging u know :) In conversations, throw phrases like, oh, you're such a good friend; I wanna us to be friends forever; and stuff like that so, he'll understand you don't want anything from him but his friendship. That sucks so much when your guy friends do that, because at the end in most times, you end up losing them. but, it's really their fault. they should know better. they should know who they should go after and who they shouln't.
2006-10-23 12:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by ILuvMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not have to say no, but express yourself just as you did now. Tell him how you feel right now, and that it might take time. If he does not respect your decision, then he was never a friend. Trust your friendship and always be yourself
2006-10-23 12:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by Randall L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a tricky situation.
i was once there. i made a b f and told him i am in a relationship with ome one. he found out much later by then he was happily marrie to a oman i set him up with.
best of luck
2006-10-23 12:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you love him like a brother but you yourself is not ready to take a huge step. and that you perfer to be friends then a couple.
2006-10-23 12:42:31 · answer #6 · answered by Stacey l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!! I love you like a brother!!
2006-10-23 12:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the best thing that you can do is just be perfectly honest with them and they will understand even though they may not say they do it will take time but he will understand
2006-10-23 12:40:56 · answer #8 · answered by Patrick Teh III 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be real with him and tell him the truth then tell him how you feel about him so he knows that you like him like a brother
2006-10-23 12:40:57 · answer #9 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! and I love you like a brother. LOL!
2006-10-23 12:40:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say your better off as friends.
2006-10-23 12:42:30 · answer #11 · answered by cute lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋