Family & Relationships - 20 October 2006

how can i get the guy i've started seeing to tell me how he feels, and what he wants from our relationship? we're not officially a couple, but we are sleeping together. I hope that things will evolve into something more serious, but i dont' know how he feels about it. he says that i'm "10 steps ahead of him." what do you think?

2006-10-20 07:05:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this girl roxy has been texting and calling my boyfriend of 3 years. I confronted her on the phone almost a month ago and she swore she would stop all contact with him and she was sorry. The thing is that she hasn't. His old phone still gets his text messages for some reason. The same incoming ones that come to his new phone. How do I get her to stop without her telling my boyfriend some bullsh*t lie and us getting into a fight about me going through his phone??? Its putting a strain on me because I know she wants him. He doesn't want her I don't think but I know she wants to be with him. She knows I am his girlfriend of 3 years and we live together but she just wont stop. She has been calling him babe and telling him she loves him. He hasn't said this stuff back. I'm not in the best health right now and I'm trying to recover. I can't recover fast because this is stressing me out on how to get her to stop. I need all the help I can get.

2006-10-20 07:05:32 · 11 answers · asked by *~*ME*~* 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok ladies getting married and need advice on what kind of wedding dress to get for my shape. I am a plus size US24. with a Bcup top. 5'5''. Should I go with full skirt, straight skirt, sleves or no.
I am over seas right now and have no way to try on dresses yet so I am looking on line to get ideas.

2006-10-20 07:05:21 · 26 answers · asked by NayNay_0123 1 in Weddings

my father...whom i have just recently started talking to again....has began to bring on the drama again....my dad is a correctional officer and so he always thinks that he is surperior to EVERYONE else. My fiancee and i got into a VERY Very small argument one day not too long ago while i was down at my father's house. ....Well, now he hates my fiancee and tries everything to keep us apart....he keeps trying to get me to go out and meet other men...and he talks very abdly about him when i am around .....he's driving me crazy.....i want to just tell him but then he would tell me just to not talk to him at all....what do i do? can I be without a true father in my life....or do i really need me....he is HONESTLY hurting me more now than he has EVER helped me!!!! Help please......

2006-10-20 07:04:44 · 7 answers · asked by ~Welcome Abigail Grace~ 2 in Family

Do you judge each situation by the guy or do you always do the same thing?

2006-10-20 07:03:51 · 29 answers · asked by mydollar 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 24 y/o with a situation. I am about to move out of my parents house in with my Boyfriend. My parents are very traditional, and I think they will have a problem with it. I am planning on moving with or without their support, but I want to know what's the easiest way to break the news. Thanks!

2006-10-20 07:03:41 · 11 answers · asked by flwrgyrl 2 in Singles & Dating

When meeting for a coffee. Jeans and a white T-shirt a suit or just a nice shirt and pants?

2006-10-20 07:03:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 07:03:26 · 30 answers · asked by sammy 2 in Friends

now i know that this queston isnt in the right category but in the right one no one even goes there!

2006-10-20 07:03:19 · 1 answers · asked by Wind Chime 4 in Singles & Dating

we broke up 2 weeks ago because he was cheating on me! after that every one told me he still liked me and that he wanted to go back with me but i knew that some 1 that does it 1s can do it again and again! tomorrow at a basketball game hes going to be there and I dont know how am I going to react nor how my feelings!! what do i do??!

2006-10-20 07:03:14 · 9 answers · asked by PAULINA A 1 in Singles & Dating

I usually just let him ask me my name(which is fake.lol), finish my drink/food, get up, and say, "I'm sorry but I have to go now.*smile*"

2006-10-20 07:01:32 · 12 answers · asked by Twins 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, my boyfriend's mother is very over bearing. She wants call my boyfriend out of work tonight, because his sister got married today at the justice of peace and they are having dinner tonight. He told them he had work tonight, but they insist on calling him out telling his supervisor that it's a family emergency. My boyfriend is really unsure about what to do, he doesn't want to disappoint his family but can't afford to get into trouble at work/maybe get fired, or points on his record. He really wants me to make the decision for him, but I tend to stay out of it, and tell him that he needs to do what's best for him and his job.

They don't seem to understand that he told them he had to work, and they know he works nights, so I'm so put in the middle. They want to me rally with them to get him out of work and I just can't.

What would you suggest? Should I take a stand and tell him to go to work?

2006-10-20 07:00:05 · 22 answers · asked by Amber M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-20 06:59:50 · 15 answers · asked by tee 2 in Singles & Dating

I am married with a 2 month daughter, I love my husband very much and he treats me so good. I have been having dreams of my ex but we broke up 2 years ago because he cheated on me. And we dont talk or anything, why am I having thease dreams... I have them alot about him

2006-10-20 06:59:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

could posibly be using me. should i stay friends with the guy that lks me but dosent want to go out with me or should i go for the guy that lks me but posibly be using me?

2006-10-20 06:58:55 · 8 answers · asked by Sabrina B 2 in Singles & Dating

me and girlfriend been having some issue, i just want to do something special with my family. Any ideas?

2006-10-20 06:58:40 · 6 answers · asked by savage_linx 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-20 06:58:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What internet site can I use to find an email address? Looking for an old friend, and every site I try tells me to sign up for this or that and pay $14.99 or costs just to get a flippin email address. Is there any truly free email address finder?

2006-10-20 06:58:01 · 1 answers · asked by dsamsonite 1 in Friends

My fiance cheated on me and I have forgiven him. We are now in the process of trying to rebuild our relationship. He has told the other girl that he does not want to be with her. Now the other girl is harassing me (calling me nonstop) and is harrassing my man (she is calling him nonstop). I realize that this is my man's responsibility to get rid of this situation.

What should I do??? Sometimes I just want to cuss her out...but for now...I am just leaving it alone and not answering my phone.

Will this girl ever leave us alone???

Has anyone ever been in a similar situation? What have you done???

2006-10-20 06:57:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Without obtaining a lawyer does anyone know a cost effective way to be awarded visitation with a grandchild?

2006-10-20 06:57:38 · 3 answers · asked by Joni D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to work from home
I would like to find someone to take care of me seceretly

2006-10-20 06:57:34 · 1 answers · asked by candy209 1 in Friends

I'd like to have something cute or clever to say to people, as "my line" that goes with my sexy ladybug costume. Even if it's a bit kinky, I'm open to suggestions!!!

2006-10-20 06:57:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am good looking have a good job not tuns of cash but I have fun I am nice but firm when needed I can hold a conversation and I think I'm doing just fine the other areas what in the hell am I doing wrong? please give me good answers

2006-10-20 06:57:12 · 11 answers · asked by Since birth 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have recently moved from illinios to california. he has warrants in illinois and cannot go back there without facing alot of time in prison. illinois however will not extradite him back to illinois and hes working a great job at an electric company. i just found out i am carrying his baby and we have been together for only one year but we do love each other very much. my family wants me to go back to illinois to have the baby and support me. and i feel bad for leaving my boyfriend. he also is willing to be a responsible dad and support me. i feel so confused and worried that there's no right decision that i can make. please help me. if you were in my shoes were would you live. back in illinois were your family is and where you grew up or in california where you and your boyfriend could live a life together?

2006-10-20 06:57:01 · 22 answers · asked by mbme_3 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My Bday is Oct.2. I'm a Libra.

2006-10-20 06:56:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have recently moved from illinios to california. he has warrants in illinois and cannot go back there without facing alot of time in prison. illinois however will not extradite him back to illinois and hes working a great job at an electric company. i just found out i am carrying his baby and we have been together for only one year but we do love each other very much. my family wants me to go back to illinois to have the baby and support me. and i feel bad for leaving my boyfriend. he also is willing to be a responsible dad and support me. i feel so confused and worried that there's no right decision that i can make. please help me. if you were in my shoes were would you live. back in illinois were your family is and where you grew up or in california where you and your boyfriend could live a life together?

2006-10-20 06:56:06 · 7 answers · asked by mbme_3 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What I mean is what age range do guys date women?

2006-10-20 06:55:55 · 14 answers · asked by CUTIE PIE 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl thats 21. she had been freinds with my older brother untill he left for college, and now she hangs with me all the time. I've liked her for a year now, and i'm pretty sure she might like me. she's 3 and 1/2 years older than me, and im not sure what to do. i dont want to ask her, becouse if im wrong one of my best freinds is gone, and my bro would be furios. i cant tell wether the flurting and fooling around we do is becouse we like eachother, or if its becouse she thinks me as a little brother. please help! thanx!

2006-10-20 06:55:34 · 16 answers · asked by fenomenoexcepcionaldelfutbol 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 06:54:24 · 14 answers · asked by gen2 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i got my tubes tyed like 2 years ago and i have 4 kids yes all by the same man but i have fallin in love and i want to give this man a baby so baddly i cry at times it costs 10,000 to get it reversed like ill ever have that kind of money.. im so damn sad and mad at myself i just thought at that time no one would want me with 4 kids and love them as there own so i did it.. and this man loves my kids and treats them as his own but i want to give him a baby.. im sad i need cheering up....

2006-10-20 06:54:19 · 11 answers · asked by Diana K 2 in Other - Family & Relationships