Help with a guy?

Question

i am 14, so is he and he is a stoner and he always sits by me but i have nothing to say! Help o and i like him

Answer 1

why do you want to get yourself involved with a stoner?
its not worth it (trust me, ive been there... a few times) im not saying hes not a good guy, but the fact that hes a stoner tells me hes not worth it.

if you really want to give it a shot. you might want to start with something like. hey, whats up?

(by the way, im 15)

Answer 2

Hi! Wassup! I'm 14 2, u know, and I absolutely also loooooove this 1 guy who's in my class, he's 1 of my BFF so it's not that bad, but it wasn't always that way, hehe. I made a plan, and i'll pass it on 2 u, chick!:
1. Smile, guys ADORE smiles.
2. B nice with everybody around u, he'll see that and b interested in geing ur friend.
3. Buy strawberry or blueberry gum, it smells oh so nice, and they like it a lot.
4.Use perfume, ahhhhhhhh! so good!.
5. Ask him for help, but not 2 much cuz he can think ur dumb.
6. Comment funny things with him that come 2 ur mind.
7. TRY 2 act natural.
8. Don't EVER hit him, not even playfully.
9. Ok I understand, how could u hit him if the problem is even talking 2 him? yeah well, this is 4 WHEN u become friends.
10. Invite him 2 some party with ur friends.
11. If u have NOTHING 2 say, just.. try number 1 first.
12. Start by saying HI! or, oh I'm late (when u r late), or something like that.

I'm sorry if this didn't help, but well.. actually I need help 2!!! If u get a good answer please help me 2!.
THNX.
oxox,
ur friend,
Little Cowy.

Answer 3

ok hon...you are 14. Make him your buddy, but not your BOYFRIEND. you said it all in the first few words: "he is a stoner". Do you want to have to make excuses for him when he forgets your birthday, christmas, valentine's day?? Do you want to put up with him being stoned most of the time you are together. Stoned guys have problems sexually. Stoned guys have lots of problems. Don't do it. Make him a friend. And leave it at that. Unless you don't care if he doesn't remember anything important to you, borrows money from you (borrows means NEVER GIVES IT BACK), smells bad cause he vomits on his clothing and the smell of pot stinks up his stuff, can't get romantic cause nothing works good, has bad skin, bad teeth, and either loses every job he gets or can't even get a job because it requires getting up to go to it.
Remember dear: make him a friend, not a boyfriend.

Answer 4

He is a stoner- don't get involved. that can only end in disaster. 14 year-olds shouldn't be getting into these things. Go find something age appropriate to do, don't worry about dating and drugs.

Answer 5

Just talk to him about Math, for example, if you are in Math class. Then, ask about his interests, like sports for example. Then, say how you 2 could get together after school sometime. He will love that you made the first move. Trust me, as a guy, I would appreciate it if the girl made the first move. Good luck!!!

Answer 6

girl u dont need to be concerned about this boy or any boy in that matter your 14 thats way to young enjoy being a kid! have fun with your girlfriends dont try to get all tied up in a boy... your just gonna get hurt if he doesnt like u or if u do date and he breaks up with u y??? because Your 2 YOUNG...young girls always take break ups hard because they feel there not gonna be able to move on.... . take my advice your young your thinking with your eyes not with your heart! u will get hurt easily! its best not to get yourself into more problems at a young age have fun with your life u arent even a adult yet and havent lived half of what life has to offer u!

Answer 7

if you have any classes with him, maybe you could talk about those...if he always sits by you (at lunch im guessing?) then maybe he likes you too...

Answer 8

you could be like...hey! what's up? and mabey you could start a conversation....but try not to be too obvious that you like him...and just be cool and remember to be yourself. i hope this helps!