Family & Relationships - 20 October 2006

it has been 10 years since we last heard or seen her. her mom wanted the parental rights taken away, but i refused to those terms. she was upset about it, i went back the next day they were gone
at that time we lived almost 2 hours away, the next day after the disagreement, she took everything she owned and moved. we don't know if she live in the same city, or did she really take my child back to south korea. i am white, her mom is korean, my child was born in south korea but on u.s soil, i was in the military when i was stationed in south korea and we had a baby girl on the base. she was born in 1992 and lived 4 years here before her mom took off with , so what am i able to do to reunite with my precious daughter. anyone out there that could give me any advise please feel free to answer my very important question we miss our daughter. if there an agency of some sort please email your reply thank you so much.

2006-10-20 07:28:51 · 7 answers · asked by KOOKIEES 1 in Family

2006-10-20 07:28:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im getting married in september and want it to look classy but fun at the same time. Any suggestions?

2006-10-20 07:28:43 · 30 answers · asked by Rita S 2 in Weddings

back. who put it there ant why

2006-10-20 07:28:39 · 16 answers · asked by nikko 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy, but I only know his name, how can I talk to him without making a full of my self? I really like him, but I'm 2 shy 2 flirt.

2006-10-20 07:28:30 · 14 answers · asked by lil miss country gurl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you love them, let them go/give them space and if they come back...

My question is does this really happen? I am at that point now w/ my gf but really for the first time in my life. Just wanted to know if this really works/happens. Any success stories out there? Do any lasting relationships not need this to happen? I am just trying to stay patient and positive but goddam it's tough!

2006-10-20 07:28:10 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

Its wrong for girl to hit her parents back but is it right for her father to raise his hand on his daughter everytime he feels like it,sexually(like watch her change),physically,emotionally abuse her till shes in her 20s even after shes gone through illness recently.Not only that mother gets father on daughters case pretending its daughters fault everytime just so she can go out in the world with no restrictions while father gets on daughters case from childhood to mid 20s?Then why is it wrong when daughter hits back after being so much hurt,trauma,abuse all her life so when it hurts them its pain but what about all the pain this girls been through all her life?This when parents are taking daughters inheritance leaving her penniless,broke.I dont see anything wrong in daughter/girl hitting fighting back to take her life back after childhood to mid20s going through so much.

2006-10-20 07:28:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my bf only see each other on the weekends, we have been dating a little over a year, he says hes afraid that if we see each other too much he might get tired of me. what does this mean?

2006-10-20 07:27:55 · 4 answers · asked by Dreamer 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have been together 2 years and were getting married in one year, we currently live with his best friend due to financial problems and are moving in January but since we moved in with his best friend our sex life has gone to the dogs, lately he hardly even kisses me. We also work opposite hours so a lot of times im asleep when he gets home but i dont mind being "woken up". I try and talk to him about it and I get "what are you talking about?" type answers...

2006-10-20 07:27:46 · 14 answers · asked by hillyzg 1 in Marriage & Divorce

who your talking to?
what you talk about?
how long it lasts?

2006-10-20 07:27:45 · 16 answers · asked by Erikawithasmile 4 in Friends

2006-10-20 07:27:41 · 12 answers · asked by Nonna 3 in Weddings

2006-10-20 07:27:07 · 16 answers · asked by Nonna 3 in Weddings

i'm 22 still a virgin what should i do i'm tired of masterbating with the vacumm cleaner

2006-10-20 07:26:34 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is a good wife but sometimes she talks like I'm an enemy.

2006-10-20 07:26:26 · 7 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Singles & Dating

How is it possible for a married man to have kissed and made out with another woman who was also married at the time. Then a year later those two are still emailing each other about anything and everything general to stay in touch. But it seems that the married man has some new lady friends who he flirts around with and dances with and publicly leaves open comments to in myspace. How is it that he cannot initiate or start a conversation with the woman he kissed even though he writes back to her weekly, sometimes more, and here he is flirting with another 2 women telling them the dance was fun they didn't even need a pole and stuff. What kind of man is he? Does he love the woman he kissed before and he is still in touch with, does he love the 2 women who he flirts with separately now, or does he love his wife, or does he love everyone? Is there any difference. Would you think the married man and married woman who kissed and all still like each other when they are in contact ?

2006-10-20 07:26:21 · 7 answers · asked by toralm1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been going out with this guy for 3 mounths, we have been on one date and i don'tsee him much out side the bus, i see him twice a day, evry school day. But reacently I have noticed we don't seem to be talking so earily and i think the *sparkle* has gone out of our relationship. I would also like it if he was a bit more physical, he gives me a quick peck as i get off the bus but i have only properly snogged him twice but i also seem to be reaching out to stroke his hair etc but I get nothing back. I still want to be friends though. I dated his best friend as well and it ended in the same way, is this what its going to be like with all my relatinships? I'm just really confused, he and I have thought about ending it before, just can someone tell me what to do...

2006-10-20 07:25:22 · 17 answers · asked by midgetryley 1 in Singles & Dating

I stayed out to really late last night and am not sure if I want to go out tonight. Should I stay in and just watch a movie?

2006-10-20 07:25:04 · 22 answers · asked by marie 4 in Singles & Dating

I feel so much sadness and stress over my ex boyfriend who dumped me and this has been going on for months and months now. I wish I could believe I will get over it... I wish I could believe that I'll meet someone better (I don't believe that AT ALL). I'm sounded like a really broken record and I'm just tired of it. I feel so wounded by the way he treated me. He was the first guy that I ever had a real connection with and he wounded me so deeply. How do I let it go?

2006-10-20 07:23:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend contacted me on msn today and I was surprised cuz we haven't spoken in 4 months. He use to say hi to me after he ended it , but he stopped that. That's why I was sooo surprised when he said hi today. We only dated for one month, he ended it 8 months ago saying he was "busy" and it was so innocent, only kissing, cuz he knows I wanna save sex for marriage, so why does he still care? Neways guys, WHY do you so this to your ex-girlfriends? I mean you dump a girl, so why do you contact her later and ask all these nosy questions? My ex was so nosy when he said hi, asking me all these questions, especially about what I wanted to do after university. But what did he REALLY want to know?

I know some may say he was just saying hi to be friendly or was just curious, but WHY is he still trying to be nice or why does he still care what goes on in my life? Guys are soooo weird, they dump a girl, but still wanna know what goes on in her life, WHY??????

2006-10-20 07:23:11 · 7 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

Question -
As of now I still in love to my best friend… I informed him about my feelings but he disappointed me to have a relationship with him instead he advised me to read Quran I followed to his advised but I failed to improved myself. I can control it but what I need is to kill my desire 100%. Now, I’m so depressed, I really love my friend so much… What I will do to revert this feeling into a friend or brother in Islam only without any desire? But why I like him only, I have no interest to any other man except him. Sometimes I was imagining that he was beside me on my bed embracing and making love. (Sorry for my language just to make it clear
what is inside my heart). I really ashamed to Allah(swt) for what had happened to me. Sometimes I was thinking, why I suddenly became like this! I’m not like this before! This is my first experience to in love with my same sex. I hope this is my first and last experienced to in love with someone like him.

2006-10-20 07:22:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have always been friends with guys, my whole life, but not once have i ever had a date. Am i just the friend or am i flat out hopless??

2006-10-20 07:21:58 · 39 answers · asked by BaybeeMacc 1 in Singles & Dating

We had a ridiculously great realtionship for a few months, but lately things have been a little rocky. She has become withdrawn but we have talked about it. She said she is scared she is going to hurt me because she has hurt people in her past relationships. I want to believe her for obvious reasons, but she also said she went to counseling for this stuff a while back but didn't stick w/ it. Now, I'm not naive. I understand this could very well be a situation where she wants someone else but doesn't want to hurt my feelings. If that's what she wants, I'd have a lot easier time letting her go if she'd just be up front. Any suggestions for getting to the bottom of this, getting her to say YES w/out accusing her of lying?

2006-10-20 07:20:07 · 24 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

I just had a 3 week long relationship with this wonderful girl. I felt things that I didn't know I could feel. I was nervous around her as I always am around some girls, but with her it was different; I felt a sort of natural nervousness. I was nervous, but everything seemed so right. She ended it just over a week ago because "she doesn't feel the same way about me." I do though. I wrote her a letter laying out all of my feelings just so they are known. What should I do?

2006-10-20 07:19:45 · 7 answers · asked by smartypeeler 1 in Singles & Dating

i am talking about grown ups. i know older brothers and sisters always give them down to little siblings. what about men and women? wear them until it rips then throw away? sell it on ebay? donate to poor? garage sale? how do people get rid of their old clothes that they dont wear anymore?

2006-10-20 07:19:40 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok well it's like this. I am married and had a very bad marriage with him. He wants to work things out saying he's changed. Which he has I can tell that about him. He used to be a drunk. Now he hardly ever drinks. He is showing me more respect than I ever got before. But here is the other part to it we been seperated for 2 years. He's in the military so which means if i was to get back together with him i would have to move if things were to work out.
My current life style right now I am dating a wonderful guy, he's always showed me the respect that I needed and wanted. He is great couldnt ask for better.
I am confused on what to do. I told my ex that I have someone great that treats me great and that if something was to ever happen with the current guy i am with i would probably think about going back to him. The problem is i love both of them. we have each shared special memories with each other. any advice??

2006-10-20 07:19:01 · 7 answers · asked by SouthernGal 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

'semen' as men do? When we orgasm do we release anything? I have heard that when men go down on a women and they orgasm they have white stuff, but that's never happened to me. My husband seems to think that women don't release anything, and I think we do. If so what does it look like, and how can you tell the difference between men's and womens 'stuff'?

2006-10-20 07:17:58 · 31 answers · asked by Susa 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it holding the door for you? Paying for your dinner or Paying for your car? My view concerning princess treatment is biased. I want a Princess to explain these rules. Educate me!

2006-10-20 07:17:41 · 19 answers · asked by elliott 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 07:17:31 · 7 answers · asked by Desi Prem 2 in Family

My fiance gets drunk with his mother when she comes into town every other weekend. This is on Friday and when I come home from work around 6 he is ready for bed or dosn't come home till very late. We live together and when he dose this I want to hang out with my guy friends that he dosn't like. I feel that I should be able to seems how he is doing something I don't like with out me.

2006-10-20 07:17:25 · 3 answers · asked by Harbor R 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have known this girl for a few months, she is on my sports team and i really like her. I have spent time with her watching a movie with just the 2 of us and what not but I don't know what I should do. Should I kiss her when we're alone or should I ask her out first? Thanks.

2006-10-20 07:16:51 · 16 answers · asked by Adrian J 1 in Singles & Dating