Why must men cheat is a genetic disorder or do they just get tired of the same woman after awhile?

Question

I have a delima really dont know what to do but I need to realy know is it something we did or are they just cold hearted and vicious

Answer 1

Do you like eating the same food every day? Do you wear the same shirt day after day? Do you read the same novel over and over, or will you eventually reach for a new book? Maybe people just want to discover somebody new and different for a change. It's no big threat. And men aren't the only ones who want a change of scenery, you know. Women can do it just as efficiently as men. The real problem is unrealistic expectations in relationships, coupled with jealousy, possessiveness and other unacceptable behavioral patterns. If you're tied to an emotionally grasping and needy person, of course you'll want to seek relief someplace else.

Answer 2

Women cheat too. I know that everyone's going to give you this crap on evolution, but I don't buy it entirely. I know some guys who just DO NOT cheat. If it is possible for them to be monogamous, then it is possible for other men too. The problem I see is that people in general (MEN AND WOMEN) are weak. They drink too much, they eat too much, and in general they choose what feels good in the moment over what they know is better in the long run. People that aren't weak are able to resist sexual urges when they know that their relationship is WORTH IT. However sometimes the problem is that people don't have the guts to end a relationship that they don't really want to be in, or are just plain stupid and immature. Either way, it is a character flaw that causes people to cheat, no matter what gender they are. You have to just be very careful who you trust.

And to address what that person said about how if you aren't married it isn't cheating, I disagree. It IS cheating if you made a commitment to a person - legal or non legal. If you are just dating around then yeah, keep your options open, see other people. But if you TOLD someone that you wouldn't date anyone else, and are expecting the same of them, it is wrong - even if there is no legal contract binding you.

Answer 3

First of all.. Real men dont cheat.. Your question should read.. "WHY DO LITTLE BOYS TRAPPED IN MENS BODIES CHEAT"

Because those are the ones that cheat.. and we as women need to be pickier about the men that we chose to be with , as all little boys show some kind of signs that they are just that little boys.. and little boys have no morals or values.. and they dont own up to their word or vows.. and unfortunately society is making more little boys trapped in mens bodies then actual REAL men these days..

So the only part thats ur fault is ignoring the signs that were there, telling u that he is not a "real" man, and choosing to be with a little boy.. other then that, he's just an immature slime bucket that feels the need to stick his thing in any hole that walks with in 5 ft of him..

Answer 4

they aren't the ones hurting you are, and no i do not think they care. they won't feel it till they love someone and they are being cheated on.its never what we did, it has more to do with him and the other woman. they just think its greener on the other side of the fence. they are cowards who run away to someone new when they have to work out any problems, i think some men have no relationship skills and they don't know how to work it out.i think men can be vicious and hard hearted or it seems so when they just leave us for someone else. its really about their character and their decisions they make. sometimes i consider myself the lucky one that my ex moved in with a coworker, he showed who he was in the face of problems, glad i found out while i was still young enough to meet someone else, glad she has the problems i use to have,don't think for a minute he will treat her any better than he treated you after the newness wears off.

Answer 5

I believe the statistics are about 45%.... but I really hate to think it's that high. Still, the majority of men do NOT cheat. And why do they do it? They are SO selfish they do not think about anybody else's feelings. Their fathers cheated, and they don't see anything wrong with it. They have little respect for women. They are insecure, and have to keep proving to themselves that somebody finds them attractive. They think there is always some prettier, sexier, kinder, smarter girl in the future for them... in other words the grass is always greener on the other side of the hill.

No, it is not your fault.

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Answer 6

if physical love had anything to do with what the human heart needs, then divorce and cheating would be unknown. Without divine love guiding our thought and actions, men and women are cold, vicious, dishonest, etc. In time we all learn how to migrate.

Answer 7

First you picked a loser so its not a man disorder that you picked a loser. Second its not generic it just some guys were raised that way and usually raised by a woman most guys are. last if no sex or boring sex man or woman will cheat where did you come up with the idea its just a man thing, wrong.

Answer 8

Not all men cheat. The ones that do cheat do it for different reasons - and none of them are excuses or make it okay. The only thing you can do is try to make your marriage the best it can be so that you are both happy and satisfied with eachother.

Answer 9

Men are not the only ones that cheat, women do more cheating than men. It is a prov-en fact, women are not happy with their partners so they find some one else, but when they are caught cheating they blame the man for it.

Answer 10

Men use sex to affirm their manhood. A cheat is sort of a stroke to the ego and a reaffirmation that they are still desired by the opposite sex. Sick and shallow as it may be, there it is. Doesn't matter if you did anything or not. If they opportunity arises they usually take it.