2006-10-22 16:19:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have always wondered why guys would try so hard to get a girl in bed and then loose respect for her if she did.
It's kind of like if this girl goes to bed with me so easy she must not have good judgment. If she would go to bed with me so soon she would go to bed with anyone.
Only guys with a horrible self esteem would think this way. This girl has given you a very private part of her and you think less of her for doing it? If you thought more of yourself you would know that maybe she actually liked you.
2006-10-22 16:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by John B 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Why should it be a reason to lose respect for her? Did she do something to disrespect you or someone else? Was she an a s s towards you or anything? That's just what some people do.
There's pretty much a double standard for women. As it was put so well, "If a guy sleeps around he's a pimp, if a girl does she's a hoe."
2006-10-22 23:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by b-rad 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well this swings both ways, if you give it to her on the first date then you never had any respect for her in the first place and if she puts out on the first date she deserves no respect so the way I see it you both are disrespectful to one another.
2006-10-22 23:29:14 · answer #3 · answered by markalus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In this day and age...sure would...I wouldn't let myself be so easily pursuaded to give up my precious commodity. There is a lot to be said for making a man wait. I believe it's the mystery that creates a much better ground to tread toward such an intimate moment. I need to know that I am truly appreciated as a person and loved as a woman before I give up anypart of my body. I don't think the woman that would put out on the first date has any self respect for herself.
2006-10-22 23:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by Goodie66 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know I should not be answering this question, but what if were the other way around. What if society would consider guys bitches if they put out the first date...which all guys do and want to do. So what is the difference really?? Guys and girls are both human.....
2006-10-22 23:24:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you lose respect for a guy who took her up on the offer?
2006-10-22 23:23:31 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If she put out on the first date, it means you put on the first date too. So get over yourself.
2006-10-22 23:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by Otis F 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I would lose respect for myself if I ever did that...
2006-10-22 23:24:45 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been my belief that guys don't take a relationship serious if we put out so fast.
2006-10-22 23:27:28 · answer #9 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if she slept with you on the first date how many other firsts did she sleep with and just think you just slept with everyone she did if you didn't cover up. dump her
2006-10-22 23:24:54 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋