my son is not handeling me keeping him away and not talking to her. her parents think that this is okay for them to be extremely sexual. this girl made a list of all his exgirlfriend and has marked the first one off. she lies about everything. I have taken his cell phone, home phone, computer and his brand new truck. He says its love!!!! She even sent his twin sister a note saying "i'm so freaking jealous of your face and your car"
I need help in how I can help him realize that the whole family is crazy.
2006-10-20 07:12:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are a lot of places where you can go for help. You can talk to a psychologist, school nurse, school principal, priest or rabbi, or even child protectin agencies. The last thing you need is for your son to father a child out of wedlock at age 16. You need to take action. Just talking to him and praying for the best isn't going to do it.
2006-10-22 20:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by Bob 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't keep him away from her. The more you tell him to stay away, the more he will find her attractive and will find ways to be with her. Have you ever asked him how he feels about her? Are her actions bothering him at all? Does he think it's ok that she doesn't want him talking to his own twin sister?
This girl sounds like she is jealous, insecure and needy, and wants to be the center of his world. She also sounds like a stalker in training. She has no right to split your son and his sister up, and you should not have allowed that to happen. If her parents will not keep her on a short leash, you have the right to have the authorities step in.
My parents tried that with me when I was 16, and if I had known how to get to my boyfriend w/o getting into trouble, I sure would have tried. They locked up the phones so I couldn't call him (the phones were rotary at that time). The only time I really saw him was when I went to school in the mornings, because we met at the same bus stop, though we went to different schools.
As for the baby situation, give him an egg or a melon, or one of those robotic babies, to take care of for 90 days, and he has to take it EVERYWHERE with him. When he realizes how much work it is to take care of a baby, he will tell her himself to let that deal go, but if she really wants a baby, let her go and get one, just not with your son.
Give him his cell phone and truck back, but you control how much time he's on that computer, and where he goes and who he talks to. Parental controls are available on computers now.
Your son has to be the one to give up the girlfriend. He has to see for himself who she really is. You can be there to support him, but you cannot break them up. Good luck.
2006-10-20 07:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi that's a very difficult situation you're in.Well i would advise you to let your son do what he wants.In the other hand you should find a way to disgrace that girl,maybe you should prove your son that she has a bad character.Or you could find someone who could flirt with that girl and break your son's heart.I know it's a bit hard but you should give it a try..i will try to consult some friends and reply you soon to help you further
2006-10-20 07:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by jayzZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should get ur son and his girlfriend sit down with them, talk to them about the whole baby thing please!!! my brother just turned 16 last wednesday and he is having a baby in february!! he girlfriend was psyco too and look what happened. im 20 and i dont have a baby!! if that doesnt work then u need to talk to her parents and if they dont listen to what u have to say. i wish u the best of luck with this girl and u son!!!
2006-10-20 07:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 20:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray Pray Pray!!! I say that you should stand your ground on this matter. He is too young to be bringing a child into this world only based on so-called love. WIth sex, comes responsibility. I think you're doing the right thing.
2006-10-20 07:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my grandmother is from the south and she knows alot of stuff she told me about this and believe me it works. write the girlfriend name on a piece of brown paper like a brown paper bag her full name and put into a coconut that's been cut slightly enough to put the paper in next take it to a lake or river and lastly say a prayer about breaking them apart and toss the coconut into the water.
2006-10-20 07:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by jazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably not thinking rationally because he is getting some. do whatever it takes to keep him away from her... he will thank you some day.
2006-10-20 07:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by Crazy dog lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to him adn his girl friend if that doesnt work sing this song
do you chain, hang low do they wobble to the floor, do they shine in the ligtht, is it platinum as gold ,can you throw it over your sholder ,can you put it in your coat ,do you chain hang low
2006-10-20 07:17:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
give him my number!!!
2006-10-20 07:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by Tasha S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋