My boyfriend and I have recently moved from illinios to california. he has warrants in illinois and cannot go back there without facing alot of time in prison. illinois however will not extradite him back to illinois and hes working a great job at an electric company. i just found out i am carrying his baby and we have been together for only one year but we do love each other very much. my family wants me to go back to illinois to have the baby and support me. and i feel bad for leaving my boyfriend. he also is willing to be a responsible dad and support me. i feel so confused and worried that there's no right decision that i can make. please help me. if you were in my shoes were would you live. back in illinois were your family is and where you grew up or in california where you and your boyfriend could live a life together?
2006-10-20 06:56:06 · 7 answers · asked by mbme_3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would say stay with you boyfriend if you are really in love and he loves you. Maybe your parents will send you money to help.. Good luck.
2006-10-20 06:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, what a decision to make. You don't mention your age so I have to assume that you are an adult and can make your own decision. It sounds as if your boyfriend does indeed love you and wants to make a home and start a family with you. Unfortunately, with warrants out for his arrest, you would always feel that you and your family would be "on the run". Is there no way that you could talk to your boyfriend doing the right thing and serving his time in Illinois Perhaps with a good attorney and a good reference from the company that he works for, he might get a reduced sentence. You could then start off with a clean slate.
2006-10-20 14:02:30 · answer #2 · answered by Jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u feel like he is the man 4 ur lifetime, stay with him and ask ur family to go to ur place to receive the baby with u. And then, u may go and visit the rest of them, for a while.
Do not leave him, good guys r not everywhere..
Hope this help u!
2006-10-20 13:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by jalina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The child deserves to have both parents in its life. Why would you let this happen if you were not willing to stay together? I don't see the problem.
2006-10-20 14:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by smartypants909 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in California. You are LUCKY to have a boyfriend who'll stick by you. It's not your family's responsibility.
2006-10-20 13:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by tumbleweed1954 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give it a shot with your boyfriend.
Good luck!
2006-10-20 13:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by Edit_Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart... that simple.
2006-10-20 13:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by joe d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋