throughout my life it seems that women tend to like jerks way better then the "nice guy". I consider myself a nice guy, but i will sy that i have been a jerk a few occasions. But i have friends who are total dillweeds and women flock.......I always thought a girl would want a man who would bend over backwards for them...well i used to think that anyway..now not soo sure.
How about a look into that maze u girls call a head and help me out...
2006-10-20 07:35:34 · 25 answers · asked by ezrax7 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Becuase some of us are commitment phobic, and think a nice guy is going to want to settle down, have children, and take us home to meet his mother. We kid ourselves that we don't want to be this unreliable, crazy woman in his life, or let him down and hurt his feelings.
Whereas the bad guys don't warrant that kind of attention, they get reduced to what they can do in the bedroom, and provide light entertainment. It also gives us something real to complain to our friends about. Keep looking for that nice girl, she'll be there somewhere! (and she'll treat you good instead of messing with your heart)
2006-10-20 07:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by Nadya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay a nice guy! There are ladies out there right now hoping that a nice guy will find them! Just be patient, and don't worry about that too much because trust me, your time will come. I guess it's the same reason why some decent women wonder why some men only go after the "easy ones/hoes".
Don't change!
2006-10-20 07:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by Chanel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only immature women like the bad boy or jerk...then they grow up to learn you never can change that type and they are actually just self centered and you think...next! or they keep on trying to change them (these are the women who complain constantly that all men are jerks) all the while envious of the women whose men treat them like goddesses. You keep being a nice guy (not a doormat) and you'll find yourself involved in a truly worthwhile relationship that will leave you AND her happy.
2006-10-20 07:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep,some girls love the "bad boy"! This is a fact! He is exciting and does not take orders and is his own man. Just like guys enjoy running after a girls they cannot have, girls like a guy they cannot tame! I don't know why, but that is the way they are. However, I love guys that are not afraid to be a man but appreciate that I am a woman. I love a man who knows how to treat a woman....nice! Not all girls are looking for bad boys! They are off my list!
2006-10-20 07:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of us do want a man to bend over backwards for us. My opinion is...We (I) like to see strength in a man. what I mean by that is...Seems like men that shows a little back bone is a turn on. That's just my opinion. Like me...I like to see the man take over a little bit. I am very independent and I need some body that can say (for example) Sit down Baby and let me do this, or that! Just show me that he is the man. When a women like me has to do everything by herself she gets sometimes so independent and does not ask for help so it's good for me to have that. I hope my answer makes a little sense to you.
2006-10-20 07:49:44 · answer #5 · answered by Child of God 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an age old question, Jerk equates to confident guy that doesn't need any one in a girl/ not woman's eyes.
Be nice be respectful, but don't be a push over and don't be too availible or it's like eating too much candy for them. It's cool at first after a while it makes you sick.
2006-10-20 07:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't always spot jerks out I spot out the loud fun crazy man then later on I find out he's a jerk. The girl wants the powerful strong man who will not treat them like crap. So if you could do that then you'd be in good shape.
2006-10-20 07:43:41 · answer #7 · answered by Harbor R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women who like total jerks have some emotional issues and really do not feel they deserve any better. Keep looking, however, look in another direction, that may be helpful. Good luck and God bless
2006-10-20 07:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it bother you when a girl is constantly asking you what you are thinking?!?!? Yes!?! Well it bothers us too. We like the 'bad boys' because they are in control, they are confident, and they are challenge. All the nice guys I know are always doing what ever their girlfriends say... we want a man, otherwise we would just become Lesbians.
2006-10-20 07:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by baby_girl_8881 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what women say they want, they actually want to be treated like crap. Hence the attraction to jerks.
the opinion of a former nice guy, now a jerk.
2006-10-20 07:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by Coz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋