Family & Relationships - 22 October 2006

When my ex-boyfriend first dumped me, he use to contact me a lot on msn just to say hi & then that eventually stopped. But now it seems like he only contacts me on msn when he thinks my life is going through changes. Like in September I put, “packing for Western” as my msn quote, & he said hi right away and started to ask me if I was going to Western university. Then a few days ago he contacted me again on msn. I put “applications” as my msn quote and he said hi right away and wanted to see how I was doing. He wanted to know if I was applying for graduate schools since it’s my last year of undergrad. I know this may seem like a stupid question to, but I really wanna know why he is still curious. But even more, I really wanna know why is that my ex only contacts me when he thinks something new is happening in my life? Why can’t he just contact me regularly like before to see how I am? Does he still have feelings for me?

2006-10-22 16:28:47 · 10 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

ok few months ago i told the guy i like tht my b-day is on oct 19th and i wasnt talking to him for a long time and suddenly he came online and wished my happy b-day( but i was like how did u kno and he was like i guessed it) and i really dont think he guessed it because u cant guess some1s b-day in the exact day and i also asked all my friends but they were like we never knew tht it was ur b-day and how can we tell him so i am confussed and if this question makes you even conffuser than me then dont ansewer it thnaks bye

2006-10-22 16:28:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just met this high ranked head officer in our cluster, he's been so nice to everyone. Especially me.we have different workplaces (he's i a far place) . we then started chatting on-lineand through mobile. I give much of my time just to chat with him after office hours and even office hours whenever i have time. He's twice older than my age. I suddenly felt something for him. He knows how to appreciate the simpliest things in me and what makes me fall is that he often tells me the word "iloveyou"..that i cant answer back..i think of him almost every moment..i just dont know how would i consider this feelings i have for him, inlove or infatuated?

2006-10-22 16:27:40 · 3 answers · asked by gorgeous witch 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a Junior in Highschool and I met this girl on a out of town band trip to the Heart of Kansas Marching Festival in Lawrence Kansas, better known as the home of KU. Yes she does go to my school. She is a grade below me so she is a sophmore. We pretty muched talked and joked and hung out at the mall for the entire weekend,and had fun. Now tommorrow is monday, and i go back to school. I want to stay friends with this girl, and hopefully get her to like me enough to date. Give some advice on how I can start talking to her again, and how I can stay friends, and hopefully get closer to her. Please respond. THanKS

2006-10-22 16:27:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He can drink with me but he would rather drink with his friends and not spend any time with me.

2006-10-22 16:26:47 · 41 answers · asked by Angry 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 16:25:33 · 2 answers · asked by Drea C. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-22 16:25:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

O.K My Dad turns 41 in 2 weeks and I'm going to make a mixed c.d for him but I can't figure out what songs he likes. Any Ideas on how to figure out what he likes or suggestions? P.S. He KNOWS when I'm lying!

2006-10-22 16:24:59 · 1 answers · asked by Redhead*_* 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am not married, but I am spoken for. He wants to get married, but I am not so sure. Its not that I don't love him its that I don't see why it is so important. We have been together long enough that people think we are anyway. The only difference is my last name and no paperwork. I am the youngest out of six kids. None of my sisters or brother are married, but they too have been in a comitted realationship forever and have kids. I think it is odd that none of us are actually married! Is anyone else out there know what I am talking about and how I feel about marriage? What do you think?

2006-10-22 16:24:39 · 35 answers · asked by NoName 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I are about to have sex for the first time. I know we are both ready, but I am still a little nervous. Any advice?

2006-10-22 16:24:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay... I met a man 3 years ago. He was 36 and I was 21. He drinks a lot. When I met him I drank when I was with him, partying and stuff. I try to leave and he says things to make me feel guilty. Like everything is my fault. I wound up pregnant with our baby. She is 2 now. She was my fault. If I work I am a bad mom because I am not with our daughter. If I stay home I am a bad mother because now I am not providing. Because I can put food on my table I am a state sponge he says. Although the only thing the state provides to our daughter is medical care because neither of us can afford it. Hes yelling at me tonight. After I took him to the store and bank so he could get his stuff done. I tried leaving and 1.5 years later he acted like things were better and pulled me back in. Now 9 months later I am crying for my freedom again. What do I do? Am I wrong? I will be a single parent if I leave, is that bad? Should I stay and wait it out?

2006-10-22 16:24:15 · 7 answers · asked by erinjl123456 6 in Singles & Dating

1. light or dark hair
2. ideal height
3. ideal weight
4. muscular or very thin
5. great legs/butt or great chest
6. smart and argumentative or dumb and agreeable
7. flirty or mysterious
8. introvert or extrovert
9. overly sensitive or bitchy
10. has got everything planned out, or is uncertain of her future
11. preacher's daughter modest and sweet or ridiculously revealing and provacative

just wondering

2006-10-22 16:22:44 · 6 answers · asked by Leta 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 16:22:40 · 4 answers · asked by FliPsIde 2 in Singles & Dating

If so, how did it turn out? Good or bad?

2006-10-22 16:22:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I already look like a girl,
Why not go all the way with it?

2006-10-22 16:21:14 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i ask him about those papers i found.

they where letters from him say N's and etc and mamber ship to clubs

2006-10-22 16:19:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 16:19:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he beat me and verbally abused me and controlled me and thought it was ok and now i feel lost with out him and i still love him and my family thinks it is wrong and that he shouldnt have this controll over me still please help me

2006-10-22 16:19:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-22 16:18:33 · 9 answers · asked by xbxbuddy 2 in Friends

my cousin is gay and he asked me to be a groomsmen in his wedding. im not for gay weddings, im cool with my cousin but i think hes taking too far. i told him i was in a hurry and i will talk to him later when he called. i know what he was going to ask because he asked my other cousin who told him yes. then my other cousin called me and gave me the heads up about the wedding. how do i tell him i dont want to be in his wedding? the second crazy thing is he was in my wedding as a groomsmen and now i fill bad about not wanting to be in his wedding. what do you guys think

2006-10-22 16:17:50 · 16 answers · asked by Priesd D 2 in Friends

i have bee married to my husband for almost 7 yrs,we got 2 kids also.i like this other guy alot.my husband is 17 yrs older than me and his very old fashioned.he buys me jewelry,and all that material things,and financialy he takes care of me,i cook,clean and do everything as a house wife surpose to do.i don't even get turned on by him no more.on the other hand,this other guy is the opposite.he wants me to marry him,he asked me in front of all his friends.he love my kids,but he don't have money like my husband do.he shows me love,makes me feel special and and all the stuff i really wish man husband can give me.i was married very young and never had a chance to live my life,can someone help me plz.i don't know what to do.

2006-10-22 16:17:23 · 17 answers · asked by lovegirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-22 16:16:35 · 10 answers · asked by stantonshoemaker 3 in Weddings

Be honest...your answers don't lie.

2006-10-22 16:16:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, this girl named sharon rode my bus on a trip to Atlanta i wa on. We really hit it off on the bus, which really surprised me considering i usually choke up around girls that hot. So the last day we go to six-flags, and at lunch, she came to sit with me. My first question is does this mean she is interested in a relationship with me? I invited her to go with me and some friends back to the park. As soon as we started to leave, this really annoying kid named Maverick shows up, and starts hiting on her right infront of me. She absolutly disliked it, but tried to be nice to him. I tried everyting i could without coming out and yelling at him to get him to go away, but it didnt work. She had a crappy night, and i feel it was my fault. We hardly ever talk since then, and its been about a month. I really like her, and want to be with her, but how will she react?

2006-10-22 16:15:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 10 years. Now I am questioning if I want to continue on. My husband is not the emtional type. However all I have ever asked him to do is to be tender and he instead cuts me down with harsh words and never listens to me. He has never cheated on me or has laid a hand on me. His words are what hurt the most. I am left with confusion and a broken heart and really do not know which way to turn. Please give me some insight on what to do.

2006-10-22 16:15:41 · 28 answers · asked by Sweet Momma 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-22 16:15:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm kind of short and scrawny so i can't fight him. please help.

2006-10-22 16:15:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my cousin is gay and he asked me to be a groomsmen in his wedding. im not for gay weddings, im cool with my cousin but i think hes taking too far. i told him i was in a hurry and i will talk to him later when he called. i know what he was going to ask because he asked my other cousin who told him yes. then my other cousin called me and gave me the heads up about the wedding. how do i tell him i dont want to be in his wedding? the second crazy thing is he was in my wedding as a groomsmen and now i fill bad about not wanting to be in his wedding. what do you guys think

2006-10-22 16:14:59 · 4 answers · asked by Priesd D 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-22 16:14:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just want to know.how to convince my sis for not to do what she is doing right.which is not so good.

2006-10-22 16:14:37 · 4 answers · asked by chandu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships