Family & Relationships - 20 October 2006

He was never going to tell me because he says he loves me. We have been married for 15 years and had the "perfect" marriage. I am still his best friend and he says that I did absolutely nothing wrong. He says he lost the "spark" and the "magic". I love him and do want the best for him. My question is : He said to me "If I wanted to try again, How do you see it working?" Please guys help. What is he really saying? I think I know but I want to hear from someone that speaks men-language.

2006-10-20 06:41:17 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance & I met up with his best friend for dinner. At the end of the dinner I found out from his friend that he used to talk about me to him. Last year my fiance & I argued alot. I didn't show any affection to him. I never kissed him or hold hands. Because of my culture & my religion. Then this spring I let him see me naked. I didn't sleep with him but been fooling around alot. I wanted to wait for marriage but it happened. Now I am so much in love & he gave me a ring. He loves me alot too. Yesterday he said when we faught he told his co-worker, mom & uncle about me. I told my sis about him too but not anymore. This summer I found an email add in his room. It was visible. He didn't realize it at first then he saw me seeing it & hid it. I went home & did a reverse email search.It belongs to a woman in england but he's never been there.Yesterday I asked if he keeps in touch with other girls in the net. He said no. Should I believe him? Why did a girls name come up in my search?

2006-10-20 06:40:58 · 8 answers · asked by Hot C 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 06:40:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-20 06:40:41 · 14 answers · asked by B i n g o 4 in Singles & Dating

which one are cute sexy hot chicks more into, a lonely loner guy with no friends, a normal guy with a couple friends but dont hang out with often, or a real cool and popular guy with a lot of connection even with women. assuming that all 3 of them have very similar appearance and personality. the one advantage that i think loner guys have is that since they dont have much connection with other people or not very good at talking to girls, he is likely not to cheat on a girl, so the girl wouldnt have to worry about him cheating. in my case, i happen to be that loner guy. i am not good at making friends or talking to girls that is why i am asking this question. i want to know if it is easier for me to make friends or getting with a cute girl. what can i do and how can i change?

2006-10-20 06:39:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I found what may be a perfect guy... to a point.
He's kind, intelligent, refined, good-looking, comes from a backgound of nobility, and cares about humanity etc...

The only problem is that in the future, he wants to be a scholar. While this may have been a profession plausible for someone in the Victorian Age, he doesn't have the money to support himself unless he becomes a teacher... and even then it's really blue-collar wages.

I'll probably have to be the one keeping us out of blue-collar if we get married, and finances will be a huge concern for me.

Do you think I should marry him (since finances seems to be the only problem here) or should I wait to find a guy more in my... salary range?

2006-10-20 06:39:40 · 9 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-20 06:37:09 · 35 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Singles & Dating

and generally not bothered to much about morality

2006-10-20 06:36:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last seen when we were little kids in Indiana. Atleast 30 years ago.
I have little ones and they need to know their Uncles.
Please Help. Thank-You

2006-10-20 06:36:43 · 2 answers · asked by Sassy 1 in Family

okay well this is my sisters account, im only 13. 1. he always looks at me 2. he gave me his sweatshirt 3. he makes fun of me 4. he makes me laugh 5. when i got a detention, hes said " if she gets a detention, i get a detention" ((best detention of my life)) 6. he calls me 7. he wants to study together...even though we dont have any tests comeing up....does he like me??? help pleez

2006-10-20 06:36:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me have broken up 2 times and got back together once, ive never been happy w/ him to be honest, but someone after every few months he makes a grand entry again,

how do i handle him??

2006-10-20 06:36:08 · 6 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Singles & Dating

a boy likes me and i likes him too, but he don't knows that, should i mak a move first or wite on him too make a move.

2006-10-20 06:36:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for several months now, and we both love each other sincerely, but my problem is this : recently ive been having major mood swings ( ive been able to control them a bit more in the past) but now its like i can go from being Angry to happy to tearful in a matter of minuits, and this has really affected our relationship, and i feel like im bringing him down... My question is this: Should i let him go until i get over my issues or should we just try and get thru this? ~Please help me, i need all the advice i can get, thank you~

2006-10-20 06:35:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 06:35:27 · 13 answers · asked by Ahmet T 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-20 06:35:23 · 4 answers · asked by wild4711 1 in Family

i have an ex that i still love but i hurt him i want to talk to him but he is mad at me what should i do? i would even leave my curent bf for him! should i tell him or just leave him alone

2006-10-20 06:34:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my best friends is getting a divorce. He has asked me to talk to his wife.

His wife has never liked me, and it's no secret that I've ever liked her. She is acting very unreasonable, and I know if I go, there is a good chance I will say something that will just hurt the chance of my bud getting back with his wife. So I don't think I should go and get in the middle of it

However, she wont listen to him at all, and honestly, he has not done anything to deserve this. He can't get in touch with her, and he is begging to talk to her.

What to do what to do? I don't want to let him down, but I don't want to make things worse. I also don't want her to think he sent me to talk because he's scared or something.

2006-10-20 06:32:26 · 13 answers · asked by Xander 4 in Marriage & Divorce

well my boyfriend said he dint call his ex but she insists that he keeps caliing and that she doesnt want to answer but i want to believe him but at the same time i believe her whom should i belive.

2006-10-20 06:31:52 · 15 answers · asked by esmie p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont know how to reply to post..but i agree to what someone said..you could be the most put together and they still will not be satisfied..I take good care of myself..get my hair , pedicure, manicure and I am very attractive..I just dont think that I need to wear a 5 inch heel to work..If I wear slacks then I wear it with my boots which is about 2 1/2 inc high or I wear it with jeans..I KNOW HOW TO DRESS..thats the thing..I have alot of bags and shoes and accessories ect... I dress in seven jeans which is $140 and I wear mac makeup..I have kenneth cole bags, apple bottoms chinese laundry the list goes on...I am a girly girl..who believes that a woman should carry herself a certain way..
but like I said I agree with the post...they will never be satisfied.

2006-10-20 06:30:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

between the actions of a man who has feelings for you (not love, but at least emotional connection) and a man who just wants to get it on with you?
How will he kiss you?
How will he look at you?
What kind of compliments will he give you?

2006-10-20 06:29:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, we talked for like 3 months online and met several times. i was EXTREMELY attracted to him physically. we had sex twice, and i started weirding out. it was because i knew i couldnt trust him, and i gave it up to him for naught. we backed off and i want him, but know i acnt continue. anybody got any words for me?

2006-10-20 06:28:32 · 14 answers · asked by sangellai 1 in Singles & Dating

what are some romantic finger foods, etc, things to do besides what will ultimately happen? lol

2006-10-20 06:28:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When my first wife left me,She took my daughter.I tried to fight for her but lost.She ran away I've been looking for her ever since.Her mane is christi ann shields.She's 22yrs old now,So she's probably married,So she probably has a different last name.I'm a christian man with 2 boys from my last marriage.They also want to meet their sister they never knew.I know this probably isn't the place to find her.But you never know.If i get enough people to help me,Maybe together we can find her.I do love& miss her so much.There isn't a day that i don't think& pray for her.I hope someone can help me find her.I have her ssn.But tried several locators but to no avail.So i came here to hopfully find someone with compassion,To help me.

2006-10-20 06:27:53 · 8 answers · asked by duane shields 1 in Family

Because my phone was always dropping calls and roaming Cingualr dropped me without having to pay a cancellation fee. But, I had just bought a $200.00 phone and had to switch they should buy used phones back if that's the case and pay for other services of changing to another carrier. Few Drop Calls yeah right a lot dropped customers!! Cingular sucks.

2006-10-20 06:27:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 26 years old, attractive and I think I have a nie personality. However, all the guys I've dated after my 8 years relationship, all said the same thing to me: I AM TOO CLINGY AND I DON'T TRUST THEM! They are right. For 8 years I was comfortable and alway had a boyfriend around, but my ex cheated on me, so I am having trouble trusting ALL MEN. Now I am seeing this hot restaurant manager, who I truly feel is the most sincere guy ever. He told me that he likes me a lot and just let his action show me how much he likes me. However with his 16+hrs, 6 days a week, he hardly ever has time for me. And to split it amongst his friends and family, I'm really talking just hrs/week. Also he came up to me while I was eating at his restaurant, I feel like if he comes up to me he can go up to anyone, right? But this guy already introduced to me his best buddies and his dad (I was over at his place when his dad arrived from Missouri). I shot pool w/his dad too.Confused! Help! What should I do? :(

2006-10-20 06:27:18 · 5 answers · asked by Gina C 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well my b-day was just the other day and my husband didnt foget about it but however he did not get me ANYTHING! not a card not a happy birthday NOTHING!!!

i got upset about it and he told me that it was nothing to get upset about. but however we have been together for years and he has only gotten me one card ever. he dosent get me things on v-day or anything.

he just dosent get it....how can i make him get it nd relize that it really does mean alot to me when he gets me things wheather they are small or just a simple " happy b-day"

2006-10-20 06:26:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-10-20 06:26:33 · 9 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Singles & Dating

does rachel ray want kids

2006-10-20 06:25:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Let me start by stating that this is a very delicate situation and that I am only looking for responses from knowledgable individuals.

My sister is dating this guy she met after work one day, he seems to be the holy roller type, but he's almost twice her age. He is now a taxidermist, but had previously been a cop in the state of Florida.
According to him, he has went through a number of jobs from the year 1990 onwords.

I am hearing from people who know him, albeit, not as friends, that he was in and out of psychiatric centers prior to meeting my sister. With all those facts presented, I am curious to know if there is a way for me to check his backround information? Preferrably free.

I don't want my sister to stay with a nut case and every time I see him I get the feeling that he is a shady kind of person. Any help would really be appreciated.

Thank you,
Doomsday Propaganda.

2006-10-20 06:25:42 · 4 answers · asked by doomsday_propaganda 1 in Family

2006-10-20 06:24:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating