Family & Relationships - 20 October 2006

A few months ago, a friend pointed out to me that I am a flirt. While discussing it with my cousins, my MALE cousin said "Yea, your an equal oppurtunity flirt, you flirt with eeeveryone." my FEMALE cousin said "No, I think you are just being nice."

So, what, in our opinion, is the difference? Does flirting involve more touching? More smiling? or is the line too thin to define?

2006-10-20 07:40:58 · 27 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

Ladies, what do you like for a guy to do/ say when he approachs you for the first time trying to get to know you?

2006-10-20 07:40:51 · 13 answers · asked by Papi C 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this boy and i dont know how to tell him. tryst me he is every thing a girl can want. i like him so much i just cant tell him i want to go out with him. (he already no that i like him)

2006-10-20 07:40:25 · 6 answers · asked by Ms. Complicated 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 07:40:17 · 8 answers · asked by Vulgar 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughter's boyfriend of 2+ years has requested that we meet for lunch. He will be asking for my approval to "move to the next step". They are both 25, college grads, etc.

2006-10-20 07:39:46 · 15 answers · asked by Future father-in-law 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She is 31 and is quite good looking and in great shape but sometimes not so nice. I am tired of hand washing her stankin panties. Especially when she gets back from the gym. They aren't that damn delicate! And good lord, how do they get THAT dirty? Women, do you use your underwear as toilet paper? Holy crap! With emphasis on the word crap.

2006-10-20 07:39:43 · 26 answers · asked by cannonball 1 in Singles & Dating

I have serious problems deciphering whether a girl is just flirting or really likes me. How can I tell the difference?

2006-10-20 07:39:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WHAT do you think of while making love to your spouse/lover...

2006-10-20 07:39:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 16 years old and i think im ugly. Everytime i look in the mirror i think im so ugly. i dont even try to look nice do my hair or put make up because im still gonna feel ugly. No guys come up to me or say im pretty just guys i dont like that im not attracted to.So i wonder why is that wats the reason? Am i not attractive why dont i attract guys i like? My friends have boyfriends but i dont know why i dont have one. If a guy that i like likes me why haven't they tried to talk to me why only guys i dont like? please help me i need some advice.

2006-10-20 07:39:29 · 16 answers · asked by agui 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 07:39:07 · 5 answers · asked by some black guy 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys how come even if you dump a girl, you may still contact her later on just to see what's going on in her life? Why do guys do this? And do you do this to all of your ex girlfriends or only the ones you still like? Why are you still curious and ask nosy questions even though YOU ended the relationship?
Why care at all?

2006-10-20 07:37:40 · 11 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

do u know about Vanilla Ice

2006-10-20 07:37:01 · 8 answers · asked by D Simon 1 in Singles & Dating

throughout my life it seems that women tend to like jerks way better then the "nice guy". I consider myself a nice guy, but i will sy that i have been a jerk a few occasions. But i have friends who are total dillweeds and women flock.......I always thought a girl would want a man who would bend over backwards for them...well i used to think that anyway..now not soo sure.
How about a look into that maze u girls call a head and help me out...

2006-10-20 07:35:34 · 25 answers · asked by ezrax7 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm very depress right now . I just dont feel love anymore . My boyfriend is so busy at work and at shcool and I understand . But we used to spend alot of time together. Like we used to . We're both in college and he told me he want's to get married and have kids after we get out . But he also busy with his family . But I never met them . He says it's not me , but his family. Anyways he always tells me he loves me . but I dont feel it . I want to tell him how I feel , but everytime I do , I break down and cry and he gets sad. The other thing is he sometimes has to cancel our date . We we're supossed to go and see Nightmare Before Christmas to day . But now I have to wait tomorrow. I always get my hopes high. I dont want to leave him , his a sweet guy , I just wish he understood how I feel. And I want him to open up to me . And treat me right. I always take care of him and I love him. What should I do ?

2006-10-20 07:35:13 · 13 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 07:34:45 · 39 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

french kissing, nibbling on the ear, sex, makingout, or anything i havent said because my boyfriend likes something that i do but i dont know what it is !!!!!!!!! HELP!!!!!

Nikki <333"S Ya!!!!

2006-10-20 07:34:32 · 15 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok im going to get married in Dec and me and my fiance are about to go register what are normal things to register for?

2006-10-20 07:34:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-10-20 07:33:30 · 59 answers · asked by ♥moe3030♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years.. I'm 24 and he's 27.. There is this girl that goes downtown to the same bar as we do.. everytime I'm not around she is always talkin to him, wanting to shoot pool with him, but when I am there she doesnt' talk to him. So I was thinkin something was up. I told my boyfriend that I thought she liked him and he was like.. oh no were just friends thats all and thats all it will ever be.. well I asked her if she likes my boyfriend and she told me no and all this other stuff. So as weeks go by it's still the same where I find out if I'm not out then she's around him all the time.. so of course i'm gonna think that she likes him.. But I told her 2 weeks ago that I was just going to drop the whole thing. well lastnight because I was not out she went and told my bf that I was asking her if there was anything goin on between them in wich I didn't ask that.. she twisted my words around and my bf is now mad at me. So idk what to do now.

2006-10-20 07:33:19 · 12 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-20 07:33:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've got beautiful emrald green eyes and everyone loves them! If I'm just casually talking to one of my friends or even people I just meet they tell me how beautiful my eyes are. I can be walking in the mall and people will stop me and ask me about my eyes. I get sorta shy sometimes and I don't like to look into peoples eyes becouse no matter what we're talking about people always get on the subject of my eyes. Guys text me and tell me to send them pictures of my eyes. Ive started wearing sunglasses alot becouse people just wanna talk about my eyes!!! How can i overcome this shyness?!?

2006-10-20 07:32:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 07:31:58 · 21 answers · asked by osunumberonefan 5 in Singles & Dating

Well, I knew my "man" was searching the net for other "ladies". We "broke up" months ago. Yet, he had me to his his house every weekend, with my daughter. We would have sex like he hasn't done it in a week. Well, again, I found his profile on a sex/date network, I created a fake profile and e-mailed him. He answered me back while I was 10 feet away on his couch at 11 pm, just before WE were to go to bed! The next day I gathered my stuff and told him to never call me again! I've been pulling him along for 2 weeks, when should I drop the "Bomb" on this @sshole? He's been cheating with ME?

2006-10-20 07:31:30 · 21 answers · asked by onereallywhitewitch 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a guy for about one year but he never wants to talk about future plans but he says he loves me and is content with just dating me right now, is this normal or is he leading me on?

2006-10-20 07:31:17 · 13 answers · asked by Dreamer 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 07:30:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Been friends with him for almost a year and are pretty close, but recently-about a month now-when he mentions girls to me (some love interests) he keeps implying that im jealous in a joky way. Sometimes he implies but other times he's direct.

Eg. he said to me "hypothetically, what would you do or say if i told u i have a g/f?" and i replied "i wouldnt do or say anything, but id be curious to know who she is"
and then he replied "yeah, and then after that you'd probably hunt her down and tell her to stay away from 'my (***)' "

stuff like that

and he keeps mentioning girls to me, even though i know that he hasnt got a g/f but he claims to fancy this girl at his uni

Some say that he tries to make me jealous and play with my mind, whereas others say that he just wants to joke and chat about these girls he is interested in
If i talk to him about it, im worried that either i'll embarass HIM or MYSELF!

I dont know what to think or do - any advice?

2006-10-20 07:29:55 · 12 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Friends

Do you like when your wife/husband attack you in bed??? I mean is foreplay always necessary???


***Just another "Chillin @ Work" question from SJ***

2006-10-20 07:29:50 · 19 answers · asked by **What??** 4 in Marriage & Divorce

(Serious answers only please~not in the mood for jokes or smart behinds!)
Ok......so i screwed up.......had several cell phone conversations with a male co-worker-no physical relationship...phone conversations have been going on for about 2 months.....i am "flirty" anyway (drives my husband crazy) ........so is the male co-worker..........my husband found the cell bill and now is tracking my every move and phone call.........i have had no further contact with the co-worker........and am no longer working at the employer.........i want to rebuild our trust.....and save our marriage....i can't imagine my life without my husband......is there anyone out there who has been succesful at rebuilding after such incidents? is it possible? and how did you do it? and how can i change my personality so that it is not mispercieved by men? Thanks in advance for the help! May God Bless you!

2006-10-20 07:29:44 · 26 answers · asked by Carolina Girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-20 07:29:42 · 13 answers · asked by Nonna 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Kids live with me but visit Dad frequently he has a temper and the kids just recently witnessed him kick thier dogs in anger ~~ kids are scared and want to stay home with me.

2006-10-20 07:28:57 · 9 answers · asked by sinneragain 4 in Family