I just had a 3 week long relationship with this wonderful girl. I felt things that I didn't know I could feel. I was nervous around her as I always am around some girls, but with her it was different; I felt a sort of natural nervousness. I was nervous, but everything seemed so right. She ended it just over a week ago because "she doesn't feel the same way about me." I do though. I wrote her a letter laying out all of my feelings just so they are known. What should I do?
2006-10-20 07:19:45 · 7 answers · asked by smartypeeler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you really like this girl, I'd wait a few days so she can think things over and if she still feels other wise about you it'd be nice to remain friends, you never know maybe her feelings will change and grow in time. Good luck!!!
2006-10-20 07:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesnt feel the same way, there is nothing you can do. You cant force her to like you. She knows how you feel, so now you just have to give her space. A lot of space. Girls (and guys) want what they cant have. Just leave her a lone and maybe she'll realize that she does have feelings for you.
Good Luck!
2006-10-20 14:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesnt feel the same way, then you cant force her to be with you, dont make her feel sorry about braking up with you, Its good to be honest I'm not sayin you shouldnt tell the people you "love" how you really feel, all im sayin is dont pour out your heart after she has already told you wut she thinks, she obviously doesnt want to hurt you, i have broken up with guys before because I thought they felt more for me then i did for them, Your gonna find a really great girl someday. Dont give up!
Best of Luck........
2006-10-20 14:29:01 · answer #3 · answered by LC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't feel the same way, there isn't much you can do. Try to move on and you'll find another girl who makes you feel like that but it will be even better because she'll feel the same way. I promise.
2006-10-20 14:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by dontimaginetheyllallcometrue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give her the letter. It will just make you look like a tard. Dude its life. Give her some space. If its meant to be she will be back. But just lay off dude, dont seem all psycho stalker and crap.
2006-10-20 14:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by BoyBlu19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I mean if she doesn't feel anything for you you can't force her to. If she doesn't trust me you will have the smae feelings for someone else aagin. Someone that will appreciate those feelings and feel them back for you.
2006-10-20 14:22:39 · answer #6 · answered by softball_chic35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have done all you can do. All that's left is to wait, but I don't think I would wait too long.
2006-10-20 14:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋