Family & Relationships - 22 October 2006

2006-10-22 17:18:40 · 14 answers · asked by tonymacaroni 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 17:18:29 · 12 answers · asked by sricharan 1 in Weddings

Ok, I know this question has been asked tons of times before, but I want my own answers. First off, I'm a guy...most of these questions I've seen are from girls. And most people will say yes because it demonstrates resistance from temptation. However, that is the case when it is one's personal choice. If, on the other hand, it is not... and this person has been trying to rid himself of it for a long time, and still cannot accomplish it. What does it say of that person? Honorable? Dishonorable? A terrible curse of pitifulness of not being able to get a girl? Or perhaps a blessing that is preventing me from getting (or rather losing) something I'll regret later? The problem is obviously me, (I'm not trying to argue otherwise, and this question doesn't involve that aspect anyway) but my question is...with this in mind, is it still ok to be a virgin? I know the answer...this is more a request for opinions. I may be risking a lot by exposing myself like this...but, let's see what you say.

2006-10-22 17:18:20 · 29 answers · asked by Eridani 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 17:14:26 · 12 answers · asked by Lord Glyde 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

like someone when u already have a bf?

2006-10-22 17:13:44 · 19 answers · asked by sweet COUNTRY kissin<3 2 in Singles & Dating

This is more of a question i guess for girls. If you see this guy that keeps on looking at you in one of your classes and you think he likes you. Then one day he starts talking to you and says he thinks you are the most gorgeous girl he has seen and he wants your number and wants to talk to you outside of school. But you don't even know him yet.

Would this be weird or would you like the attention?

2006-10-22 17:13:10 · 6 answers · asked by TT M 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a few pairs of above the knee boots. Are there ever any circumstances in which I can wear them out without being thought of as a hooker?

Or should I just keep using them as my 'revenge boots'...better used to kick deserving perverted men between the legs and crushing their balls?

2006-10-22 17:13:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its hard to let go of my x boyfriend because we lived together and dated for a couple of yrs. but he was using hard drugs and lying to me...then he quit and started again. i think its really hard for me to be ok when things dont work out. our relationship became abusive b/c i was lied to so much and i went and feel crazy. now he hates me and thinks i'm psycho. i was really scared adn sad for him and wanted to help him but now i am just infuriated with him. i know i messed up in the relationship too b/c of my anger but i just am still obsessed. now he tells me hes not using but he hangs out with shadey people who do use adn got him into it. its just all a mess adn we live in close proximity to each other. i always want to open my heart to him but then i think i am so stupid for caring about him and i then get mean and angry and unpredictible. it sucks and i want out but sometimes i still miss him adn he wont get his crap out of my house which makes it harder. and i get so sad.

2006-10-22 17:12:50 · 6 answers · asked by shannon l 1 in Family

my brother and wife his got a divorce. He pays child support for his kids, she took out of the state. his ex-wife told him he cannot allow any woman in the house they use to live in because it still belong to her, she moved out over a year to live with her man. she feel she can run the house they shared and the one she's in now a year later she has not paid a motrtgage, insurance or anything and does not plan to return to the state or the home she is even planning to buy a home with her man..can she do this to him???

2006-10-22 17:12:02 · 10 answers · asked by mita 1 in Marriage & Divorce

One guy did understand it, he totaly got it. I sent the poem to him. Here's the poem, its really a beautiful poem. Once you read it, you'll see what I mean. Enjoy.

http://www.steeldog.com/reasonseasonlifetime.htm

2006-10-22 17:09:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend cried on the phone after we both make mistake in our relationship. I try to call him 2x but he didn't answer my call, he told me that he need some space for awhile. Do you he is hangout with another woman? What should do for make him happy?

2006-10-22 17:08:01 · 19 answers · asked by Collegegirl_900 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my husband with all my heart, and I would NEVER cheat on him. With that having been said here is the problem:

Our sex drives are mismatched. I would like to have it at least once a day. He is good to have it maybe twice a week. When I don't get it I feel very frustrated, and it affects my mood. If it is longer than a few days I even start feeling resentful. I wish it wasn't this way, but it is.

Now, taking into consideration there are a few factors that get in the way. For one we have an infant who has taken to staying up until at least 10 P.M. The second factor is our teenage daughter. the third factor is my mother. She has to spend the night occasionally because she babysits the infant while we work.

The fourth factor, and the one that interferes the most, is that he is ALWAYS tired. He is literally asleep as soon as his head hits the pillow. Then, if he does happen to be awake long enough for me to brush my teeth and get into bed, he may start showing me attention, only

2006-10-22 17:07:06 · 14 answers · asked by Lisa T 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this girl at work who is 10 years younger than me and she started hanging around me a good bit. We went out to lunch a few times and we started going to dinner some. After a few dates we hooked up (kissing only). After the relationship turned romantic she quit calling and e-mailing but she always returned my calls and was always very nice. I felt something was wrong and one night we had a pretty bad date, bad conversation and I could tell she didn't want to be there. She is only 26 and I don't think she has a lot of relationship experience. I have been married and have a kid so I thought that may have been scary to her. We work in different offices so we don't see each other a lot. I kind of quit fooling with her after that but we still talk some. This week I e-mailed her with a funny work thing and she called me a few times Friday. This weekend she texted me a few times. I don't know if she wants to be friends or if she wants to start things back up. I am really confused.help

2006-10-22 17:06:53 · 11 answers · asked by William J 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 17:06:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And if you didn't they would leave you?

2006-10-22 17:06:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 17:06:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel as though I'm loosing it. How can a pregnant mother of 2, with no work skills make it on her own?!!

2006-10-22 17:05:30 · 16 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This girl like me about 2 or 3 weeks ago but now I like her but im not sure about her

2006-10-22 17:05:11 · 2 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Singles & Dating

I have a delima really dont know what to do but I need to realy know is it something we did or are they just cold hearted and vicious

2006-10-22 17:04:06 · 29 answers · asked by justafriendlyperson 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well, my mom is overprotective when it comes to me dating guys (even though im not allowed to date til im 15 or 16, so i can't date anyone yet; im only 14.) well, my mom says that if a guy wants to date me and/or be my bf, he has to come to my house and do a 2-hour "interview" with my mom, to see if he's ok for me to date! and its not like hes interviewing for a job!!! and my mom also says that if he and i go to a movie, she would sit in between us!!!X(
this is so unfair!!! my mom is normally not like that when it comes to other things! what should i say to my mom?:(

2006-10-22 17:03:51 · 11 answers · asked by Rachelnpl 2 in Family

ok so i had to let go of someone I love dearly and been with for two and a half years because i felt that i could not make her happy in the long run. My mind told me to let her go because it was the most sensible thing to do because i truley dont want to hurt her because i do love her, she's moving on with her life now (with somebody as i type this) but ironically I cant let go because i love her, it hurts like hell and yes it's all my doing.

2006-10-22 17:03:42 · 19 answers · asked by Wiseguy 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 17:03:23 · 6 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Singles & Dating

My cousin is in prison and I want to write him a letter. We have never been that close my life is really boring and I have never been good at writing letters.I thought about sending him some inspirational quotes or something. Does anyone have some ideas of things I could say or do?

2006-10-22 17:03:09 · 3 answers · asked by EX 2 in Family

usually i was under the impression that most girls will wait a while before they do it. My current gf initiated it after a month, and in some ways now i feel that it's clouded the whole getting to know someone phase. What are your opinions?

2006-10-22 17:02:27 · 23 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 17:02:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My old girlfriend from 9th grade wants to go back out with me. We broke up because of pressure from friends. I can't believe i gave her up because of a bunch of my stupid friends advice. I'm afraid even if I shouldn't, i will anyways, because it is so hard to resist her.

2006-10-22 17:02:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok..heres the deal...me and this girl met...we were STRICTALLY just friends....she is 14 and i am 18...the more we talked the more we fell fond of each other untill it reached the point to where now...we r in love... ur prolly thinking shes to young and immature!..well...a few weeks ago while she was out with her friends, another 18 y/o guy comes up and starts hitting on her...by this time ur prolly wondering how she looks or how mature she really is....but this guy was sad to find out that she was indeed 14 and not 17 or 18 like he had first instagated... she is very mature!...and a very smart girl...i honestly love everything about her...and am not going to rush into ANYTHING as i am a christian...patients is what we have and what we need...so no...we arent going to be out haveing sex...thats not right in itself to even have premarital sex...i jus love spending time with her..and her parents both really like me...so really...its not wrg at all for us to be talking....right!?!?!?!?

2006-10-22 17:01:36 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my nephew 4, really wants a psp but the y dont have that good of games for him.i was thinking of buying him the wii for christmas if you dont think thats a good gift give me some ideas.

2006-10-22 17:00:58 · 3 answers · asked by krazy miss speler 06 2 in Friends

Then drown me in it?

2006-10-22 17:00:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well,just September 19th I got a boyfriend.Then one day my friend said to me after my bf and I were finished talking she said I think he likes you(she didnt know that we were togeather)and i said "well ya he should he is my boyfriend"so she went to ask him and he said "i dont know ask her"witch I didnt want to feel imbarssed so I had to say "I dont know ask him"because i didnt know if he was just being shy or if he didnt know if we were togeather.HELP ME!!!

2006-10-22 16:59:17 · 15 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships