I'm very depress right now . I just dont feel love anymore . My boyfriend is so busy at work and at shcool and I understand . But we used to spend alot of time together. Like we used to . We're both in college and he told me he want's to get married and have kids after we get out . But he also busy with his family . But I never met them . He says it's not me , but his family. Anyways he always tells me he loves me . but I dont feel it . I want to tell him how I feel , but everytime I do , I break down and cry and he gets sad. The other thing is he sometimes has to cancel our date . We we're supossed to go and see Nightmare Before Christmas to day . But now I have to wait tomorrow. I always get my hopes high. I dont want to leave him , his a sweet guy , I just wish he understood how I feel. And I want him to open up to me . And treat me right. I always take care of him and I love him. What should I do ?
2006-10-20 07:35:13 · 13 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We been going out for three years.
2006-10-20 07:40:07 · update #1
The reason he doesn't want me to meet his family cause he doesn't like them.
2006-10-20 07:43:43 · update #2
My friends are begiening to hate him cause he's makeing me feel this way.
2006-10-20 08:01:25 · update #3
And he wonders why.
2006-10-20 08:01:50 · update #4
You are too young to be in such a serious relationship and it is making you miserable. It's time to date others and see what you're missing. If it is meant to work out, it will. In the meantime, enjoy your youth. It will be over too soon.
2006-10-20 07:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you guys love each other, just maybe he has a lot going on right now.....maybe you can try and tell him that you can help with his stuff, or try studying together, that way, even if you aren't talking you can feel his presence and know he is there.....I am sorry because maybe you don't want to hear this, but maybe you are thinking so much about how you feel and how you want him to spend more time on you, that you can't see how much he has going on......try stepping into his shoes for once, try talking to him about how he's always busy, but don't start crying, just tell him that you want him to talk to you about everything he has going on, that way you can understand better and maybe work around it.... Good Luck!!
2006-10-20 14:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by Honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so emotionally attached right now. You need to be more understanding if he has a good reason for canceling with you. If he doesn't have a good reason, maybe he is seeing someone else. If he doesn't want you to meet his family, you question why. Why is he trying to hide you or what is he trying to keep you from seeing. You have every right to ask him what his intentions are with you and what he want from this relations. You have every right to be a strong grown-up and voice your emotions without the waterworks. You have every right to move on if this is not working for you anymore.
2006-10-20 14:41:13 · answer #3 · answered by truly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is a problem now...it will be a bigger problem later if you get married! I have the same problem with my husband and his hunting, but anytime I say something it's just a fight, so to keep the peace, I keep my mouth shut. Be very careful in relationships where you are not in the proper priority slot that you should be in. A great relationship is one where you can talk and share your feelings freely, consider very carefully what you want in the future and then talk to your man.
2006-10-20 14:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by ltlchk_2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look you need to let him know how you feel whether you cry or break down. If he loves you then he also needs to make time for you and if he can't do that then he has no business having a girlfriend with his kind of schedule.
2006-10-20 14:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh! girl I am going through the same exact thing!! he never opens up to me and I am wondering the same thing, do you think they still really love us or they just want us there for now, I cant figure it out either. My boyfriend is always into his job, he puts that before anything else. I dont have an answer but I want one too!
2006-10-20 14:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by Dreamer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't break up with him, Give him more room. If that doesn't work then tell him ho you feel, over the phone, in person even when he is in a hurry, in a letter ot him, e-mail him, just let him know how you are feeling before it gets worst.
2006-10-20 14:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by i.d.k.u. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been dating?? never met his family??? huh sounds fishy to me
if he says he really wants you then why not meet his family???
i would check into that something is not right
2006-10-20 14:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by junebug_jewel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u have to do is to just build up the courage and tell him how u feel. u're only hurting urself more and more if u continue to be like this
2006-10-20 14:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by dimples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm.. i think he love u and i hope it will get better.about him sometimes cancel the dates he might have a good reason.
i hope i was helped you.have a nice day!
2006-10-20 14:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by eranyz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋