Family & Relationships - 20 October 2006

i have a boyfriend but the problem is that we fight a lot about if one of use us cheading on one another i fell that he is ceading on me beause he as a lot of grils number in his phone but he say that they are only his friends but then he say that he is coming to my house and he doesent he always have a excues to no come and see me and he alwaye have some thing to do just to not see me
i wonder if he is cheading on me or is only mind?

2006-10-20 07:16:22 · 18 answers · asked by cristal 1 in Singles & Dating

They all have a man and want me to play with her and her man and I have one of my own. The women that are, are so fake and don't care to go past cyber sex. I mean please, let's grow up already! I can't find a perfect woman for just me to save my life!

2006-10-20 07:16:06 · 3 answers · asked by nonnasmomma 1 in Singles & Dating

Because sometimes they say no even if they mean yes when I ask them up-front. Is it better to just look for signs, play it cool, and go from there?

2006-10-20 07:15:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A man reserves his true and deepest love not for the species of woman in whose company he finds himself electrified and enkindled, but for that one in whose company he may feel tenderly drowsy ?

2006-10-20 07:15:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and i have been going out foe nearly 10 months now, although he hasn't kissed me once and is only just starting to hug me.i've dropped hints like lead balloons but he either ignores them or's just plain dumb.he also plays realy stupid and imeture,and i want to step the relationship up to antother levelwhilst he is being him and not playing the clown for his and my mates.i think i love him but how do i show my love if he won't talk to me about his feelings or let me near him without turning into stone.i wouldn't even mind if it was just a snog,at least that's better than nothing.

2006-10-20 07:15:27 · 14 answers · asked by bxiok 2 in Singles & Dating

This might seem wierd, but I think womwn with shaven cooters are sexy as hell. I can't help it. I have only once slept with a girl whi actually was completely shaven. I was just curious, how common is this now?

2006-10-20 07:14:04 · 14 answers · asked by Scott K 4 in Singles & Dating

If you feel lost and sad sometimes, what are some good things to do to get out of it? serious answers only please!

2006-10-20 07:13:58 · 4 answers · asked by BOOYAH 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

A married woman has affair on husband with her boss. Boss dumps her - she stays with husband and has an affair with co-worker . Husband divorces her . She is still with co-worker who has never been married and is 35 years old .. (been togther 8 months) my question think they will make it ?

2006-10-20 07:13:30 · 12 answers · asked by cathy b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've had my first night together with this guy that Im seeing and I want to make it even more special by putting a rose on his car while he's at work. The only thing I can think of it to get the rose and then text him to let him know that its from me. What color rose should I get and what should I say on the text. Or should I not text at all and just leave a card or something. I don't want to do the whole "thank you for last night" crap. I want it to be a bit more original. Help me please.

2006-10-20 07:13:09 · 7 answers · asked by Fuzzybunny95531 4 in Singles & Dating

my son is not handeling me keeping him away and not talking to her. her parents think that this is okay for them to be extremely sexual. this girl made a list of all his exgirlfriend and has marked the first one off. she lies about everything. I have taken his cell phone, home phone, computer and his brand new truck. He says its love!!!! She even sent his twin sister a note saying "i'm so freaking jealous of your face and your car"
I need help in how I can help him realize that the whole family is crazy.

2006-10-20 07:12:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

is there any way to make a guy want to be with you? I'm not talking about sleeping with you, but want to have you in their life on a more serious level? There's a guy i'm into, and i know full well he's into me, but we're really just taking things slow right now. Is there anything I can do to reassure him that i'm not going to hurt him, and that i do want to be with him? any ways to make him feel the same for me?
my apologies for sounding like a 12 year old girl, i'm just really confused right now.

2006-10-20 07:11:10 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 07:10:51 · 27 answers · asked by punkydorieme 2 in Family

2006-10-20 07:10:30 · 26 answers · asked by craig b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My question is , that I am running out of patience. I really want him to ask me to marry him. I don't want to push the issue, but I am getting tired of waiting. In my heart he is the man for me. I believe he loves me. I have always dreamend of having the man I love ask me to marry him, so I don't want to ask him. I have been down lately, and he keeps asking me what's wrong. I tell him nothing, but really I am depressed because he hasnt't asked me to marry him yet. How long should I wait? Should I push the issue, or just wait and see what happens. I am 28 and don't want to wait much longer

2006-10-20 07:10:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The person i love lives in cali and i live in Louisiana i want to move to cali but then again i want to finish skool i am leaving to go to cali on nov 15 is this the rite decision or is it a mistake??? But i think it's worth it how bout u they r my dream come true

2006-10-20 07:10:20 · 14 answers · asked by moneybaby_2007 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 07:10:01 · 8 answers · asked by boy_punta 1 in Marriage & Divorce

myself and my husband were living separately due to some problems. now by next month we r going to join together after a counscelling. i fell very much embarrassed about it. nearly it was 11/2 years period we didnt speak with each other. many things happened between us. now when i think of getting back to him , i could not not able explain how i feel , how to get through it.

2006-10-20 07:09:11 · 10 answers · asked by hi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So my little brother knocked up his girlfriend about two and a half years ago and convinced my parents to let them move in by saying that she was being kicked out by her parents. She was 17 at the time and he was 18. They've been there ever since.

They disrespect my parents, steal their money (120$ last week), and leave the house a complete mess. My parents have both told me that if it were not for the baby they'd have kicked them out already.

Now my brother has been working the whole time and is now studying to be a cop. Everyone has supported them and at one point I even "lent" my brother the money to get a car. They have money saved up (10k) but show no intention of leaving and ignore all suggestions to that end.

How can I get through to them when they won't listen to reason?

2006-10-20 07:08:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

when your with a person for a year and a half and it is obvious that you are not happy in the relationship, why does it hurt so much to end it? i dont like the pain, i'm not trying torture myself. i know that me and him arent getting along but i just cant stop thinking about him and wanting to be with him. Am i crazy?? i know this sounds crazy but i do love him and i am in love with him but we just argue so much and it's stressful on me. i'm confused...dont know what to do...

2006-10-20 07:08:22 · 13 answers · asked by girlwiththegoodies 3 in Singles & Dating

I am madly in love with a guy, and he has even asked me to marry him. He is pretty manly about things, almost macho. Except when he has to leave me for work or to finally to go sleep, when has to do that he cries and tells me how much he will miss me, how much he loves me. Should I be concerned?

2006-10-20 07:08:19 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a nice guy, but kind of picky. Any advice on meeting good, honest women.....let me know if I am missing something. I'm in good shape, good job, I have personality. Help a fella out!

2006-10-20 07:07:34 · 36 answers · asked by clipsegsxwidsm 2 in Singles & Dating

if you were going to be served to your man as a sushi platter, how would you decorate yourself? Would you use fake levels over your breasts and private area, then place sushi on the leaves? What would do do?? THis is going to be sooooooo much fun!!!!

2006-10-20 07:07:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 07:07:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What i mean is if youre a girl and youre even remotely attractive all you gotta do is leave your house in the morning and guys will que up to date you. But it dont work the other way around. If youre a guy(even a good looking guy)girls will never que up to date you. I know everybody gotta make an effort to find somebody taht it doesnt just happen but sometimes it seems its a little easier for girls. Is this the way the world is, one of those things you cant change and gotta accept?

2006-10-20 07:07:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf broke up with me recently and left me stranded after being with him for almost 3 years. I was young and realized how psychologically "infantalized" i was under him even though i was socially and educationally sound. I was 19 then. Now, i've met a younger guy (but still 4 years older) and he is very Handsome. He looks just like this picture and his personality is sweet.
http://www.photorazzi.com/store/category.cgi?item=JTM-017166&type=store
The only problem is my "ex" still calls me and in his voice he seems to indicate a kind of sticky attachment thats still left in him and i'm afraid it would reignite a messed up relationship. My question is, I'm afraid to date again and the new guy asked me (a week ago) if i was in a mood to travel with him to US Virgin Island. I like him but i'm also very afraid to fall into trap? Please help. Thanks.

2006-10-20 07:06:50 · 2 answers · asked by savio 4 in Singles & Dating

I want a winter wedding, cream velvet cloak with fake fur lined hood. I do not want to marry in a church or in England. We will only be inviting both sets of parents.I do not like cheesy weddings or chavvy themes. We'd like something romantic and classy. Any ideas??

2006-10-20 07:06:31 · 46 answers · asked by michelle a 4 in Weddings

between the ages 38 and 50 feel like emailing me.
just to get to know each other.
heartssnarrows@yahoo.com

2006-10-20 07:06:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I bought a new house in August. I live out of state from my sister and she's a real estate agent. She offered (and brought it up) that she could act as if she was referring me to an agent (even though I already had one) then get me back a portion of the closing costs. Well, that all worked, and my realtor actually gave her a cut of the money knowing that it would actually come back to us. Well, my sister hasn't returned any of my calls for a month and is obviously avoiding me and now I know that the check was cashed over a month ago. So I guess she decided to keep the money for herself. I would never expect her to do anything like that. What do you think I should do?

2006-10-20 07:06:23 · 19 answers · asked by coconut 3 in Family

This is somewhat related to a previous question I asked: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/?qid=20061011080825AAW9GRE

...But in this case I'm talking more about a normal freindship. THAT stuff can come later, I need friends first. But I've never been good at social situations, and now I find myself in NYC all by myself. This city is paradoxically lonely and desolate when you know no one. I actually grew up here, but this is the first time I've been an adult here. So does anyone have any ideas on how a shy dork like me can make friends in this city? I'm in Manhattan, so there's certainly no end to my options, but I can't seem to think of anything. I don't drink, so bars hold no appeal, and I've never danced in my life, so clubs are out (I've never set foot in one anyway, and at 26, I'm too old to start). I'm getting truly sick of wandering around by myself all the time, so any ideas would be helpful.

2006-10-20 07:06:21 · 4 answers · asked by Darth Fastidious 2 in Friends

I need a little help please... MY 3 year old wants a zoey costume for Halloween and I have looked everywhere online I found Elmo, cookie monster, and big bird and stores around in my area I don’t sew well at all I don’t even have a machine and I asked her if she wanted to be anything else I even showed her pictures on line.. Does anyone know where I can find a zoey costume?
Thank you

2006-10-20 07:06:18 · 4 answers · asked by lisa 2 in Family