my cousin is gay and he asked me to be a groomsmen in his wedding. im not for gay weddings, im cool with my cousin but i think hes taking too far. i told him i was in a hurry and i will talk to him later when he called. i know what he was going to ask because he asked my other cousin who told him yes. then my other cousin called me and gave me the heads up about the wedding. how do i tell him i dont want to be in his wedding? the second crazy thing is he was in my wedding as a groomsmen and now i fill bad about not wanting to be in his wedding. what do you guys think
2006-10-22 16:14:59 · 4 answers · asked by Priesd D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I will just start out with: I am a farrr left liberal that believes gay people shouldnt even be an issue, it is ridiclous that we even care about the topic so much. I dont care if some one has sex with elephants, it just isnt my buisness.
If i was in your shoes and I was aganist gay marriage for political reasons I would let him know what i choose to value and why my decscion is logical to me.
If i was in your shoes and didnt want to be a groomsmen because I didnt want him to be gay because its "immoral" or "biblical reasons" I would tell you to suck it up, your cousins gay and thats the way it is. You need to support your family no matter what, they are family.
2006-10-22 16:24:07 · answer #1 · answered by Jota 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...I have a best friend who decided to come out not too long ago and I would be in her wedding if that's what she decided to do. Like you said, you're cool with your cousin and he cared enough about you to ask you to do it so I say go for it. If you don't it may affect your relationship with him forever. You can look at it this way, be happy for him that he found someone that he wants to spend the rest of his life with.
2016-05-21 23:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL thats funny, ive only been to hetero weddings. Maybe you could be a bridesmaid. I bet they will all be guys too. think about which one you will be paired up and have to dance with.
Maybe you could have the bacelor party like that first answer suggested. Think about all those drunk gay men you will have to entertain.
Just grit your teeth, put on your pink tuxedo and do it
2006-10-22 16:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you would rather throw hom a bachelor party, then have a bunch of male dancers, tons of food and pleny of friends. Don't give him a reason.
2006-10-22 16:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by Valerie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋