My boyfriend and I are about to have sex for the first time. I know we are both ready, but I am still a little nervous. Any advice?
2006-10-22 16:24:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex is a natural thing, if it wasnt, then that wouldnt be the way we reproduce.
Just relax, and allow yourselves a lot of foreplay because thats the fun part that really gets you ready and relaxed....people will tell you that it hurts and you are gonna bleed....NOT ALWAYS true. If you are relaxed then everything will be beautiful. Just remember to use a condom so you dont regret a moment of it.
2006-10-22 16:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by amy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The Bible says sex outside of marriage is a SIN and everyone will give an account to God after we die and the consiquences of what we do will effect us.
For some it's heartbreak. For some, it's disease . For some , it's unplanned for children. Couples have natural passion BUT we should not be like the Animals and mate with anyone. God gave us a brain.
Hollywood and TV makes it seem right but it isn't. Watch the Results of couples not waiting on Maury's show. Is it Daddy number 1 or Daddy number ??? Guys dump girls they said they loved every day. They lie or else they find someone else once the New has worn off. Here today and gone tomorrow.
Do you want a disease? Even condoms aren't totally safe and birth control can lead to blood clots at times.
Don't be foolish. You will have regrets.......it's a Promise. I know it's hard to resist temptation, but have self respect and Wait until marriage.
2006-10-22 23:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by 4263 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I truly understand your feelings. Experienced the 1st time not that long ago tooo.. I would say, do it Only If You Really Love and Trust Your Partner. Don't make a big deal out of it..just try to enjoy the 1st time closiness to him. It will hurt just a little, you will bleed, you might feel upset afterwords..it's all normal. It won;t be perfect and it doesn't have to be.
Just ask yourself these questions before: do i really Love him? do i trust him ? if both yes, then share your 1st time with him.
Sincerely.
2006-10-22 23:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by wikute292002 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YEA!, RELAX AND ENJOY IT AND PLAY SAFE SEX. It is only the first time, the more sex you have the more experience you will get. Maybe get a book on sex of any kind which could give lots of ideas to keep sex life spiced up. Have fun.
2006-10-23 00:28:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait till after marriage but it's your choice. just think it through and know that protection is not 100%. so if you get pregnant, are you sure you are financially and emotionally ready to have a baby? and if your boyfriend is willing to be with you or will run. i feel that if you're not ready to have a baby, you're not ready to have sex.
2006-10-22 23:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by throughmyeyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister lost her virginity, and got pregnant; with protection. All her plans went down the drain. Don't hurt yourself. If he really loves you, you'll stick together and your wedding night will be amazing.
2006-10-22 23:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be careful don't do anything you don't want to do. Don't do anything you don't feel 100% comfortable with. Use protection!!!!!
2006-10-22 23:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by ebsharer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a Catholic, my natual response would be to wait, but i know it's not always a perfect world. USE PROTECTION!
2006-10-22 23:29:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Use a condom!!! It will hurt and you will bleed and you feel the pain for days to come...other than that...it's a lot of fun...NOT!!! It gets better though...
2006-10-22 23:28:20 · answer #9 · answered by aclazo979 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes. Wait until you are married.
:)
2006-10-22 23:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by Boodie 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋