I feel as though I'm loosing it. How can a pregnant mother of 2, with no work skills make it on her own?!!
2006-10-22 17:05:30 · 16 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Everybody has skills, just need to find yours. Stop looking for men and look for yourself. You are a mommy of 3, your babies need their mommy no matter what. For starters Were and and HELL is the father (child support) that should cover your rent/housenote. Second, go back to school, better your education and live off of the student loans until you can get back on your feet. Then lastly, friends and family, the ones you can count on. Let them help you. Good luck, when it rains, it pours; at the end of the tunnel, you will find joy within yourself. Stay focused on raising your babies, and strong for yourself. God only put on us what we can bear!! You will pull through this
2006-10-22 18:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by sassy lady 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you shouldn't have to make it on your own completely. You can have the father(s) of your children help out with child support, & if he holds out, you take him to court & sue his a** until he pays. You obviously know how to type words into a computer keyboard, & you know something about raising kids so you aren't completely without work skills. Put together a resume & start searching for a job. Lifes tough so go live it Baby!
That's as much sympathy as you're going to get from me.
2006-10-23 00:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you sound as if, you're a single parent. Not a good choice, young lady! First, color your hair brown. Then get a job, that isn't too difficult but doesn't pay too little. Maybe be a house keeper or a maid. Date and get married. Need a place to live? Maybe someone needs a live in maid and/or nanny.
2006-10-23 00:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How did you get in that predicament ?
No divorced husband to pay child support or alimony ?
Welfare, public assistance, public housing etc etc ...
Not much of a future...
How old are you and what do you look like ?
2006-10-23 00:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't, so she should stop having babies and go back to school, get some education/skills, and take care of her responsibilities. You will have to swallow your pride and ask for help........Your children deserve better.
2006-10-23 00:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Parents, church, friends, welfare, child support. It not all about making it on your own. Don't be afraid of taking help from others because there will be a time you will need to help someone....say your children. Try to be positive although its difficult sometimes.
2006-10-23 00:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by REBroker 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, you can obviously use a computer, that is a skill....
Build on it..
Take some classes.....
Don't whine & wonder, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!!!
And after this one, HAVE YOUR TUBES TIED!!!!!
2006-10-23 00:12:05 · answer #7 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Come on, you just posted about your 'husband' moving your ex lover into your house.
2006-10-23 00:12:27 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you be pregant, have 2 kids and be on your own! what happened?
2006-10-23 00:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by mark r 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your parents and your partner shud hlp u
my bff had a baby boy in april
she is 16
her parents hlped her
2006-10-23 00:07:28 · answer #10 · answered by Kami 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋