I have been dating a guy for about one year but he never wants to talk about future plans but he says he loves me and is content with just dating me right now, is this normal or is he leading me on?
2006-10-20 07:31:17 · 13 answers · asked by Dreamer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on a lot of things, age especially.... If you're unhappy with it though, dump him - he doesn't sound like he's in it forever, probably more leading you on...
If, on the other hand, you're fine with just dating "for now" then things are going well... You should talk about it, and if you're not both in the same place commitment wise, maybe you should think about ending it.
2006-10-20 07:34:46 · answer #1 · answered by Lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's obviously not leading you on, he's been with you for a year. guys don't feel the need to think about the future like girls do. you can believe it when a guy says he wants to be with you forever, and he may feel that way for the time being, but people change everyday. you should take it one day to a time and just enjoy being with him, maybe he feels pressured, and he is sure to push you away if that is the case.
2006-10-20 15:20:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just have a harder time expressing their feelings more than women do. If he says that he loves you than he most or else he wouldn't have stayed with you for a year, right? Just give him alittle longer to figure out just exactly what he wants for a future with you; however, if he waits too much longer with out talking with you about a future that's when I start to question. Good luck.
2006-10-20 14:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by kat81886 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny if I knew the answer to that I would feel content where I am at now I guess it is something that we will never know and there realy is nothing that will make us sure that they will be ours and faithful. Make sure everything you do is what you want and be the best you can for him and if it's not enough for him then he's not the one. I think your all right.
2006-10-20 14:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by Harbor R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was leading you on, he would tell you that he wanted to get married but then not follow through. It's only been a year, take a pill, and chill.
2006-10-20 14:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by Ross B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's normal for a guy. He's not leading you on.
2006-10-20 14:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never talks about your future together>>> leading you on- yes.
2006-10-20 14:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i dont think that its a for sure way to tell but if he loves you and you love him then right now its really nothing to worry about
2006-10-20 14:42:33 · answer #8 · answered by gurl_balla14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normal
2006-10-20 14:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by harry_potter_kid 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he gets a tatoo of ur name on him somewhere.......or if he makes a scene about how much he luvs u in public....
2006-10-20 14:34:21 · answer #10 · answered by sam r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋