like someone when u already have a bf?
2006-10-22 17:13:44 · 19 answers · asked by sweet COUNTRY kissin<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not the ideal situation to be in. Not so sure I'd call it wrong to simply 'like' someone. Sometimes we get crushes outside our relationship. The right and wrong part comes in with how you handle the situation. For instance, are you calling this guy up or in some way or another, be it subtle or aggressively, trying to get with him? Or more importantly, have you been with him? That's where the 'wrong' parts come in. If you simply treat him like any other friend or acquaintance and let the feeling pass, then you haven't done anything wrong at all.
2006-10-22 17:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not fair to the one your dating now. You need to really stop and think to yourself who would you rather be with and than choose the one you want, even if the other guy might not like you still having feelings for that other person means that you shouldnt be with your bf and are not ready for a serious thing with him at least not now. Would you want to be with your bf if you knew he liked someone else, or would you rather him give you his whole heart of nothing at all. and be honest with you? Follow your heart and try not to break others on the way. If you choose to stay with him, than push this other guy out of your mind and if you choose to leave him than break up with him saying that you just need time away and to yourself, dont rush into another relationship so this way it will safe yourself a heart breaker as well as your ex.
2006-10-22 17:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's okay but a responsible person with feelings for another would not act on their emotions for the other. I mean is your realationship with your bf an open one? I would re evaluate my current relationship and discover what it is that distracts me enough to develope feeling for another. Good Luck with that.
2006-10-22 17:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by Goodie66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's our human nature to notice other people.There will always be other people you like but not a lot of people you love (I mean a romantic kind of love). What you do about those feelings is a different story. Know there is a difference between interest and love. You just got to distinguish them and get to know the difference yourself.
2006-10-22 17:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a friend yes, as something more....yes, but you need to look at your current relationship, and do whats nesissary (i.e. breakup, strengthen it, etc.). But yes, that is a natural response while in a relationship.
2006-10-22 17:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends, like as in u would prefer that other guy to your bf, or u like the guy cause he is cool but u like/love ur bf more.
2006-10-22 17:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by Hermes711 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have a boyfriend and your eyes are starting to wander, it is time to end the relationship to be fair to yourself and him.
2006-10-22 17:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you like him like you like his personality or if he is just cute.If you think he is cut its fine but if you like eveything abuot him.....well then sorry ethier dump your boyfriend get the one you like or no its not ok.
2006-10-22 17:18:07 · answer #8 · answered by Danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can like as many as want, but love only one (uno)
2006-10-22 17:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say that it's ok, but I can say it definitely happens.
2006-10-22 17:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋